What could i do? My grandmother feel so bad...

[Dilemmax]

A few days my dearest grandfather died from a really weird illness, it really was sad to me but for some reason didn't felt bad, there a very known Epik High song about that and it's more like the beginning of something new, it's called "Paris" so took the topic with normality, for some reason i felt some death thoughs since december, at first though was just me or i was going to die but answered myself something like: "me? but if i'm young!" but in an average day close to upload something to my Instagram account about that crazy beautiful lesbian k-drama i knew my grandfather died, felt guilty because i desired bad things to my biological grandfather (the one who died wasn't part of my biological family) and little after, my grandfather died from a really weird illness, he used to be a great person and what such a good teacher, for him learned really good things and it's basically part of the reason why my brother and i are considered really smart, even, if in my case i'm not really that smart, it's more like instinct and per se i'm could call myself bright; but i'm still young and my grandmother is crying and feel really lonely, why people is scared of loneliness? I'm happy being lonely and what i can do for make her feel better? This can be really hard for her.

[vocalmonster]

just give her a hug. theres nothing much you can do in times like this

[Kiwii]

Man I'm sorry for your loss, but i would suggest spending more time with your grandma and making sure she knows your there for her. 

[TickleMePink]

I think what she needs the most is to know you're there for her 

[Suzy Quatro]

First of all you need to understand what your grandmother is going through although you're not going to be able to fully comprehend until you go through something similar.

 

I wouldn't think someone who's elder and lost their partner isn't afraid of being lonely or about dying (most people I know at that age surely aren't at all) but it's just that she has lost someone who was very important and valuable to her. It's okay to be fine on your own but I believe if you got to know someone you fall in love with it and reciprocates those feelings and then you spend a lot of year with that person you surely are going to feel like a part of you has died with that person. Sometimes when this happens it doesn't take too long for the person to die as they get depressed and just don't feel like living anymore, like they don't have a reason to keep existing after losing their companion.

 

I don't think there's nothing much you can do to make her feel better but you might want to talk to her more often if you're really curious about what she's going through and getting to know her better.