HoneyBee12 33 Posted February 12, 2014 Share Posted February 12, 2014 How do you prove this, even if you be nice to them they will just think you are faking it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mog 5,083 Posted February 12, 2014 Share Posted February 12, 2014 You shouldn't have to prove it. If they can't see you are being genuine, there's nothing you can do. Unless you give them a reason to feel the way they do, there's no other excuse for them not believe it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pulcat 57 Posted February 12, 2014 Share Posted February 12, 2014 You shouldn't have to prove it. If they can't see you are being genuine, there's nothing you can do. Unless you give them a reason to feel the way they do, there's no other excuse for them not believe it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
llamaswag 8,571 Posted February 12, 2014 Share Posted February 12, 2014 Everyone I know is poor as me, so... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
핵! 6,020 Posted February 12, 2014 Share Posted February 12, 2014 Is this a personal question? Does your partner really believe that you're a gold digger? Are you giving them a reason to feel that way, or are they just simply paranoid? People just don't feel that way for no reason, you must be doing something that is making them have such thoughts. However if you're really doing nothing and they still think that way, then that in itself is a problem. Trust issues. Just sit down and talk with him / her and explain to them that you're intentions with them is not for their money but for other reasons. If they still don't believe you.... well. Personally, I don't bother with people who can't trust me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twinky 15,878 Posted February 12, 2014 Share Posted February 12, 2014 maybe decline it when they want to give you monies or expensive presents or don't ask for those things from them? actually if you're sincere and genuine enough, they can see it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
llamaswag 8,571 Posted February 12, 2014 Share Posted February 12, 2014 Is this a personal question? Does your partner really believe that you're a gold digger? Are you giving them a reason to feel that way, or are they just simply paranoid? People just don't feel that way for no reason, you must be doing something that is making them have such thoughts. However if you're really doing nothing and they still think that way, then that in itself is a problem. Trust issues. Just sit down and talk with him / her and explain to them that you're intentions with them is not for their money but for other reasons. If they still don't believe you.... well. Personally, I don't bother with people who can't trust me. TRUE!!! If u are a girl and u are blatantly ask him to pay for ur shopping (just becuz he is ur bf) or material stuff, this can make him or them feel this way. Also, when u guys on a date, it is good to offer to pay for movies or lunches once awhile Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sane 16,342 Posted February 12, 2014 Share Posted February 12, 2014 Try making it a rule to go dutch or don't go at all, or to alternate who pays for stuff. Remember when people treat you and try to treat them another time. Little stuff like that should dispel any suspicions. If somebody still thinks you're a gold digger after that then they just want to think you're a gold digger and nothing's gonna change their mind, unfortunately. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ObsessedwithOppa 1,406 Posted February 12, 2014 Share Posted February 12, 2014 Just be yourself if you ain't a gold digger it will show. Relationships are about trust, if he don't trust you , leave him. Why do you have to prove anything? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prosperity 209 Posted February 12, 2014 Share Posted February 12, 2014 Ask her if she'd still love you if you lost all of your money right at this moment. It's up to you to decide whether her answer is trustworthy. My girl is certainly not a gold digger, though I don't mind if she is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
youchewflopagain 260 Posted February 14, 2014 Share Posted February 14, 2014 Just sit down and talk with him / her and explain to them that you're intentions with them is not for their money but for other reasons. If they still don't believe you.... well. Personally, I don't bother with people who can't trust me. I personally wouldn't bother with someone who lies and cheats expecting someone to trust you if you're a liar and a cheater is the most selfish and hypocritical thing I've heard, ever Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elle 118 Posted February 16, 2014 Share Posted February 16, 2014 dont waste your time proving something to your s.o. relationship is built with love and trust. how can you love and trust someone who you find despicable? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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