bottomluhan 6,162 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 okay so me and my friends were debating on this the other day and we still can't come up with anything lets say you've been married to your significant other for a few years now. you love each other very much, and neither you or them had any problems with cheating or infidelity in the past. but lets say they go out on work trip for a few days and when they come back, they admit to you out of guilt, that during one night at a party, they got drunk and woke up in bed with another person (meaning they slept with them) like...what would do in that situation? i'd be hurt but i can't answer how to handle it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellendciaga 7,198 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 honestly, i think i'd forgive them but i'd become much more wary though and probably would cheat back to make it even Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DreamyGum 171 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 I think I wouldn't let the whole got drunk thing happen in the first place Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plutto 9,419 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 In such a perfect relationship, I don't think this little mistake would be harmful I mean, at least s/he is speaking the truth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dazzlingpaw 819 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 I would be happy that they said the truth to me at least but idk about the rest, probably forget them but it would take me some time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
piccolo's girlfriend 7,439 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 i would be really disappointed and feel betrayed but also if they were blackout drunk/dont remember they weren't really capable of consenting to sex in the first place so i would wanna make sure they felt okay first and foremost. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cheshire Cat 2,441 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 Drunk actions are sober thoughts Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
â� slayyyter â� 1,304 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 um get a fucking divorce, cheating is a choice whether ure drunk or not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
memeyoongi 4,769 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 As long as they tell me, it's fine. I don't really expect my partner to not be sexually attracted to other people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ddeona Oneul Bame 61,630 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 I assume if someone cheats on me, they must not like me that much anyway, so meh~ I'll let them go free~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snatched 1,599 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 I would forgive it, because the person was honest. Honesty, especially in these cases, says a lot about how much the person respects you and how much the relationship means to them. It would be easy for the one who cheated to simply never say anything, especially since they were drunk. The fact that they chose to come clean, shows that they deeply respect and care for their partner and value the relationship which is why they decided to be honest, because lies would only hurt the relationship Also I've done a lot of idiotic shit when drunk, let alone sleeping with someone. I sometimes wake up the next day and can't even remember going to a party/getting drunk, let alone sleeping with the person. Alcohol fucks you up real bad sometimes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
14296195420 127 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 Lmao drop them. I dont hate myself that much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChungJoJo 31 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 Ask why, then get them tested for STD's just in case. From then on be very wary of them, and ask where i went wrong, because she cheated on me so there must be something that i am doing wrong, and go from there. If all else fails including making our relationship open. Two things can happen: 1. I will leave her without a word. 2. I will commit suicide (or fake my death). I want her to bear the pain she inflicted on me when she slipped up. A Drunk person's actions are a sober person's thoughts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
STORM 7,555 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 Bye bye Alcohol doesn't give you an excuse to do stupid shit and not be held responsible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JiMiJu 1,858 Posted January 12, 2017 Share Posted January 12, 2017 Once a cheater, always a cheater. Goodbye. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bottomluhan 6,162 Posted January 14, 2017 Author Share Posted January 14, 2017 Ask why, then get them tested for STD's just in case. From then on be very wary of them, and ask where i went wrong, because she cheated on me so there must be something that i am doing wrong, and go from there. If all else fails including making our relationship open. Two things can happen: 1. I will leave her without a word. 2. I will commit suicide (or fake my death). I want her to bear the pain she inflicted on me when she slipped up. A Drunk person's actions are a sober person's thoughts. well..thats a bit extreme.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted January 15, 2017 Share Posted January 15, 2017 I would separate from her and divorce as soon as possible; I mean I couldn't trust in that person again so it would be the best for both and getting drunk is just a lame excuse to begin with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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