Corysilk 16 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 I always wonder how they feel about being encouraged to do skinship for their fans while possibly being attracted or having real crushes on their members. I remember Sungjong went thru a complete image overhaul to look more masculine and now he doesn't even seem like the same person anymore. It's like he's always holding back, trying not to show his true feelings. You can tell in this gif that he's crushing hard on L but has to pretend to be uninterested and "manly". Look at the sadness in his smile as L tries to reignite the lovey dovey relationship that they once had. Its almost as if L knows what Sungjong is going thru and he's just smiling at him like "hey I'm here for you, its ok to be yourself kid." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deobizone 7,779 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 id savour in the moment of hot ppl touching me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NovembersChopin 3,296 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 It's like he's always holding back, trying not to show his true feelings. You can tell in this gif that he's crushing hard on L but has to pretend to be uninterested and "manly". Look at the sadness in his smile as L tries to reignite the lovey dovey relationship that they once had. Its almost as if L knows what Sungjong is going thru and he's just smiling at him like "hey I'm here for you, its ok to be yourself kid." what a nice fanfic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boba 3,795 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 yeahhh doing stuff like that with straight guys, especially ones you find attractive, would be pretty soul-crushing then again id savour in the moment of hot ppl touching me this works too if you're not the type of person to be too emotionally attached Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CantabileCross 638 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 uh I'm not too sure about your example lol but it's going to depend on the person; some people just happen to be really comfortable with skinship in general, whether someone they're attracted to is present or not, and some people are just going to be uncomfortable Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honeystan 10,291 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 Do I find the rest of this on asianfanfics or your tumblr blog? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alexandrish 459 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 Idk korean male friends normally have a lot of skinship I remember an old korean friend of mine said that they used to shower together and like joke around touching each others penises lol I think they are so used to doing gay stuff that it has become normal for them, since a lot of korean people seriously believe that there's no gay people in their country Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sexy Wang 1,541 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 i wanna see them split open their legs and rub each others crotches on each others thighs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sapphic 1,501 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 As someone who's gay I'm uncomfortable touching other girls, and I live in a super accepting environment. I can't imagine it's easy to shield your emotions when people of the gender you like touch you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Glou 2,430 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 It depends on the idol I guess... Heechul doesn't seem too bothered when he kisses his members (but then again, is Heechul still in the closet?). And shipping aside, Sungjong did (does?) go through hell to look "manlier"... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joji. 5,062 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 I would die if L smiled at me like this tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scuttlebutters 747 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 Assuming people's sexualities huh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honeystan 10,291 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 i wanna see them split open their legs and rub each others crotches on each others thighs Talk about 0 - 100 real fast Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
denizen mars 5,911 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 it's a job I think they might find it distasteful, but I doubt all gay idols are in some sort of tortured unrequited love situation like all the fanfic writers make out I mean I'm not even closeted but I can hug my friends that are not attracted to me without being like, 'o, woe is me that they don't like me' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
asutra 2,670 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 What's your aff username Anyway that gif Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corysilk 16 Posted February 1, 2017 Author Share Posted February 1, 2017 Idk korean male friends normally have a lot of skinship I remember an old korean friend of mine said that they used to shower together and like joke around touching each others penises lol I think they are so used to doing gay stuff that it has become normal for them, since a lot of korean people seriously believe that there's no gay people in their country Interesting, so its kinda like the Greeks where they had sexual experiances with men but would never actually marry a man or be in a traditional relationship with one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeffrey Jung 19,680 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 Skinships between Korean guys are for bonding purpose but there are also guys who hated it but this only applied to native Koreans even Korean Americans aren't used to that much of skinships Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alexandrish 459 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 Interesting, so its kinda like the Greeks where they had sexual experiances with men but would never actually marry a man or be in a traditional relationship with one. Well not really "sexual experiences" more like doing things that you usually don't do between male friends in like Europe, US etc like for example hugging, you've probably seen that happening at least once xd But they never think that they do it because they're gay, it's just affection or for fun. But those are mostly like the "cute" korean males. But there's also a lot of "mature" korean men who completely dislikes those kind of stuff xd buuttt like every korean man has showered with another male friend naked at least once Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Corysilk 16 Posted February 1, 2017 Author Share Posted February 1, 2017 Well not really "sexual experiences" more like doing things that you usually don't do between male friends in like Europe, US etc like for example hugging, you've probably seen that happening at least once xd But they never think that they do it because they're gay, it's just affection or for fun. But those are mostly like the "cute" korean males. But there's also a lot of "mature" korean men who completely dislikes those kind of stuff xd buuttt like every korean man has showered with another male friend naked at least once Interesting, so maybe its not so awkward for closet gay Kpop idols then since its normalized even outside of the kpopuniverse. Its sad that Sungjong was singled out tho, no other idol was forced to dial down the gay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alexandrish 459 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 Interesting, so maybe its not so awkward for closet gay Kpop idols then since its normalized even outside of the kpopuniverse. Its sad that Sungjong was singled out tho, no other idol was forced to dial down the gay. I believe there is a lot of them who was forced to do it In around like 2012 or so, there were a lot of kpop idols that were kind of gayish, but it's strange because now I never see anyone like that. I feel like the companies have made sure that the kpop idols are manly these days Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oh Jelly Jelly 512 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 Well, they could also use the skinships to "hide in plain sight" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dodaengism 44 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 tbh i dont think so, only unless they like the person doing skinship with them? i mean, its not like all gay people are attracted to the people of same gender?? like if you're straight, you can still be friends with people that are of opposite genders without feeling uncomfortable with them..... maybe that didnt make sense lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovSalah 18 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 not really , look at Siwon Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyAndonuts 2,877 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 Maybe for closeted idols, they just don't see their members in that way. Maybe when they do skinship, because they have such a familial relationship with their members, romantic or sexual thoughts just never come to them. I know I have basically 0 interest in my male friends, even though I like guys. We've been bros for so long, it'd be super weird to have it any other way. Of course, it all depends on the idol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapmon's Ahjussi Husband 2,299 Posted February 1, 2017 Share Posted February 1, 2017 Idk, i aknowledge that is hard for Sungjong aside ur fanfic, he struggle and u can tell; but on the other side we have Kevin Woo who kinda love to sit on their members and do skinship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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