Is it normal to be 18 years old and be single and never been with anyone in your life or even tried..?

[rainbowsoldier]

I am 18 years old. I was always the black sheep and i ended up until today without a boyfriend because boys never tended to approach me. My mom always said that the guys will come to me and not me to them so i'd not make the first move. Now i am alone. Crying. Probably kind of want to die but ok... 

what did i do wrong?

honestly, i am crying right now because of it... i failed... 

 

if i had to write my miserable life here i'd probably make a whole list.. or book....

 

[Jeii]

I am 21 and i have never dated to anyone.. maybe someday i will find someone .. 

[Jeffrey Jung]

it's okay you'll get the right one eventually probably saves you from a lot of heartbreaks tbh

[í™©ì œë‹˜ 팬]

I am 18 years old. I was always the black sheep and i ended up until today without a boyfriend because boys never tended to approach me. My mom always said that the guys will come to me and not me to them so i'd not make the first move. Now i am alone. Crying. Probably kind of want to die but ok... 

what did i do wrong?

honestly, i am crying right now because of it... i failed... 

 

if i had to write my miserable life here i'd probably make a whole list.. or book....

 

why not ?

[Mogwai]

Yes. You are only 18.

[Labyd]

Yes it is. Don`t believe who tells you otherwise

[C♦�smic]

18 is still really young

[Peach Macaron]

everyone marches at their own pace, don't worry about it. i'm 20 and i've only been in one what could vaguely be called a relationship. you're not doing anything wrong.

[rainbowsoldier]

18 is still really young

in my country most girls already had boyfriends, many even had their first time(you know what i mean) really earlier than that... 

[nimi]

I am 21 and i have never dated to anyone.. maybe someday i will find someone .. 

[analyna]

Aww don't cry and feel bad, it's normal,plus you're still young. If you see someone that you're interested in there's nothing wrong with you talking to them first. You can make the first move.

[CookieMaster]

yes, its completely normal

 

im 19, I've always been single, I was approached once but honestly the guy just played around with a bunch of girls so I dont think that really counts lol

 

I will admit that yes, in my culture dating is discouraged and I personally feel the same way, so I dont plan on dating either

 

but even if that's not the case, don't worry about not being approached

 

there's no rush

[GalaxunnieSuperOppa]

First of all you are an amazing and beautiful person. I hope you know that~ It's perfectly normal btw!!!
 

Second of all, not to be rude but forget your mom's advice! I you wanna get a boyfriend go out there and make the first move yourself. It's 2016, not the 1800s!

[abra]

Yes. You are only 18.

[PeaceMinusOne]

Nothing wrong with that. Don't be too hard on yourself, don't feel bad about it, don't cry. You're still very young and you'll eventually meet the right person.

As for the matter of approaching the boys, some girls can do that and some girls can't. You never tried approaching the guys first because you were shy or because you felt it's wrong? Give it a try now. It will be hard at first but it will get easier later. You'll get to meet plenty of awesome people, maybe not for hooking up but you can always befriend them.

Maybe guys never approached you because you were a bit intimidating? You're not giving off an aura of wanting people to approach you? There could be plenty of reasons.

[hailanal]

ur 18 lmao

 

and most relationships that people ur age and younger are in are really superficial. basically just social building blocks and experiences that prepare them for future relationships bc sooner or later they'll break up and go bang somebody else.

[shocking blue]

It's perfectly fine! 18 is young. I have only had one relationship and I'm 22. Life isn't a race. Definitely get out there and make connections if you want, but don't feel pressured to find someone just go at your own pace! It's so much better to be single and take your time finding a person you click with than rushing into a relationship you're not happy about (like a lot of young couples are).

[vader]

it's okay you'll get the right one eventually probably saves you from a lot of heartbreaks tbh

 

^^^^^^^^^^^^^

[shoulder gangster]

You shouldn't rush things like that. So don't worry about it, also it's perfectly normal to meet new guys and stuff and being more talkative and letting them to know you. You're not chasing them in anyway. If you're attending college or uni then I'm sure you'll meet new people there so it's fine!

 

You're still young, the more you think about it the more difficult it'll be for you to find someone decent. <3 ;3

 

On a sidenote just because other girls have lost their V card early doesn't mean you should too. You should give it to someone that you won't regret it later ;)

[thereinzee]

Have you met Kim Hanbin? [emoji87]

 

This was 2 years ago. He's now 20 and still single....

 

Anyway... don't rush it. Relationships are not as important as you think. You're still young. You should enjoy being young. Relationships come with commitments - it's no longer about you but more about you AND your partner. So, I say don't rush it. It will come when the time is right, when you are ready. [emoji4][emoji4][emoji4]

[yeoreobun]

Yes, you're still young !

[Starscall]

I was 21 when I lost my "v-card" and I rather regret it. It was also my first relationship of any sort and I just generally allowed myself to be peer pressured into it.

 

It's not worth it for that sort of reason. Just take your time. You've got plenty of it. Plus, your worth isn't related to your relationship status okay, you need to remember that. Being single, not being single. That doesn't have anything to do with your worth as a person.

[arineunha]

being around the people I am around, it's not normal imo. but I think it's good that you're still in the process of deciding what you like and who you like and you should just decide what is best for you. my sis told me that you find your one either earlier or later, a lot of people find it in their 20s

i'm 18 and only started dating this year

[EasySteezy]

It's totally normal to make the first move. You got to go after what you want, can't just wait for it to happen

[minassi]

Completely normal. Go at your own pace. I know it's hard to find that one person. But you have to go up to them and talk to them so you know. You will find that person someday don't worry!