Why is a man not wanting to date a girl who also had multiple past sex partners hypocritical

[jello505]

But when a woman wants a man taller than them because she doesn't want someone short as her, people don't think she is a hypocrite? Both of the preferences require a standard different than themselves so why is it not hypocritical for the woman?

 

And there are also men who prefer women that shave and when they don't, why isn't that considered hypocritical as well?

Edited November 14, 2016 by jello505

[GRISHA - A Yoonbin Stan]

lol your comparison skills REALLY need help... 

[miharudesu]

Oh. Because being a hypocrite is doing something which contradicts your beliefs and principles. Being short is not something you believe in, it's a physical characteristic that you have no control over. 

[jello505]

lol your comparison skills REALLY need help...

 

why is that? Please explain.

[Jeffrey Jung]

why is that? Please explain.

having multiple sex partners doesn't mean you're commited into a relationship with them

 

you can't even compare them to something like height or if people shaves or not

[ramkissoon]

I don't see how your comparison between a girl having multiple partners, preferring a male taller than a woman and a male preferring a shaved pussy is related to being a hypocrite? Lol.

[jello505]

I don't see how your comparison between a girl having multiple partners, preferring a male taller than a woman and a male preferring a shaved pussy is related to being a hypocrite? Lol.

yes because both standards are something that you want in a partner that you don't necessarily have.

having multiple sex partners doesn't mean you're commited into a relationship with them

 

you can't even compare them to something like height or if people shaves or not

i mean past partners.

[GalaxunnieSuperOppa]

You need to rethink this, then reword this

[GRISHA - A Yoonbin Stan]

why is that? Please explain.

 

when you label something as hypocritical.. it means that you are not ok with this thing that someone does.. but it's ok when YOU do it.. 

 

so this would make sense if you say: why is it ok when men are experienced and have had many sexual partners but not when a woman has experience and had multiple sexual partners? the first is treated as a normal thing, while the second... words like "slut" etc will circulate around... THAT is hypocritical... comparing both sides of one coin.. not something irrelevant like height. 

 

anyways, I hope this helped but if not.. then I suggest you read more on the definition of hypocritical and read some more examples about it.

Edited November 14, 2016 by mcjayjay

[jello505]

You need to rethink this, then reword this

I think my comparison makes sense

 

Girl: I don't want to date guys my height

SJW: she just has a preference

 

Guy: I don't want to date girls that are hairy like me

SJW: preference

 

Guy: I don't want to date a girl that has had a lot of sex partners in the past even tho I had multiple sex partners

SJW:HYPROCRITE!

[jello505]

when you label something as hypocritical.. it means that you are not ok with this thing that someone does.. but it's ok when YOU do it.. 

 

so this would make sense if you say: why is it ok when men are experienced and have had many sexual partners but not when a woman has experience and had multiple sexual partners? the first is treated as a normal thing, while the second... words like "slut" etc will circulate around... THAT is hypocritical... comparing both sides of one coin.. not something irrelevant like height. 

 

anyways, I hope this helped but if not.. then I suggest you read more on the definition of hypocritical and read some more examples about it.

ok. But what about a woman that wants to date a guy wealthier than her, isn't that hypocritical? She isn't wealthy herself

[GRISHA - A Yoonbin Stan]

I think my comparison makes sense

 

Girl: I don't want to date guys my height

SJW: she just has a preference

 

Guy: I don't want to date girls that are hairy like me

SJW: preference

 

Guy: I don't want to date a girl that has had a lot of sex partners in the past even tho I had multiple sex partners

SJW:HYPROCRITE!

 

if the guy has not had multiple sex partners before.. then it's not being hypocritical and he's just sticking to what he believes in.. but if the guy did.. then he's a hypocrite. 

[GRISHA - A Yoonbin Stan]

ok. But what about a woman that wants to date a guy wealthier than her, isn't that hypocritical? She isn't wealthy herself

 

that's called being a gold digger lol. if she calls other people who want to marry someone wealthier than them gold diggers then she's being hypocritical...

 

to call someone a hypocrite.. you have to look at two things, what they believe in, and do their actions translate to what they believe in

[jello505]

that's called being a gold digger lol. if she calls other people who want to marry someone wealthier than them gold diggers then she's being hypocritical...

 

to call someone a hypocrite.. you have to look at two things, what they believe in, and do their actions translate to what they believe in

awwww ok. So having physical preferences that's differ to yourself isn't really hypocritical?

[GRISHA - A Yoonbin Stan]

awwww ok. So having physical preferences that's differ to yourself isn't really hypocritical?

 

no, like i said, it not something you BELIEVE in. It's only when you believe something but do the opposite of what you believe in. Get it? 

[cheap thriâ„“â„“s]

I think slut shaming is more deep than wanting to date someone taller than you

[jello505]

 

no, like i said, it not something you BELIEVE in. It's only when you believe something but do the opposite of what you believe in. Get it? 

How is that any different with I believe a woman should shave, but I don't shave myself and would not date a girl that doesn't shaves?

[NickyGolightly]

It depends on if the guy is saving himself also, if not then yes they're a hypocrite

[vocabulary]

OP, are you really asking because you do not know or are you complaining because you find it unfair?

[Oli London]

[jello505]

OP, are you really asking because you do not know or are you complaining because you find it unfair?

i really don't know

[Wonsungideuri]

Because it's a double standard

[Suzy Quatro]

In the first case it's only hypocrite for a man if he, as a male, doesn't hold himself to the same standards and think it's ok if a guy had multiple sex partners.

 

The second case it's different though because it's a matter of preference and the behavior of a person isn't being judged, at worst you could call that girl (the one who wants a taller partner) as vain or superficial. You can see that as a bad trait but even if that was the case I would still not consider that as hypocrite because there's nothing hypocrite about not holding women and men to same physical standards, and height is something men tend to be taller. However it could be hypocrite if we were talking about an homosexual boy who thinks short men are unattractive (while he is a short guy) and refuses to date anyone who isn't considerable taller than him.

 

It can also be hypocrite for a girl looking for some specific physical traits in boyfriend and be very picky about it and throwing a tantrum when she doesn't live to the standards of the boy she likes. It might seem complicated but being hypocrite is when you judge people on flaws you blatantly commit.

[jello505]

In the first case it's only hypocrite for a man if he, as a male, doesn't hold himself to the same standards and think it's ok if a guy had multiple sex partners.

 

The second case it's different though because it's a matter of preference and the behavior of a person isn't being judged, at worst you could call that girl (the one who wants a taller partner) as vain or superficial. You can see that as a bad trait but even if that was the case I would still not consider that as hypocrite because there's nothing hypocrite about not holding women and men to same physical standards, and height is something men tend to be taller. However it could be hypocrite if we were talking about an homosexual boy who thinks short men are unattractive (while he is a short guy) and refuses to date anyone who isn't considerable taller than him.

 

It can also be hypocrite for a girl looking for some specific physical traits in boyfriend and be very picky about it and throwing a tantrum when she doesn't live to the standards of the boy she likes. It might seem complicated but being hypocrite is when you judge people on flaws you blatantly commit.

Why is the homosexual guy a hypocrite, but not the girl?

[Cordyline]