There a way to have healthy relationships with adults?

[Dilemmax]

Honestly, never have been that hard treat with an adult person, every almost adult person that i've knew, it's problematic in almost every sense. The fact is i'm trying to talk with my mom for she give me more freedom because i don't stand be long terms of time in my house for diverse reasons, but she doesn't want, in fact, the past months was searching any excuse for get out of here but the problem is every damn adult that i've knew, my mom doesn't want let me go too easily, my grandma and grandpa were the only really nice with me but they had to go because another family problems, the mom of my grandma thinks that i'm really problematic and she doesn't want to let me in her house too much. Since october i've been like that, honestly feel nobody can't understand me, technically since my ex-love left me the past month i've been like that, i don't know just was too accostumed to this, it's hard to get over it, but thinking hardly about it, i've thinking the best is seach ways to left whole this mess, no one's believes me and thinks that i'm a crazy mad but it's ironic because are the same assholes who told me that i don't need pills and that i'm ok, i can understand if they can't pay a psychologist but you think that a person with mental disorders can go in her/his own in an aura too awful like that? I've made a mistake and i feel bad for it but i don't mind keep suffering because of it because i feel i've suffered too much already for that mistake, i just want a little of freedom, air for think what it's the best for me but i don't really want keep living like this because this bad feeling only gonna give me more bad feelings at the end, i'm sorry. 

 

So, there a way to treat with adult persons?

[Only 1 U Need Connoisseur]

how old are you.. what age is "adults" lmao..

[Dilemmax]

how old are you.. what age is "adults" lmao..

I'm 16 and the most of persons who i treat are into their 30-70s lol.

[abra]

I think I'm decent but then I'm only just in my 20s so...

 

Why don't you and your mom get along?

[Dilemmax]

I think I'm decent but then I'm only just in my 20s so...

 

Why don't you and your mom get along?

Because she wants otherwise that i want. I'm doing something and she search any excuse to stop me.

[B612]

My mom is one of the only adult I get along with, I'm 21 myself but I don't feel like an adult, most of them are a mess and can't recognize their flaws 

[meems]

So you want a fix to your troubles in the family and you're asking how to treat old ppl.

Here's what I think you should do;
Gaining trust back is so hard and you said you made a mistake, don't expect them to forget or not forgive you nor letting you d w/e u want any time soon. 
What you should be focusing on doing is to just listen to w.e they are saying or telling you and don't talk back for at least  2 months.
Try to show some nice gestures towards the elderly, like you mentioned that even your mom's grandma won't let you in her house and that's really bad, but tbh she will probably never let go of what she thinks of you  ( too old so probably too close minded) so forget that woman and work on your grandparents and mother.
You really just have to show them that you are reflecting on yourself and that you are trying, they will eventually give you more space.
Make sure to listen and do whatever your mom tells you to for a while and be politic about it.
IF that doesn't benefit you after 2-3 months then you'd only have to do some talking with your mother by telling her how much you tried and that you think you deserve ----- and want her to ------ and I think she will come around.

In general, adults really just care about manners, you have no idea how much I learnt by just the look my grandma has on her face every time a grandson/ daughter talk to her back or say sth not with many manners or sth that is to them out of this earth to accept.
I'm the best granddaughter in the family tbh ( all my aunts for eg praise me over the girls because of my manners, the fact I make 0 trouble and for other things)
I probably have the most different mind among the family members, I have believes and opinions that  my grandma gets so mad every time I express them yet she never gets mad at me because there's a way to talk to them and all, so try your best to be calm/ polite and sweet with them. Listen to what they say, or make them believe you listen IF what they are asking is too hard for you ( this would only apply to your grandparents cuz they won't catch you)
I always tell my sisters not to wear certain outfits or put a lot of make up in front of my grandma because she will keep nagging about it. Talk to them as much as you can and you can even try to start convos with them by asking them stories about their past  or w/e
I lived with my grandparents for 3 years and I learnt a lot in them, so do this and you'll gain them back.

[Dilemmax]

So you want a fix to your troubles in the family and you're asking how to treat old ppl.

 

Here's what I think you should do;

Gaining trust back is so hard and you said you made a mistake, don't expect them to forget or not forgive you nor letting you d w/e u want any time soon. 

What you should be focusing on doing is to just listen to w.e they are saying or telling you and don't talk back for at least a 2 months.

Try to show some nice gestures towards the elderly, like you mentioned that even your mom's grandma won't let you in her house and that's really bad, but tbh she will probably never let go of what she thinks of you  ( too old so probably too closed minded) 

so forget that woman and work on your grandparents and mother.

You really just have to show them that you are reflecting on yourself and that you are trying, they will eventually give you more space.

So make sure to listen and do whatever your mom tells you to for a while and be politic about it.

IF that doesn't benefit you after 2-3 months then you'd only have to do some talking with your mother by telling her how much you tried and that you think you deserve ----- and want her to ------ and I think she will come around.

 

In general, adults really just care about manners, you have no idea how much I learnt by just the look my grandma has on her face every time a grandson/ daughter talk to her back or say sth not with many manners or sth that is to them out of this earth to accept.

I'm the best granddaughter in the family tbh ( all my aunts for eg praise me over the girls because of my manners, the fact I make 0 trouble and for other things)

I probably have the most different mind among the family members, I have believes and opinions that  my grandma gets so mad every time I express them yet she never gets mad at me because there's a way to talk to them and all, so try your best to be calm/ polite and sweet with them. Listen to what they say, or make them believe you listen IF what they are asking is too hard for you ( this would only apply to your grandparents cuz they won't catch you)

I always tell my sisters not to wear certain outfits or put a lot of make up in front of my grandma because she will keep nagging about it. Talk to them as much as you can and you can even try to start convos with them by asking them stories about their past  or w/e

I lived with my grandparents for 3 years and I learnt a lot in them, so do this and you'll gain them back.

Oh, thanks. Really thanks. 

[meems]

Oh, thanks. Really thanks. 

Welcome and I hope it helps you.