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Help me please. Should I go there? If I go, will I face some troubles? What should I do?

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Hello everyone. Help juseyo please.

I was on a dating app yesterday and I met a guy on there. He talked a little, and I discovered he lives 2 streets above mine. Our houses are too close, but I never saw him before. Ok.

He's 38 and I'm 21 years old. The age gape didn't bother me or him at all. We are both gay as I think you all know already.

He lives alone, so he invited me for coming to his house tomorrow. I was hesitating, but I said I would go. He told me he likes to give a young gay a wonderful experience.

I discovered his name and all. I checked his profiles on social media, and he looks like a nice person.

But even though I want to go to his house tomorrow, I feel scared and I think I am being a slut. It feels so wrong to have sex with a random. Also my uncles live in the same neighborhood. They're always on my house, and no one knows I'm gay. If anyone discovers it I'm dead.

What to do then? I don't love him, but it would be nice to have sex with him. But it's so risky and dangerous. And I don't even know if I'm prepared, but I want to have sex with him. Yes, I am 21 and never had any experiences on it.

Thanks for helping.

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But he's a nice guy, and we just look for sex

I am honestly scared about my family getting to know... since we live close

Just protect yourself

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Think through about the situation - do you want casual sex or to be in a relationship? Also, what does he want from you? I have a feeling from your post that he isn't really a date material.
If you're afraid that you'll be caught, then either reject the offer or go with him somewhere far from your neighbourhood.

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Think through about the situation - do you want casual sex or to be in a relationship? Also, what does he want from you? I have a feeling from your post that he isn't really a date material.

If you're afraid that you'll be caught, then either reject the offer or go with him somewhere far from your neighbourhood.

We both just want sex. Am I slut for wanting this?

It feels wrong to do because my family spent a lot on my education. And I am acting like a crap person. But I really want to have sex.

 

And he knows one of my uncles

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We both just want sex. Am I slut for wanting this?

It feels wrong to do because my family spent a lot on my education. And I am acting like a crap person. But I really want to have sex.

 

And he knows one of my uncles

You're definitely not a slut.

Maybe it's better if you wait a little bit. Say to him that you're not ready yet.

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If you do go for it.

  • Wear a condom, also make sure he wears one too.
  • You're not a slut in anyway, casual sex is a normal thing.

Sex is part of human nature, it's okay to want to have sex and doesn't make you a bad person. Just make sure you feel 100% comfortable with this guy.

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