ernie8 28 Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 i have one best friend she pretty, kind, easy going... and im fat, ugly but quite easy going... everytime i like someone, the boys will like her more... it lower my self esteem but i cant unfriend her cz she really a good friend but it hurt my feeling to see my crush like her more... it become my habit to give up once i see the boys like her and will not contact my crush anymore .. my bff actually will push him with me but i will lie to her and said "i dont have any feeling and in friendzone only with him"... but when i chat with my bff and she show their chat it make me jealous af and hurt... what should i do.. i know it will pass soon *asperexperience* but how to avoid this situation.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caz 68 Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 I don't want to be *that* person, but honestly one day you'll find someone who only notices you, who thinks you're the most wonderful person that they've ever seen, who won't even notice that your friend is with you. I know it sounds cringe-y but it's honestly true! It's definitely worth the wait Also, never give up on talking to someone you have a crush on! From my experience, if you're persistent and they find out more about you, they'll start to get a crush on you little by little. I hope things turn out well for you~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pyo Hyemi 6,831 Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 you're a girl or boy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adina kim 484 Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 u remain me of this movie edge-of-seventeen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ernie8 28 Posted February 3, 2017 Author Share Posted February 3, 2017 I don't want to be *that* person, but honestly one day you'll find someone who only notices you, who thinks you're the most wonderful person that they've ever seen, who won't even notice that your friend is with you. I know it sounds cringe-y but it's honestly true! It's definitely worth the wait Also, never give up on talking to someone you have a crush on! From my experience, if you're persistent and they find out more about you, they'll start to get a crush on you little by little. I hope things turn out well for you~ thank you really appreciate you hope that time will come soon ☺☺ wait for my own prince charming who receive as who am i ☺☺ you're a girl or boy? woman hehehe im 27 soon to be Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 You're not doing yourself any favors by acting like that. She could be more attractive to guys but you giving up on them, when your friend is encouraging you, is much worse as any chance you had would drop automatically to zero; it's never going to happen at that rate. So I think you shouldn't be that harsh on yourself and try to not compare yourself with your friend and be more positive about yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sana Minatozaki 3,305 Posted February 3, 2017 Share Posted February 3, 2017 friends are more important than crushes anyway , one day you'll probably find someone who likes you until then keep your friends close Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vocabulary 890 Posted February 4, 2017 Share Posted February 4, 2017 Try to meet boys without her. Find boys that don't know her and she doesn't know them. Good luck babe. I once had a very beautiful best friend. She was the most popular and prettiest girl in school. But I still managed to get a boyfriend LOL so really, it's possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ernie8 28 Posted February 4, 2017 Author Share Posted February 4, 2017 You're not doing yourself any favors by acting like that. She could be more attractive to guys but you giving up on them, when your friend is encouraging you, is much worse as any chance you had would drop automatically to zero; it's never going to happen at that rate. So I think you shouldn't be that harsh on yourself and try to not compare yourself with your friend and be more positive about yourself. thank you i hope i can be more positive... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ernie8 28 Posted February 4, 2017 Author Share Posted February 4, 2017 Try to meet boys without her. Find boys that don't know her and she doesn't know them. Good luck babe. I once had a very beautiful best friend. She was the most popular and prettiest girl in school. But I still managed to get a boyfriend LOL so really, it's possible. thanks for tell me your experience i hope its happen to me also ☺☺ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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