How do you tell apart if what you're feeling for someone of the same gender is love or just attraction/bi-curious?

[rainbowsoldier]

And because i am a very emotional person who gets too emotional with everything and also combine it with my artistic side, its a weird combination. So usually i will get too emotionally connected to certain looks and personalities and i would even imagine a whole life with them in my head like a fairytale. I'm seriously thinking these stuff and sometimes i also wish i would spend some time with them because they are amazing and beautiful and their personalities are so amazing. But i am not sure if this is bi-romantic, because its more of a romantic feeling. I've never really experienced true love ever in my life. I'd get emotional for many stuff. But i don't know if what i am feeling is love or a huge admiration/sister-like admiration... 

It doesn't happen to all the girls i meet but to certain people i'd feel such a connection without even having them as friends for a long time. They just happen to click... 

Like, have you ever met a person so perfect that everything they do or how they act just attracts you. I never got blushes from a girl, because i wasn't embarassed or anything, but it was mostly from guys because i would get easily embarassed with them. Does this mean i'm straight? or how we feel with girls can vary with guys? 

 

 

edit: 18 years old , F (me)

 

edit2: i also haven't kissed anyone as well. 

[DreamyGum]

It's feeling way too thirsty

[Almondandlime]

Even if a person is bi, it's very common that their attraction to men and their attraction to women feels different.

[Isca]

You should think to yourself: Would I actually lick a vag?

If yes, then you are bisexual/lesbian, congrats!

 

[Sana Minatozaki]

by the time . if it's for a short time than it's probably just attraction , if it's longer than you're probably bi

[Cymae]

if you wanna have sex with girls you're bi duh

[Suzy Quatro]

I think you must be a straight girl that is just very emotional and the best way to know should be if you ever thought of getting laid with a girl or being horny around one.

 

It sounds you're more comfortable with girls than with guys so that's why I think your straight; you don't feel any sort of sexual tension around girls unlike with boys thus you don't blush around them nor get embarrassed.

[chaebaby]

Maybe you are in the bi-curious phase. Many straight girls go through this phase and usually resolves as they grow up, more romantic feelings. If you want the vag tho, you might be bi or lesbian. Do you want the D?

[JiMiJu]

Over time you will learn the difference.