otter. 3,413 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 They broke up like 6 months ago. They never spoke during this period. That guy almost never crosses my friend's mind.After 6 months, that guy texted her "Wasn't this break long enough?" and my friend's heart beated so fast. Do you think she still likes him? If she gets back to him, they are probably gonna get married soon because they were talking about marriage before they broke up. What should my friend do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honeystan 10,291 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 I don't know. Mess to be honest. If they like each other and it wasn't toxic, sure. My boyfriend from like six years ago tried to get back with me and I'm like what? At least 6 months is a bit more reasonable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ego ista 1,344 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 Depends on why they broke up, if they were in a toxic relationship, only used each other for sex etc. But in general I'm just seeing red flags everywhere Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pineapple 7,592 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 Honestly, if she didn't think about him for 6 months, that's probably a pretty good sign she was over him/the relationship. I think that anytime an ex that you split from without animosity comes back into your life wanting to resurrect things, no matter your feelings, you get a rush from it. Whether that rush is truly based around feelings for that ex, or just the excitement/vindication that comes from someone admitting they miss and want you back is what your friend will have to think about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
otter. 3,413 Posted February 28, 2017 Author Share Posted February 28, 2017 Honestly, if she didn't think about him for 6 months, that's probably a pretty good sign she was over him/the relationship. I think that anytime an ex that you split from without animosity comes back into your life wanting to resurrect things, no matter your feelings, you get a rush from it. Whether that rush is truly based around feelings for that ex, or just the excitement/vindication that comes from someone admitting they miss and want you back is what your friend will have to think about. You have a point. She thinks she does not like him anymore due to this. But it just does not make sense why she got that excited. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sunshinetrbl 783 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 depends on a lott of things. why did they break up in the first place? how long were they together for before they broke up? how did ur friend get over the break up? did she get over it easily? what do their parents think of each other? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
otter. 3,413 Posted February 28, 2017 Author Share Posted February 28, 2017 depends on a lott of things. why did they break up in the first place? how long were they together for before they broke up? how did ur friend get over the break up? did she get over it easily? what do their parents think of each other? They just could not get over some obstacles in their relationship (really important obstacles). They dated for 2 years. She got over him easily just focusing other stuff. Guy's family is ok with my friend but my friend's family is not ok with him. (They think that guy is not good enough for him) There is a big chance they will get back to break up point after their honey moon period ended because there is no chance they can solve that big problem of them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ninedaysqueen 3,134 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 I wouldn't go back if it were me, especially if I didn't think about him for that long Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugarplumfairy 701 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 Honestly, if she didn't think about him for 6 months, that's probably a pretty good sign she was over him/the relationship. I think that anytime an ex that you split from without animosity comes back into your life wanting to resurrect things, no matter your feelings, you get a rush from it. Whether that rush is truly based around feelings for that ex, or just the excitement/vindication that comes from someone admitting they miss and want you back is what your friend will have to think about. You took the words right out of my mouth. But yeah, basically. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TickleMePink 17,072 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 It's been 6 months, plus she seems over him. I wouldn't start dating again if I was in that position Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miharudesu 1,916 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 They just could not get over some obstacles in their relationship (really important obstacles). They dated for 2 years. She got over him easily just focusing other stuff. Guy's family is ok with my friend but my friend's family is not ok with him. (They think that guy is not good enough for him) There is a big chance they will get back to break up point after their honey moon period ended because there is no chance they can solve that big problem of them. I think, based on this, you already know the answer to your question. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ripiaoppa 15,307 Posted March 1, 2017 Share Posted March 1, 2017 Honestly, if she didn't think about him for 6 months, that's probably a pretty good sign she was over him/the relationship. I think that anytime an ex that you split from without animosity comes back into your life wanting to resurrect things, no matter your feelings, you get a rush from it. Whether that rush is truly based around feelings for that ex, or just the excitement/vindication that comes from someone admitting they miss and want you back is what your friend will have to think about. just another user agreeing with the wise pinnaple Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annafyre 263 Posted March 1, 2017 Share Posted March 1, 2017 I don't think her heart beating fast is indicative of she still being in love with him, that's only true in movies and such. I think they need to talk this out and then decide. She must not jump back in just like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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