Bye OH. I think I'll delete my account.

[vocabulary]

For this passage, it will be the last time i rant about this. Just let me rant. Sorry if I annoy you. This will be the last time. You don't have to read. I just really need to rant.

As some may know, I was harassed by this person for a long time. It's still not over. The law here is shit too. Don't know why she's so obsessed with me if she hates me. She says I'm the only one she finds smart. She's super competitive. She says she will never accept anything lower than number 1 blah blah. She stalks me, harasses me, then create fake acc online to send hate to me. She copies whatever I do. Like through stalking she found out I write blogs then she copies that. I translate But she can't translate since her English is worse than mine. I brought a book out to read. She bought exact same book, told me she's gonna become a reader, then say I'm superficial for not liking to read when I told her the book was annoying to read??? I'm seriously seriously not bragging or anything. I'm very mediocre. My performance at work is also mediocre. But she's constantly finding me a threat and always try to bring me down. I've shared on OH countless times of what she did, each time different. Recently, she tried to steal money from work and frame me for it. Also, she stole a very important work document from me. If the contract is lost, I have to pay the company. I wasn't being careless. I was supposed to put the document on my boss's desk which I did although I was paranoid. Then she stole it from the stack of papers, pretending that she was just taking her own paper that she put by accident. I knew it was her but didn't say so, and tricked her into giving it out. This is also what I do not wish to become. Some scheming person like her. She's always putting down me, my friends, and even my family. She's a complete psychopath. Always saying stuff like "I'll get guys to gang rape you, let you know what pain is." (FUCKING disgusting. I would expect more from a female.) she send this kind of shit to me, swearing she'll bring me down and whatnot. I tracked them to her IP address (which I have from before when she sent hate a few years ago). But then acts like I'm her best friend always linking arms with me. I try to walk away but she hold very tight. The friends around me who know about her (and they see it for themselves) a few times my guy friends had to walk me home. This is just the tip of the iceberg. She did a lot a lot more I'm a very bad writer and thinking of it makes me anxious so I won't type more. But my mental health has deteriorated so much from her harassment. My friend tells me to leave her but it's so hard when we have so many connections together (work, etc.). I become so paranoid because of her. I dare say throughout the entire ordeal, I've never once fought back or attempted to hurt her. The most I did was tell people online and my friends for help. I hate her. sometimes I wish she would die. If she dies, she disappears from my life, and I can be fine again. But I won't hurt her. This is just something I'll stand by. I feel like I can't protect myself any longer. It's getting too difficult and too tiring. I just have to run away from her. I literally get so anxious that I have difficulties breathing I had to see psychologist several times bc of her. This is a close-minded Asian country. Seeing a psychologist already end up having bad record for me. But I really think I will go crazy if I can't tell someone and seek advice. I'm so stressed all the time. Maybe that's why I always post annoying stuff on OH. I have depression and anxiety. My anxiety is getting more and more severe as she remains near me. I have to take medicines everyday and whatnot. I'm so sick of this

 

It is 90% certain I will delete my account. All I need to do now is 1) see a professional to discuss my next actions. Once done, I just need to find time off my work to settle everything. Because not just this account, I'll delete anything associated with it like other websites blah blah

 

I doubt I will create another account after this since I annoy a lot of people on OH.

 

If u have read, thank u. If u didn't, nvm too I just have one question. What happens to my won after account deleted if I don't give it away? I want to know what exactly happens to it. I want to know how OH economy system works. Thank u if u can explain.

 

Messy. May edit later. That's all.

 

Update weeks later: probably back while revamping my acc. Less active so as to stay low and not draw attention from her. Sorry to those who wanted won. I have remembered all ur names and will give it once I've sufficient funds.

[You Need Some Milk]

Aint stalking illegal

And yes then focus on you and your safety But donate some wons juseyo

 

EDIT:  Where are you from? Did you research the laws about harrassment and stalking? You need to remove yourself from the toxic environment... 

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[ninedaysqueen]

god that's horrible :( :( :( my heart goes out to you. I hope that everything works out. 

 

for what it's worth you never annoyed me :(

[jooyoungsbae]

this is terrible, shouldnt you be contacting the police?

you dont annoy me i think you are nice to me

your won will go away i think 

[foo]

It goes away. So you should give it away. To me preferably 

[iKonBrat]

Girl, you better smack that hoe lol

 

Why would you let her get away with all that?

at her first minor offense I would have dragged that bitch aside and checked her

 

all she needs is a good checking and to be shown where her place is

[Shady Bora]

I'll miss your food threads. 

[bluesargent]

WTF she sounds terrible   Good luck with everything, I hope the situation gets resolved and you start feeling better 

[paopufruit]

Omg wtf that's terrible :'( I hope this crazy bitch leaves you alone and if she doesn't you really need to ask someone for help 

[ByulHarangBona]

Stay safe. I will miss you and your food threads.

 

You can donate some Wons to me

[Aliza]

This is horrible! She honestly sounds like a dangerous person and it's terrible that law enforcement in your country isn't helping you. I've never heard of a case of stalking this bad before. The law really won't help you? 

 

You've never annoyed me on here. I've always liked your posts and the message you sent me a while back with the few wons. I wish you wouldn't go but If you decide to it's understandable. 

 

Best wishes no matter what you decide to do 

 

[dorkyu]

I've never met you but that sounds absolutely horrible. IDK where you're from but she really needs to get a grip on her life. The fact that you've never fought back makes you a better person already - do contact the police and seek professional health; whatever you did, you don't deserve this!! 

 

if you're serious about leaving, give me some won pls!

[BlueButterfly]

NOOOO DON'T GO you're so nice it's such a shame!!   but if it will help you feel better, by all means do so dear... It saddens me much to read this terrible story. I wish there was a way I could help..

 

But my mental health has deteriorated so much from her harassment. My friend tells me to leave her but it's so hard when we have so many connections together (work, etc.). 

 

If it's a matter of breaking up with a "friend" who is destroying your life, why AREN'T you leaving her?? Idk anything about your situation but do you think you could be able to change your job and avoid her? please consider changing jobs, if you are having a hard time in close proximity with her I should think it's very worth it, even if you get paid less or smthing :(

 

Whatever happens I wish you the best!! *hugs with tears*

[Sexy Wang]

you should go kick her ass

[vocabulary]

this is terrible, shouldnt you be contacting the police?

you dont annoy me i think you are nice to me

your won will go away i think

in a thread I made a few months ago. I explained that I once prepared to go to the police with evidence. Not full evidence since she did so much shit but certainly sufficient. MY then best friend stopped me and even made me apologize to her + get rid of the evidence. That person is no longer my best friend. Ex best friend was super super persistent. I deleted the stuff but since then the person no longer my best friend. I know she threatened my ex best friend with stuff. He even tried to force me to apologize to her.

 

Thank you very much. You're very nice to me too

[dorkyu]

in a thread I made a few months ago. I explained that I once prepared to go to the police with evidence. Not full evidence since she did so much shit but certainly sufficient. MY then best friend stopped me and even made me apologize to her + get rid of the evidence. That person is no longer my best friend. Ex best friend was super super persistent. I deleted the stuff but since then the person no longer my best friend. I know she threatened my ex best friend with stuff. He even tried to force me to apologize to her.

 

Thank you very much. You're very nice to me too

 

wait... cheongsam? weibo go? 

 

if you live the country I think you live in my heart really goes out to you :( I completely get your frustration... 

[vocabulary]

wait... cheongsam? weibo go?

 

if you live the country I think you live in my heart really goes out to you :( I completely get your frustration...

if you also live in the country I think u live in, very relatable sis. for your earlier post, thank you very much. I'm trying to solve this issue right now, though quite uncertain how to solve since I'm dealing w a snake.

[DummyBear]

Just don't Pressure yourself too much. & take care doggie..I mean Goddess Desho~

don't worry. atleast the Saesang will no longer be....near you. xD

 

 

P.S (if you do leave...Donate a poor guy some Wons pretty pweash   )

From your Loving~

Saesang Fan. xD

jk~

[UNNIE]

I never post in your threads but I read a lot of your wackey threads since I have no life.

 

You're wons will be deleted and gone into the won hole.

 

 

But you could always give me your wons. I like having wons for when I wanna buy a ring for my marriage with Yoona

 

[Ripiaoppa]

For this passage, it will be the last time i rant about this. Just let me rant. Sorry if I annoy you. This will be the last time. You don't have to read. I just really need to rant.

As some may know, I was harassed by this person for a long time. It's still not over. The law here is shit too. Don't know why she's so obsessed with me if she hates me. She says I'm the only one she finds smart. She's super competitive. She says she will never accept anything lower than number 1 blah blah. She stalks me, harasses me, then create fake acc online to send hate to me. She copies whatever I do. Like through stalking she found out I write blogs then she copies that. I translate But she can't translate since her English is worse than mine. I brought a book out to read. She bought exact same book, told me she's gonna become a reader, then say I'm superficial for not liking to read when I told her the book was annoying to read??? I'm seriously seriously not bragging or anything. I'm very mediocre. My performance at work is also mediocre. But she's constantly finding me a threat and always try to bring me down. I've shared on OH countless times of what she did, each time different. Recently, she tried to steal money from work and frame me for it. Also, she stole a very important work document from me. If the contract is lost, I have to pay the company. I wasn't being careless. I was supposed to put the document on my boss's desk which I did although I was paranoid. Then she stole it from the stack of papers, pretending that she was just taking her own paper that she put by accident. I knew it was her but didn't say so, and tricked her into giving it out. This is also what I do not wish to become. Some scheming person like her. She's always putting down me, my friends, and even my family. She's a complete psychopath. Always saying stuff like "I'll get guys to gang rape you, let you know what pain is." (FUCKING disgusting. I would expect more from a female.) she send this kind of shit to me, swearing she'll bring me down and whatnot. I tracked them to her IP address (which I have from before when she sent hate a few years ago). But then acts like I'm her best friend always linking arms with me. I try to walk away but she hold very tight. The friends around me who know about her (and they see it for themselves) a few times my guy friends had to walk me home. This is just the tip of the iceberg. She did a lot a lot more I'm a very bad writer and thinking of it makes me anxious so I won't type more. But my mental health has deteriorated so much from her harassment. My friend tells me to leave her but it's so hard when we have so many connections together (work, etc.). I become so paranoid because of her. I dare say throughout the entire ordeal, I've never once fought back or attempted to hurt her. The most I did was tell people online and my friends for help. I hate her. sometimes I wish she would die. If she dies, she disappears from my life, and I can be fine again. But I won't hurt her. This is just something I'll stand by. I feel like I can't protect myself any longer. It's getting too difficult and too tiring. I just have to run away from her. I literally get so anxious that I have difficulties breathing I had to see psychologist several times bc of her. This is a close-minded Asian country. Seeing a psychologist already end up having bad record for me. But I really think I will go crazy if I can't tell someone and seek advice. I'm so stressed all the time. Maybe that's why I always post annoying stuff on OH. I have depression and anxiety. My anxiety is getting more and more severe as she remains near me. I have to take medicines everyday and whatnot. I'm so sick of this

 

It is 90% certain I will delete my account. All I need to do now is 1) see a professional to discuss my next actions. Once done, I just need to find time off my work to settle everything. Because not just this account, I'll delete anything associated with it like other websites blah blah

 

I doubt I will create another account after this since I annoy a lot of people on OH.

 

If u have read, thank u. If u didn't, nvm too I just have one question. What happens to my won after account deleted if I don't give it away? I want to know what exactly happens to it. I want to know how OH economy system works. Thank u if u can explain.

 

Messy. May edit later. That's all.

please do not leave you're one of the coolest users please don't :(

 

And smash the girl up.. FUCK HER UP or at least get someone to.

 

It's called self defence she is invading your life now throw the btch out ugh I hate her.

[JiMiJu]

That sounds terrible, you need to get help somehow.

[LunarE]

 I don't quite remember your threads or posts atm so I don't think you annoyed me. But I am so sorry to hear/read all that you are going through. I do think that you should definitely compile evidence again (read the post in this thread) and go to the police or something since it sounds like she might be mentally ill. Though I know that's just empty advice that you've probably heard before :/ . I wish the best for you. 

[hi im ken]

Hi, welcome

[vocabulary]

Hi, welcome

thank u :D