Ace of Immortals 288 Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 What would you do? I have a really fun and outgoing best friend. She has been crushing on this guy we knew (our classmate) for 3 years now. I was sitting next to him so I did my job as a good friend and gather information for her by befriending him because she asked me to do that. I also helped her secretly putting the gifts under his table for his birthday, christmas, valentine and such. I truly wish they would get together because it's really rare for my friend to go such length for a guy. But then all of the sudden, he hugged and confessed to me last friday after our class ended. I was so shocked that I wasn't able to answer when he told me to think about it then left. My friend, she's on a vacation with her family since last week so we only contact each other through texts. I really don't know if I should tell her this or not... And about that guy, how should I answer him? We're currently having a break so I still have some time before I have to face them again... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazzer 11 Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 Well, if you don't like him, then just tell the guy that, but if you do tell him that don't be like "But aayyy, my friend likes you." that'll come off pretty bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Qiu 3,159 Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 I wouldn't tell her and i'd reject the guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chanychanchan 3,203 Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 Talk to your friend, hiding it from her isn't going to help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ethereal 20,923 Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 here's the thing, if you don't like him, than don't accept his feelings. maybe even tell him personally that your friend is the one that likes him. but if you do have feelings for him that's another story. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
í™©ì œë‹˜ 팬 4,702 Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 here's the thing, if you don't like him, than don't accept his feelings. maybe even tell him personally that your friend is the one that likes him. but if you do have feelings for him that's another story. NOOOOOO? not that tbh.. it's not gonna end well in that case Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vagus 2,607 Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 if you dont like they guy, then reject him and tell your friend about his confession to you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ethereal 20,923 Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 NOOOOOO? not that tbh.. it's not gonna end well in that case as a straight forward person, that's what i'd do. sometimes boys just need a push in the right direction to get it. and you never know how things will turn out until you let them turn out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
í™©ì œë‹˜ 팬 4,702 Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 as a straight forward person, that's what i'd do. sometimes boys just need a push in the right direction to get it. and you never know how things will turn out until you let them turn out. she doesn't have the right to confess on behalf of someone else tbh.. Her friend can do that personally if she wants to.. And if he likes op, knowing that the other girl is in love with him isn't going to make him like her.. He'll most likely think he lost his chance with her because of her friend.. That's not what she wants to.. Op, if you don't like him. reject him without telling your friend.. After awhile, just tell her to befriend him (she should've done that from the beginning instead of asking you tbh) and hopefully she'll confess to him at some point... It'll depend on him after that though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 Reject him of course, do you have feeling for him as well? Don't tell her it's gonna make it seem like you were coming on to him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sharekoube 1,721 Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 idk what will happen tbh, but if i like the person then sure why not. But if it was the other way around, my crushes are all males, my friends are straight however :') Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sharekoube 1,721 Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 Oh and a direct response to your question.. Well, it obviously seems that you care for your friend more, (honestly u r doing so much for her wth do u like her or something) so in order to not break the friendship you should prob reject the guy, unless you have feelings for him too. (nice drama if so) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honey Yura 293 Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 i'd tell my friend and reject him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minime 1,128 Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 Reject him cutely, because you're friends now, right? And, if he agrees to hang post-rejection, try to push your friend towards him. And, about your friend - this happening is a bit her fault for pushing you in his direction, but I think she's going to hate that he confessed to you. Anyway, inform her immediately before she comes to know from someone else. Don't say sorry to her, it was not your intention. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ripiaoppa 15,307 Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 I'll just turn him down since I'm a lesbian. Don't involve me in this heterosexual love drama Lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrayCray 2,636 Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 Reject him cutely, because you're friends now, right? And, if he agrees to hang post-rejection, try to push your friend towards him. And, about your friend - this happening is a bit her fault for pushing you in his direction, but I think she's going to hate that he confessed to you. Anyway, inform her immediately before she comes to know from someone else. Don't say sorry to her, it was not your intention. ^^^^ all this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oppa did mean it 1,607 Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 It has happened to me a couple times It's really awkward, I did end up going with one tho, she was REALLY pretty and my friend is ugly and fat so he never had a chance Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted November 22, 2016 Share Posted November 22, 2016 Honestly there isn't much of a problem on your behalf, that's of course assuming you don't like him (which is the most vital information here and you have conveniently avoided sharing that). In you situation I would just tell your friend about what happened, and restrain from helping her again with this guy it obviously didn't work and if possible I would limit my contact with that guy as much as possible. You don't have to do the last part if you already consider him a friend but in my case I wouldn't have a problem in ditching the crush of a friend just for my best friend. So yeah, just reject that guy and talk your friend about it, if she likes she need to befriend him, not you. You've done nothing wrong so I believe you shouldn't be feeling bad about it or hiding it from your friend. as a straight forward person, that's what i'd do. sometimes boys just need a push in the right direction to get it. and you never know how things will turn out until you let them turn out. I'm also a straight forward person and that's what I would do as well. I'm a guy by the way so I don't know if girls tend to keep this stuff concealed but I prefer to cut the crap and tell things how the are. Although I wouldn't have participated in this cupid crap either, if I friend asked me for help I would encourage him since the beginning to engage her or just straightly tell the girl that my friend likes her (I've doe that a lot lmfao). However in this case it would be better if this girl first talks about with her friend about what happened, then I would tell her she needs to confess him, or at least talk to him, otherwise I won't participate in this and if he confesses again I'm to tell him that she likes him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JiMiJu 1,858 Posted November 22, 2016 Share Posted November 22, 2016 If it is not mutual, it's not going to work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minassi 90 Posted November 24, 2016 Share Posted November 24, 2016 If you don't like him, just tell him off. Your friend has to know about it, probably just let her know before anything happens. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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