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your relationship with your boyfriend's mom?


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she can be really nice and she taught me how to make food. she worried about me going out in the cold and stuff like that. like a few weeks ago..

 

but sometimes like today, it seems like she hates me. i would try to make conversation with her and she would just nod and walk off. my bf was acting weird too.. and he said his mom was being 'bitchy'

 

how do you deal with this? and what is your relationship with your partner's parents? I got really hurt when she did that..i don't know the reason

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still didn't get this guy to be my bf , but his mom kinda scares me from his stories . She doesn't know me I think (but i kinda found some hints that she could possibly be my history teacher back when i was in other high school. that teacher scared the shit out of everyone .... you never know!)

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i'm not a very talkative person around his family (also because his family doesn't make that effort to talk to me so it's kind of hard to talk to his family. at least to me) so then i don't really talk to his mom when i go over. but as of right now, because i'm not his wife yet, i don't feel like i need to make an effort to get to know his mom personally and deeply. the reason being for that is because i have my family that i have to focus on. his family will become my priority once he marries me. 

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i'm not a very talkative person around his family (also because his family doesn't make that effort to talk to me so it's kind of hard to talk to his family. at least to me) so then i don't really talk to his mom when i go over. but as of right now, because i'm not his wife yet, i don't feel like i need to make an effort to get to know his mom personally and deeply. the reason being for that is because i have my family that i have to focus on. his family will become my priority once he marries me. 

I thought it's better esp in Asian culture to keep good relationship with his parents even before you get married or else it would just seem a bit rude. I don't really know

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I thought it's better esp in Asian culture to keep good relationship with his parents even before you get married or else it would just seem a bit rude. I don't really know

Idk...I'm Asian and I don't have a bad relationship (or a good one at that) with his mom, it's just neutral. but what my mom has always taught me was that me as a girl, never go to your boyfriend's house and act as if you're his parents' daugher-in-law. If you do, they'll expect EVEN MORE once you marry their son. One little slack off because you're tired means you're lazy to them. So that's why I'm not close to his mom nor do I act like his wife when I go to his house. my mom also told me that the only time i should ever help out around the his house is the day when he proposes and he officially takes you home to be his wife. 

 

it might vary among different asian families though. 

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