Blinket 2,355 Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 I've only had one crush back in 6th grade (when i was 11)... it's been 6 years & i'm 17 now and i've never liked anybody the same way... (i'm over him btw)... i find some guys cute but not enough to want to be in a relationship or to consider it a crush. I get asked out, but I always turn people down. I'm just not interested (also b/c of my religion, i technically am not allowed to but that's irrelevant rn). It's not that i'm not interested in a relationship, just that i'm not interested in the guys... is this normal? i don't want this to continue when i'm older I know i'm not lesbian/bi/asexual btw.. I like celebrities, but again, it's not the same as liking someone for real or having a crush... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teru 22,363 Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 no it's not weird. it's pretty standard. you're only 17, there's no rush to be with anyone, enjoy youth and singledom. there's plenty of time for everything. I got 10 years on you and I am not in a relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baby Choux ☆ 2,205 Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 your still young . I'm 20 but i never been into rel~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shavon Jovi 219 Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Irrelephant 4,710 Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 I could have written this myself when I was 17. No one can force you to like someone, especially when you don't plan on dating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A Boy Like Troy 3,333 Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 No need to rush. You'll find someone when the time is right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slowpoke X 1,319 Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 that's normal for that age be happy that people care enough to ask you out, and don't wait til you are thirty-five to finally say yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blinket 2,355 Posted February 13, 2014 Author Share Posted February 13, 2014 Thanks for the answers guys. I guess it's normal then. It just seems like everyone's in relationships or at least have crushes except me haha. Anyways, thanks for the advice :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanityless 327 Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 I'm the same. My friends all have big crushes right now and swear mine's coming soon but I'm always like "nope" because I'm not interested in something like that. I'm only interested in stalking my biases. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blinket 2,355 Posted February 13, 2014 Author Share Posted February 13, 2014 I'm only interested in stalking my biases. Haha right? :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shootzz 26 Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 Life's too short for this waiting game honestly. If you like someone then go do the approach first, don't just wait around. It's not weird to not get attracted to people, you just haven't found the right one I guess... Again, you'll never know if that person is the right guy or not if you never gave him a chance, not everything have to be superficial and about looks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blinket 2,355 Posted February 13, 2014 Author Share Posted February 13, 2014 Life's too short for this waiting game honestly. If you like someone then go do the approach first, don't just wait around. It's not weird to not get attracted to people, you just haven't found the right one I guess... Again, you'll never know if that person is the right guy or not if you never gave him a chance, not everything have to be superficial and about looks. Oh no it's not about being superficial... (i mean looks is how people first get interested, but it's not about that)... even personality, i just don't feel the "crush" i guess or the connection of liking someone.. okay this is starting to sound weird haha But yea i got ur point, thanks for the advice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
killthetraitor 1 Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 Nah, I've only had 2 real crushes in my entire life, now I realize liking someone who doesn't feel the same way feels dumb to me. Only been in 2 relationships but I wouldn't call them crushes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlerunaway 35 Posted February 17, 2014 Share Posted February 17, 2014 i don't think it's really weird it's been five years since i last felt something strong for someone and now, i'm just feeling meh~ before entering the uni, i always tell my classmates back in senior year that i am so lucky because i'll be surrounded by handsome, smart, rich guys and now, i'm in my third year here and i don't even have a crush ;u; my friends squeals at the sight of handsome guys which is really a normal sight for me and i don't feel attracted to them ;A; but yeah i think there'll be a time for you~ once you experience it, i think it'll be really wonderful or maybe painful but let's be positive hihihihi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlerunaway 35 Posted February 17, 2014 Share Posted February 17, 2014 i don't think it's really weird it's been five years since i last felt something strong for someone and now, i'm just feeling meh~ before entering the uni, i always tell my classmates back in senior year that i am so lucky because i'll be surrounded by handsome, smart, rich guys and now, i'm in my third year here and i don't even have a crush ;u; my friends squeals at the sight of handsome guys which is really a normal sight for me and i don't feel attracted to them ;A; but yeah i think there'll be a time for you~ once you experience it, i think it'll be really wonderful or maybe painful but let's be positive hihihihi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hizu 6,869 Posted February 19, 2014 Share Posted February 19, 2014 I understand you, I'm 19 and I also never liked anyone. I even had a boyfriend, I wanted to give the boy a chance, we dated for a year and a half hoping that I'd feel something in the end, but it never happened. Honestly, sometimes I think I'll never like anyone, I'm a bit worried about the lack of this kind of emotions, but I'm still young... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandelion Wine 1,540 Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 You're not alone. My last crush before the one I had this year was five years ago. I was interested in other things, and all the guys were kinda "bleh" anyway. It'll happen when it happens. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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