HoneyBee12 33 Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 I have a guy friend A who has been giving me hints.. I didn't like him at first... therefore I use to reject his different approaches. But now I am slowly falling for him. We usually have deep talks and I tell him all my worries. Guy B is someone I usually talk to and just recently said that he liked me. He said that I didn't seem interested so we should 'stop messaging each other'. I felt really hurt!! (because he talked to me be ause he treated me as a lover and not a friend, so now is not wanting to talk tk me). Later on he asks me if he wants to be friends again.. wtf?! I want to tell my guy friend A this situation I have just experienced. Should I tell him about it? Should I also ask A if we are just a friends relationship and not like something like B? (I don't want the same situation to happen for me and B, so I want to make sure). So should I tell and ask A about all this? Hallyu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hide&Seek 1,096 Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 If you're comfortable with talking about your worries to A, why not. Everybody needs someone to talk about their worries to. idk but I think B just did not want to have things awkward between you both. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♥ jae's bae ♥ 740 Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 I think you should tell A. If you worries and you usually go to him...then you should. However, some guys do tend to get very jealous (especially when they like you) so just be prepared for him getting jealous of the idea of guy B. Don't let it deter you, though. You have to be clear and direct with what you want because either of them might not understand what they are to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted December 23, 2016 Author Share Posted December 23, 2016 I think you should tell A. If you worries and you usually go to him...then you should. However, some guys do tend to get very jealous (especially when they like you) so just be prepared for him getting jealous of the idea of guy B. Don't let it deter you, though. You have to be clear and direct with what you want because either of them might not understand what they are to you.In what ways would A be jealous? Hallyu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nicophos 1,660 Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 pick someone. tell the other guy also. less drama Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♥ jae's bae ♥ 740 Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 In what ways would A be jealous? Hallyu Not for definite but simply because you're talking to another guy...regardless of if you're friends or not. Guys tend to get jealous of other guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sana Minatozaki 3,305 Posted December 23, 2016 Share Posted December 23, 2016 you should Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted December 23, 2016 Author Share Posted December 23, 2016 Not for definite but simply because you're talking to another guy...regardless of if you're friends or not. Guys tend to get jealous of other guys.Oh, thats why last time when I was talking about a friend, A was asking if it was a guy or girl Hallyu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted December 23, 2016 Author Share Posted December 23, 2016 pick someone. tell the other guy also. less drama So e.g. I might pick A to talk to and then tell B I am with A? How about if I might not like A? Hallyu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nicophos 1,660 Posted December 24, 2016 Share Posted December 24, 2016 So e.g. I might pick A to talk to and then tell B I am with A? How about if I might not like A? Hallyu you said youre slowly falling for a. pick a, drop b (and tell b). less problem now as you only have to deal with a with your "conflicting" feelings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted December 25, 2016 Author Share Posted December 25, 2016 you said youre slowly falling for a. pick a, drop b (and tell b). less problem now as you only have to deal with a with your "conflicting" feelings. I always tell my worries to A.. should I tell A that B is always wanting to contact me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nicophos 1,660 Posted December 25, 2016 Share Posted December 25, 2016 I always tell my worries to A.. should I tell A that B is always wanting to contact me? i dont think its a nice idea (unless its a life or death situation- a might do something you dont know) just drop b simply. again drop him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoneyBee12 33 Posted December 27, 2016 Author Share Posted December 27, 2016 i dont think its a nice idea (unless its a life or death situation- a might do something you dont know) just drop b simply. again drop him. We are not officially together, so he might not do it.. But because we are close, he might do it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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