Exotic♕Queen♛ 607 Posted March 1, 2017 Share Posted March 1, 2017 Someone just now tried to hit on me and ask for my name an contact info. He tapped my shoulder and when I turned he said "Muy bonita." I responded with "Um...thank you?" He asked for my name so I lied and said it was Chelsea. Then he asked if I had Instagram or Snapchat. I lied by saying I didn't have any. Just to finally get him to leave me alone, I made one final lie that I was lesbian and it worked. I feel like a wimp for lying instead of saying "Listen, I'm not interested, leave me alone." or something without worrying about coming off as rude. How can I be more confident to be more assertive and aggressive in these types of situations? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sana Minatozaki 3,305 Posted March 1, 2017 Share Posted March 1, 2017 idk i always say that i'm already in a relationship or just say i already like someone (that's not always a lie tho) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nicophos 1,660 Posted March 1, 2017 Share Posted March 1, 2017 or just say im not interested. true it would hurt his feelings but yours are more important- you dont like him. you matter first Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiriWilliams 1,709 Posted March 1, 2017 Share Posted March 1, 2017 I just say "Sorry I'm not interested", if they get pushy I tend to raise my voice it isn't very nice but neither is ignoring what I said. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exotic♕Queen♛ 607 Posted March 1, 2017 Author Share Posted March 1, 2017 or just say im not interested. true it would hurt his feelings but yours are more important- you dont like him. you matter first I just say "Sorry I'm not interested", if they get pushy I tend to raise my voice it isn't very nice but neither is ignoring what I said. That's easier said than done for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nev Schulman 7,948 Posted March 1, 2017 Share Posted March 1, 2017 "Sorry I enjoy being single" "Sorry I enjoy being single" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
delirium 4,237 Posted March 1, 2017 Share Posted March 1, 2017 Practice saying no in the mirror and to fam and friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
í™©ì œë‹˜ 팬 4,702 Posted March 1, 2017 Share Posted March 1, 2017 "i'm not interested, leave me alone" doesn't work on the persistent type.. so sometimes you'll have to lie either way Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nicophos 1,660 Posted March 1, 2017 Share Posted March 1, 2017 That's easier said than done for me. still, it needs to be done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Decretum 120 Posted March 2, 2017 Share Posted March 2, 2017 By saying, "No, I am not interested." If it was me, I would rather someone tell me the truth, than lie to my face. I'm not an idiot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alt 764 Posted March 2, 2017 Share Posted March 2, 2017 By saying, "No, I am not interested." If it was me, I would rather someone tell me the truth, than lie to my face. I'm not an idiot. as a guy, I agree. you answered him three questions. You probably seemed like "I'm not an easy girl" rather than "I'm not interested" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TickleMePink 17,072 Posted March 3, 2017 Share Posted March 3, 2017 "I'm not interested, sorry" which isn't mean If they don't stop, well then I'd be harsher Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted March 3, 2017 Share Posted March 3, 2017 I think you did fine but you just can say 'NO' to all his requests, that should do it also. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna Warsian 180 Posted March 4, 2017 Share Posted March 4, 2017 You can say something that you will do in future. It still a truths. Ex: "Sorry man, I will get married soon. You don't want to get trouble with my hubby,right?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adelightfulsong 1,656 Posted March 4, 2017 Share Posted March 4, 2017 . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seras 2,657 Posted March 4, 2017 Share Posted March 4, 2017 Honestly sometimes it's easier to just lie, depending on the the type of person you're dealing with. If a stranger and he seems nice: Tell him the truth: "Sorry I'm not interested." If a stranger and he seems like the type to give you shit for rejecting him: "Sorry, I already have a boyfriend." If you know him, either a little or you've known him for long time: 1. "I see you as just a friend." 2. "You're like (or remind me of) my brother/cousin/uncle etc." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exotic♕Queen♛ 607 Posted March 30, 2017 Author Share Posted March 30, 2017 You can say something that you will do in future. It still a truths. Ex: "Sorry man, I will get married soon. You don't want to get trouble with my hubby,right?" Eeeyyyyyy! Sent from my iPad using OneHallyu mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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