Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted December 27, 2016 Share Posted December 27, 2016 So I hooked up with a coworker like 2 years ago. We'd been friends for 3 years already. He was pushing things to the next level a bit but I was oblivious to it til it was over. He was seeing someone and I didn't know (oops). Let's call girl plan B because he decided to date her when I turned down drunk sex with him. So he dated plan B for nearly 2 years but they were always fighting because he'd always go after other cuter blonde chicks (she was a very avg brunette). Ever since he started dating plan B, she told him he couldn't talk to me anymore (we used to be really close and hang out 3 times a week or so). We decided to keep hush hush about our hookup so no one knows except for us. Fastforward 3 weeks ago he's drunk and starts telling me how he dumped plan B and his parents got divorced last year and his mom kicked him out so now he lives in an apartment and sees chicks but it's nothing serious since he never met them with that intention etc. etc. Meanwhile I was drinking iced tea listening to his rambling and thinking about how I had to wake up 4 hours later to teach all day. Then he starts asking me about my relationships and if I'm seeing someone and if I'm seeing one of our coworkers (let's call him P-buddy). P-buddy being 5 years younger, I tell him no since I consider him like my younger brother (we were really handsy at our Christmas party and homeboi got jealous). Then all of a sudden he suggests we should hang out more often blah blah blah I drive him home and I mention in our discussion that I never have sex with people when I am drunk and he just replies "I know" and starts laughing. Then when he gets home he asks me to hang out with him asap I snapped him sporadicly over the past 2 weeks but now I feel like I'm the only one initiating stuff. We worked together today and he always stayed close but never initiated conversation. When we had dinner break he immediately sat with me but he was giving me short replies only and cared more about his phone. But when I wasn't looking and turned back he was always staring. I don't like feeling like I chase after people but I feel he's testing the waters and playing hard to get. Anyways I'll see him tomorrow and probs give him a taste of his own medicine and ignore him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fool 2,878 Posted December 27, 2016 Share Posted December 27, 2016 i cant take this seriously with this as your sig Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted December 27, 2016 Author Share Posted December 27, 2016 i cant take this seriously with this as your sig Why can't you take BoA's chin implant seriously? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
delirium 4,237 Posted December 27, 2016 Share Posted December 27, 2016 Nah, don't stop now. You have him on the ropes, m8 seems unsettled as fk around you. If you kissed him, he'd probably pop his cork, immediately. Why can't you take BoA's chin implant seriously? you need to send me a towel so I can wipe this spit off of my screen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted December 27, 2016 Author Share Posted December 27, 2016 Nah, don't stop now. You have him on the ropes, m8 seems unsettled as fk around you. If you kissed him, he'd probably pop his cork, immediately. you need to send me a towel so I can wipe this spit off of my screen Srsly he is hot af and so is p-buddy so I'd understand why he'd be jealous but in any case I feel like all he wants is to feel flattered that someone's chasing him We went to watch a movie in a car 2 summers ago and snuggled but he was trying to provoke a reaction out of me by saying he went there with plan B before and the trunk felt bigger (cuz they were all snugged up). Too bad I was oblivious and thus gave no fucks so he chased after me for 3 other months. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
22445 1,253 Posted December 27, 2016 Share Posted December 27, 2016 he seems desperate now that he lost everything. dont go out with him youll be the rebound girl. just be yourself and act cool, dont play games when you around him that will give him ideas. the more time you guys spend together the more he will warm up to the fact of wanting to get into your pants. so spend less time around him and when you are actually with him it should be platonic but if you like him i would suggest you take it slow because he just came off a relationship. its all about wanting the same thing, so if you want to hop onto his diq then thats great kappa Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted December 27, 2016 Author Share Posted December 27, 2016 he seems desperate now that he lost everything. dont go out with him youll be the rebound girl. just be yourself and act cool, dont play games when you around him that will give him ideas. the more time you guys spend together the more he will warm up to the fact of wanting to get into your pants. so spend less time around him and when you are actually with him it should be platonic but if you like him i would suggest you take it slow because he just came off a relationship. its all about wanting the same thing, so if you want to hop onto his diq then thats great kappa Pretty sure I can keep it platonic, I invited him over when I was home alone, we watched Don Jon and nothing happened lel He was very tense but I was busy petting my dog lmaoooo I can be very dense Also pretty sure plan B was the ACTUAL rebound girl since he got with her after he broke up with his ex and got rejected by me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
22445 1,253 Posted December 27, 2016 Share Posted December 27, 2016 Pretty sure I can keep it platonic, I invited him over when I was home alone, we watched Don Jon and nothing happened lel He was very tense but I was busy petting my dog lmaoooo I can be very dense Also pretty sure plan B was the ACTUAL rebound girl since he got with her after he broke up with his ex and got rejected by me lmao you were petting your dog while watching don jon together wow that must have been super awkward for him ok i understand now. so he would act tense because he doesnt know how to approach you. seeing as he has been in long term relationships its a good thing because he seems like a stable guy. do you see yourself dating him in the future, does he have qualities you like Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted December 27, 2016 Author Share Posted December 27, 2016 lmao you were petting your dog while watching don jon together wow that must have been super awkward for him ok i understand now. so he would act tense because he doesnt know how to approach you. seeing as he has been in long term relationships its a good thing because he seems like a stable guy. do you see yourself dating him in the future, does he have qualities you like He dated a girl for 4 years, then another for 2 with only a break of 6 months in between. Imo he might be scared of being alone. He's really fun and ambitious and dependable and mature alright. We share similar tastes for most things too. I guess I've always been into mama's boys though since I tend to act like a mom 99% of the time. Being in a relationship with a real man is kinda scary because they're so driven and I'm quite the free spirit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JiMiJu 1,858 Posted December 27, 2016 Share Posted December 27, 2016 He's obviously not in a good place right now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted December 27, 2016 Author Share Posted December 27, 2016 He's obviously not in a good place right now. Nah he was drunk and we barely talked in 2 years so he just updated me on things lol his parents split up over a year ago and he is moving back with his mom in January Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bitchcraft 1,377 Posted December 27, 2016 Share Posted December 27, 2016 Ignore him. It's the only way. And eh he went behind his gf's back and tried to get with other chicks. Even if he didn't like her that much, it's not cool, He should've broken up with her if he didn't like her and then looked for other potential hook-ups. Sounds like he'd do the same to you if he got bored with you in a relationship too. So be careful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted December 27, 2016 Author Share Posted December 27, 2016 Ignore him. It's the only way. And eh he went behind his gf's back and tried to get with other chicks. Even if he didn't like her that much, it's not cool, He should've broken up with her if he didn't like her and then looked for other potential hook-ups. Sounds like he'd do the same to you if he got bored with you in a relationship too. So be careful. They were in the "off" stages of their on and off relationship when the girls happened. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted December 28, 2016 Author Share Posted December 28, 2016 Lmao update: I did a 12 hours shift with them yesterday and P-buddy was really touchy and kept doing small talk and jokes. He also asked me if I wanted to hang out with him today. Homeboi was angry and at the end of the shift he told me it's him who should be the one making me laugh at his stupid jokes, not P-buddy. He was trying to make jokes all day but he's a supervisor in the dept. we worked in so he was too busy to chat and he was angry lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted December 28, 2016 Share Posted December 28, 2016 He must be going through a lot if wanting attention that bad and being so dramatic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted December 28, 2016 Author Share Posted December 28, 2016 He must be going through a lot if wanting attention that bad and being so dramatic Idk man I decided to stop focusing on him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bitchcraft 1,377 Posted December 28, 2016 Share Posted December 28, 2016 Lmao update: I did a 12 hours shift with them yesterday and P-buddy was really touchy and kept doing small talk and jokes. He also asked me if I wanted to hang out with him today. Homeboi was angry and at the end of the shift he told me it's him who should be the one making me laugh at his stupid jokes, not P-buddy. He was trying to make jokes all day but he's a supervisor in the dept. we worked in so he was too busy to chat and he was angry lol Im dying Why is this dude jealous of a 17 year old boy in the first place? And why is he so outwardly jealous? It's so unattractive, someone should give him the flirt 101 PS: Also glad to see you around again Gloup Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted December 28, 2016 Author Share Posted December 28, 2016 Im dying Why is this dude jealous of a 17 year old boy in the first place? And why is he so outwardly jealous? It's so unattractive, someone should give him the flirt 101 PS: Also glad to see you around again Gloup Boy is 18 tho and actually comes to parties with me instead of not answering me so I get why he'd be jealous And omg who you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bitchcraft 1,377 Posted December 28, 2016 Share Posted December 28, 2016 Boy is 18 tho and actually comes to parties with me instead of not answering me so I get why he'd be jealous And omg who you Bitch it's me Lili >_> And oh lmao since you said he was 5 years younger than you and i thought you were 22, i was under the impression he'd be 17. I hate when guys don't answer you and expect you to always be there when they call up on you or even chase them. Just ignore Homeboi 'till he figures out what the fuck he wants lmao PS: Pls tell me this isnt the guy we used to discuss in PM and on askfm when we used it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted December 29, 2016 Author Share Posted December 29, 2016 Bitch it's me Lili >_> And oh lmao since you said he was 5 years younger than you and i thought you were 22, i was under the impression he'd be 17. I hate when guys don't answer you and expect you to always be there when they call up on you or even chase them. Just ignore Homeboi 'till he figures out what the fuck he wants lmao PS: Pls tell me this isnt the guy we used to discuss in PM and on askfm when we used it I am sorry but I have the crappiest memory lmaoooo I turned 23, he's turning 19 soon AND LMAO DEPENDS WHICH ONE WE'RE TALKING ABOUT, I HAVE A RECYCLING HABIT Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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