SarahChoi 2,382 Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 Have you ever had really strong feelings for someone that is off limits? Like you know you shouldn't but everytime you think about that person makes you feel fuzzy inside and you want to see her and be closer to her eventhough it's impossible? If you did, how the hell does someone deal with those feelings? It's making me go insane. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
125628 3,659 Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 yeah i had to find someone else to crush on, quickly LMAO, and it worked~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GrumpyCatt 374 Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 Focus on their bad points... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Willow 1,638 Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 no. haven't had a serious crush all my life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cheshire Cat 2,441 Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 Me @ Straight Boys Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SarahChoi 2,382 Posted February 11, 2017 Author Share Posted February 11, 2017 yeah i had to find someone else to crush on, quickly LMAO, and it worked~ And if it's really hard because you can't even avoid the person? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nsfwwww 5,298 Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 yes #gaygirlproblems Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rendezvous 1,472 Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 My bestfriend, had to suppress my feelings and it eventually went away once she got a lover Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SarahChoi 2,382 Posted February 11, 2017 Author Share Posted February 11, 2017 Focus on their bad points... And if you don't know any because you can't get that close to the person to know their bad points? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SarahChoi 2,382 Posted February 11, 2017 Author Share Posted February 11, 2017 My bestfriend, had to suppress my feelings and it eventually went away once she got a lover I already did the bestfriend thing and it sucks, people used to tell me it was great to be in love with your bestfriend but it hurts 10x more when you get heartbreaked Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
North and South 4,680 Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 Aww babe. It's alright, I think most people have been there. It's normal, we crush on people and sometimes because they feel so elusive to us. Everyone is different with how they deal with things as well, so it's hard to say how to manage it. Talking to people helps though I find. Dumb, cliche and whatever; but hopefully even talking about it, writing about it and explaining how you feel can help with the process of moving on or making a move. Whatever works for you. In terms of personal situations, for myself it's a guy in my life who's quite a little older than I am and is in this weird teacher-like role? He's made it clear that he likes me, but it's just all around an awks situation. It's not forbidden or anything, but just kind of grey. Plus I have a bf, and we are in a weird place rn, so it's all kinds of weird. I talk to friends and keep a diary to help, I find it cathartic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SarahChoi 2,382 Posted February 11, 2017 Author Share Posted February 11, 2017 Aww babe. It's alright, I think most people have been there. It's normal, we crush on people and sometimes because they feel so elusive to us. Everyone is different with how they deal with things as well, so it's hard to say how to manage it. Talking to people helps though I find. Dumb, cliche and whatever; but hopefully even talking about it, writing about it and explaining how you feel can help with the process of moving on or making a move. Whatever works for you. In terms of personal situations, for myself it's a guy in my life who's quite a little older than I am and is in this weird teacher-like role? He's made it clear that he likes me, but it's just all around an awks situation. It's not forbidden or anything, but just kind of grey. Plus I have a bf, and we are in a weird place rn, so it's all kinds of weird. I talk to friends and keep a diary to help, I find it cathartic. I kind of have this huge crush on my teacher but I am 20 and he is 24, so it's nothing weird or anything, but he is still my teacher and I can't runaway from him, and to add on on my issue he is always really sweet and caring. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chaebol 2,624 Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 i fall in love to my friend who already has a Husband. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panther 976 Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 I had a crush on my brother wife, it was hard to surpass this feeling Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
North and South 4,680 Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 I kind of have this huge crush on my teacher but I am 20 and he is 24, so it's nothing weird or anything, but he is still my teacher and I can't runaway from him, and to add on on my issue he is always really sweet and caring. That's okay, it's totally normal, and especially when a role model in your life is smart and kind. You don't need to runaway from him or your feelings. Personal opinion; I think you should cherish whatever moments you can spend with them cause obviously you can't just will your feelings to go away for someone, but don't lose sight of your end goal (be it academics, career etc). Time really does help. It sounds dumb rn, but seriously it does help. Keep your perspective firmly fixed because in the end it is your life and goals that matter, but that doesn't mean that you can't acknowledge nice fuzzy feelings along the way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LunyEyes 711 Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 i once had a crush on a straight guy... that was fun Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deâ„“phina 14,904 Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 Yep. I ain't hoe enough to go after faculty and housing staff but damn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
letitshine 210 Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 Yep, my Physics teacher. I got over it once I graduated HS though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BadBadNotGood 11,616 Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 I currently have a crush with my coworker's ex...who is also my coworker. I really love this job, I don't want to rock the boat in anyway by starting drama or getting on someone's bad side. But it's also kinda painful because we really have a lot in common from music to games to philosophies. I don't even know if they like me back but it's better that way, I suppose. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SarahChoi 2,382 Posted February 11, 2017 Author Share Posted February 11, 2017 That's okay, it's totally normal, and especially when a role model in your life is smart and kind. You don't need to runaway from him or your feelings. Personal opinion; I think you should cherish whatever moments you can spend with them cause obviously you can't just will your feelings to go away for someone, but don't lose sight of your end goal (be it academics, career etc). Time really does help. It sounds dumb rn, but seriously it does help. Keep your perspective firmly fixed because in the end it is your life and goals that matter, but that doesn't mean that you can't acknowledge nice fuzzy feelings along the way. Thank you for the advice and for listen, I was really needing it. I still manage to get a great grade on his class last semester and I didn't want to lose him as a teacher since he is really good in what he does, this just confuses me and keeps me awake at night because I know it's wrong and it will never happen, even if he lets me closer than he does any other student, I guess I am just frustrated with myself and I really want this feeling to disappear. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrayCray 2,636 Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 My friend's bf. It's funny because I crushed on him before I found out he was dating her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanille 1,800 Posted February 11, 2017 Share Posted February 11, 2017 I only crush on people I shouldn't... That's why I've been single my whole life lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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