Ginger91 195 Posted February 21, 2017 Share Posted February 21, 2017 I need help because I have a crush on a girl in my class. She calls me her wife and everything but I don't think she has any meaning behind it. She compliments me and stuff but that's about all. We used to kiss each other on the cheek too lol. But now I've developed romantic feelings for her. I smile when I'm around her, I find her attractive and I really like her personality. She is sometimes annoying to my friends and I but I can't stop liking her. She's pansexual so I'm not worried about the typical 'falling for a straight girl' shit but she just broke up with her boyfriend so I feel like it's a bad time to develop these feelings. She also has a crush on a guy in our class so I'm beginning to think she's really straight tho lol I'm debating whether or not to confess that I like her tomorrow or not. Should I? Please help me because lord knows I need some advice. I've never confessed my feelings to anyone before lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annafyre 263 Posted February 21, 2017 Share Posted February 21, 2017 Well, I don't know how to tackle this but if you are best friends I wouldn't tell her incase she rejects you and it ruins the friendship. If you can accept the fact that she might reject you and you probably won't be friends anymore, tell her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HardWorkBeatTalent 1,096 Posted February 21, 2017 Share Posted February 21, 2017 The possibility is like this, If she is pan sexual, 1) You confess, she except you become a couple: a) You stay with her forever, get married etc b) You broke up with her, you lost a friend. If you are still friend, it will be awkward. 2) You confess and she reject. a) both of you stay together as friend but not as close b) Friendship is over If she not, 1) She understand your feeling but reject you a) both of yo still friend and no awkward feeling b) both of you will be awkward when you have skinship with her 2) She don't understand you feeling a) If she hated it, you lost a friend. b) If she good with it, the situation will be awkward. So by the end of the day, the risk is huge!!! I you're dare then do it, if not just admire her as a friend, it will painful but you will get over it. SO consolation song for you, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OOkz0PV8UK0 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alt 764 Posted February 21, 2017 Share Posted February 21, 2017 The possibility is like this, If she is pan sexual, 1) You confess, she except you become a couple: a) You stay with her forever, get married etc b) You broke up with her, you lost a friend. If you are still friend, it will be awkward. 2) You confess and she reject. a) both of you stay together as friend but not as close b) Friendship is over If she not, 1) She understand your feeling but reject you a) both of yo still friend and no awkward feeling b) both of you will be awkward when you have skinship with her 2) She don't understand you feeling a) If she hated it, you lost a friend. b) If she good with it, the situation will be awkward. So by the end of the day, the risk is huge!!! I you're dare then do it, if not just admire her as a friend, it will painful but you will get over it. SO consolation song for you, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OOkz0PV8UK0 Completely agreed. The risk is pretty high. Do you think it pays for it? If I were you, I'd analyze the situation a bit more. Try some hints, to get more physical contact, check if she accepts and/or like it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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