sunshinetrbl 783 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 I'm just curious what your stance on sex before marriage is? Originally I thought it was better to stay a virgin until getting married but like literally all of my friends have done it and it's all of a sudden not that big of a deal to me anymore? Are my morals deteriorating because of my friends or something? no one's pressuring me and my friends respect my decisions but I feel like I've changed the way I think... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xar 884 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 kek fuck if u wanna fuck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doki-doki 21,660 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 Marriage is just a contract lol, I think as long as you're being safe, sex before marriage is of course, natural & fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prince Ten ♚ 3,050 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 Marriage is just a contract lol, I think as long as you're being safe, sex before marriage is of course, natural & fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ninedaysqueen 3,134 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 my stance, like with most things, is do what makes you comfortable. if you don't want to have sex before marriage, that's your purgative and I respect that. If you want to have nightly orgies, same thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cheshire Cat 2,441 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeeYaWithYou 4,415 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 I would never marry someone without having had sex with them first. Sexual chemistry is important for a long term relationship, and if it isn't there then I know it wouldn't work out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suckmyass 13 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 i think its okay to have or not have sexual relations before marriage but dont you want to test drive the car before you buy it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
otter. 3,413 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 If it is no big deal in your culture, just do it But if it is not welcome in your culture, just don't. It's not as good as you think it is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet Perfume 1,472 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 Train your sexual skills before marriage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
delirium 4,237 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 I've been taking care of this body for a long bloody time so you're definitely making the commitment before I trust you with it. I'm not invested in others and don't care what they do with theirs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HardWorkBeatTalent 1,096 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 Morality is not proportional to sex life btw. My stance is just have fun, try stuff but make sure you are protected. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lee Bye 154 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 If you want to have sex before marriage, go for it. Just don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. If you want to wait, then wait. If you don't want to wait, then don't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boba 3,795 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 there's absolutely nothing wrong with premarital sex, don't let some five thousand year old book guilt you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lee Bye 154 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 Weird spamming double post sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aneira3019 1,017 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 Whatever the person wants to do is fine, whether they want to wait or not is up to them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LisaVandercunt 19 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 Marriage is becoming antiquated. I guess for those religious people purity and abstinence from sex until the wedding night are important values. For me I don't care. but I also have a mindset of the best way to get over someone is to get under someone new. So who am I to judge whether someone is a virgin or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edoc 94 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 Now I'm thinking about them asexuals. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LisaVandercunt 19 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 Now I'm thinking about them asexuals. How is that even possible? I mean c'mon now, even Catholic priests and nuns who are required to be celibate are raping children left and right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NEO BOY 669 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 who cares? I don't find anything wrong with just casual sex, either.. I don't think anyone is a 'slut' if they like to sleep around with people. just as long as it's consensual, and it's not mentally or emotionally damaging anyone I don't think it's anyone's business. sex is a completely natural occurance and I don't think you need to be 'in love' with someone to have it, but I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to save yourself for the one you love, either. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MelanatedBeauty 13,664 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 NUHBODY AFFI KNOW SeH MI AND U AH FUCK NUH BODY AFFI KNOW SeH YOU AH GIVe IT UP NUH BODY AFFI KNOW SeH YUH COMe INNA MI YARD!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♥SNS-Shinomiya♥ 420 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 I am still a virgin. The one time I thought about having sex I looked at all the people I knew who had had sex and realized three things. All the girls I knew who were single parents were not married when they had sex. All the girls I knew who had sex before they got married, thier personality changed afterwards. They started to dress sexy and change thier appearance by wearing heavier makeup. Lastly, I noticed that most of the people who had sex before they were married never had just had one partner. I had a lady scare me about what abortion when I was 16 was so I chose the best route to ensure that would not be my life, no sex. I feel like if I am married and had sex, I at least can say that my partner was from committed relationships (or the most legit form). Obviously the 16 year old virgin me and the almost 25 year old virgin me are different. However because I withheld my choice (as my mother would say). I have had time to think about weither my decision was right or wrong. Coming from a religious background helps, but I have not suffered from not having sex. I am still able to have and be loved, without having to worry about babies or an STD (mostly). Its all about making the choice and then (in your older age) understand why you made the choice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noctua 1,866 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 It's OK. You should do whatever makes your more comfortable. And there's nothing wrong with your views changing, it's bound to happen. We won't think exactly the same over stuff during our whole lifetime. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deviandrepepe 6,559 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 You know if you want to have sex everyday with a different person, good for you . If you want to never have sex until you're 40 or even never, Good for you too. Society should stop pressuring to have or not have sex. It's none of their fucking business,. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nsfwwww 5,298 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 Sexual chemistry is extremely important in most relationships IMO, I could never wait that long. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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