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Do you ever just get a feeling that you're being played?


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I KNOW I'm being played right now. I've been in an on and off relationship with this guy for 3 years. I've been trying to replace the dude for three years now yet it hasn't happened.

He's out of country for work right now and he's been texting me about how he misses me and how I'm the first person he wants to see when he gets back. BUUUUUUT.. I see he was all up on his ex's picture asking about where she is right now and all of that (they aren't in the same country now, so I know he can't see her in person). Then I see she tags him in some meme. I just have a feeling I'm not the only one he's been sending these "miss you" messages to while he's away.

Yet here I am letting it happen because I romanticize the hell out of our dysfunctional relationship. I mean I know I've definitely slept around in our time periods we weren't exclusive, because I hate him, so why not let him treat me the same way. Maybe I'm just paranoid.

Do you ever get the vibe you're being played? How did that work out for you? Did you let it happen? Did you confront them?

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I KNOW I'm being played right now. I've been in an on and off relationship with this guy for 3 years. I've been trying to replace the dude for three years now yet it hasn't happened.

He's out of country for work right now and he's been texting me about how he misses me and how I'm the first person he wants to see when he gets back. BUUUUUUT.. I see he was all up on his ex's picture asking about where she is right now and all of that (they aren't in the same country now, so I know he can't see her in person). Then I see she tags him in some meme. I just have a feeling I'm not the only one he's been sending these "miss you" messages to while he's away.

Yet here I am letting it happen because I romanticize the hell out of our dysfunctional relationship. I mean I know I've definitely slept around in our time periods we weren't exclusive, because I hate him, so why not let him treat me the same way. Maybe I'm just paranoid.

Do you ever get the vibe you're being played? How did that work out for you? Did you let it happen? Did you confront them?

I think you know the answer girl. Get up and out of there unless you like the D too much, there are other guys.

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More or less, although my relationships haven't been half as messy as yours lol

 

I was also seeing a girl and I knew she was also playing with another guy but at that moment I wasn't mad as we didn't have nothing serious. Also I didn't care because I really enjoyed being with her and she seemed the same way and I was able to see other girls as well. So to me it was something fair and maybe I wasn't mad or feeling bad about that type of relationship because I was super confident about myself so even if she had lot of guys behind her and was seeing another guy I never felt threatened by anyone of them.

 

We were kind of young though and I was very liberal about relationships and thought everyone deserved to do whatever they wanted as long as they were happy, so that's why I never gave a crap about that type of stuff as long as I got what I wanted.

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