XUANYI 1,869 Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 english isn't my first language so- please don't mind me. At first, I know, talking about your private things in public is a little bit meh, right but I think I really need some opinions from all of you (the blog's reader) regarding to the problem that I am currently facing. Sure, some people said you don't even have to talk about these things to other people but you know it's just hard for me to keep these things deep inside my heart by myself. I have to let it out; to tell you because I think it's a must for me. So let's get started and beware some cursings might happen and it's going to be a long story so yup read it if you want. Before you continue reading, firstly, I am a guy so yup haha. So it all started when I first entered middle high school. We got to know more friends from other schools and all. Let's just say that I was at Level 1 (since you know my school in my country is using different levels and all so yeah) and I was 13 at that time. I started to befriend with my seniors who were at Level 3 (they were 15) so 2 years difference right? The friendship was pretty fine though since we sometimes hang out together and all. We also went to karaoke and ate mc donalds haha. I was very happy because I had some friends (i just couldn't even befriend with the friends that were at the same age as me because some of them always insulted me calling me gay and all because I had a lot of girl-friends like literally my girl-friends >>>>> boy-friends) If you come to my school, most of the girl students know me and the some guys hated me oh well. Let's talk about the friendship with my seniors. Guess what? We didn't even talk with each other anymore. We remained silent and poof! We didn't even contact with each other, weird isn't it? Next year, I started to step up to find new friends. At the end of the year, (almost), I started to know my seniors who were older than me by an age (which means they were like 15 and i was 14) I started to befriend with my friend, his name is T. Just consider him as T and we had a lot of things in common! We loved Veronicas, Some songs sung by the indie bands and we started to get along together well. After that, I started to know T's friends; I and N. I sometimes got teased by them though but we were just fine as hell. On November 9, T planned to surprise me and he took me to the nearby shopping mall to celebrate my birthday. I and N came to the birthday party and there came a new friend of T; K. K also came too and he was nice. He and T bought a birthday cake for me and I was like 'wow i have never received one tho'. So you know, that feeling of started to have some boy-friends began to grow in me. I used to stuck with girls and at that time I just realized that boys were much better than girls. Well at that time- okay. Let's move on to 2013. The start of something new. So finally I became their bros and that was the moment when I felt alive back. I always hang out with them at school during recess time and all. We always go out together too during the weekend. But unfortunately what happened was, I started to be close with K instead of T, I and N. K had a friend and his name was R. So I was close K and R because both of them were nice. I, N and T just realized that I didn't hang out with them because you know some issues happened which I couldn't even talk about it here. I always hang out with K and R but sometimes I felt bad. Why? Because let me tell you something. A lot of things happened to us last year. The very first thing happened was: - (I) punched me in front of K and R at school. The reason? I can't tell, sorry. So (I) punched me and you know what did K and R do? They didn't do anything. They just stared at me and they didn't even try to stop me. I was shocked and at the end, my girl-friends came and helped me instead of them. K and R just left me alone without saying anything. After school, K met me and he asked what was wrong and I told him the whole story and he didn't even say anything to me. Instead, he went back home just like that. The next day when I asked him why he didn't help me, K told me that (I) was also his friend too. R said the same thing- wow just wow. - I decided to eat at Secret Recipe with K and R. They then followed me to the restaurant and I bought like 100$ yup. K then ordered a plate of chicken something which costed around 20$ and his drink coasted around 7$. Not going to talk about the government tax because it costed something around 5$ if I was not mistaken. So R ordered the same as K maybe but I guess his orders were slightly expensive and I ordered a bowl of Vietnamese Noodle Beef Soup which coasted around 13$ and a drink 7$. While we were eating, I was asking them for the money so that I could pay the bill and you know what they told me? "I thought you were going to pay for us?" "Oh I just bought 20$ here you go." and the best part was R only bought 10$ and he expected me to pay for his motherfucking order? K paid me 20$ which still not enough. And the bill turned out to be 80$ and luckily I bought 100$. Just imagine how much they paid me. Not almost 50$, guys and I felt that I was used. (since I was the youngest in the group) So from your point of views, what can you comment? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Yotsubato~ 3,849 Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 You want honest opinion?? Cause I really read all that long fucking mess............................... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mischo 7,462 Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 Is there any reason why they are acting like this? Not trying to blame you, but either they are just shitty friends or you guys fought (something like that) that made them treat you like this. It could also be that they see you as a vulnerable target thus taking advantages of you (happened to me, but I was good at backing off) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinypuffling 943 Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 Never let people take your money if you are unwilling to give it. (or your parent's money if you're not working) Its a form of bullying and they are taking advantage of you. Just remember to stand up for yourself and take your friends with a pinch of salt. Friends are important but not an absolute necessity. Cut the ones that don't help you in any way and don't be afraid of speaking your mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 With guy friends it's like that especially in a one on one fight kinda thing. A guy isn't gonna help you out, a girl with because most are sympathetic. With the bill you should have paid for yours and let them do dishes or something Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
youchewflopagain 260 Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 stick to your female friends they seem to treat you better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A Heartbroken SONE 428 Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 I feel bad for you. I'm not sure if they are your real friends or not because it seemed like they used you to pay for their food in the first place. You should be more careful next time. Don't easily trust anyone you just knew. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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