Nyokou 700 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 Out of nowhere I get a call on Skype and he tells me that he's getting married to his gf in August. And he wants me to be there. I don't even know what to feel right now. Whether I should be happy for him or angry/sad that he's doing something so irrational. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DocumentaLy 6,033 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 Is she pregnant? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A Boy Like Troy 3,333 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 You should support him. Although you may think it's a bit irrational, it's best to let him know that he has his older sister for support and maybe in time, he will learn through the process and will think smarter next time if he ever gets divorced quickly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hyoyeon~Minzy 12,109 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 How old are you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CookieCrisp 781 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 how old is this younger brother? since you didnt mention it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nyokou 700 Posted May 26, 2013 Author Share Posted May 26, 2013 Is she pregnant? Nah. I don't think they've even had sex yet. They're like the complete opposite of me... very religious and only believe in sex after marriage and all that conservative stuff. EDIT: They're both 20 yrs old. I'm 21. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BitchyNoona 28 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 ... Whya re you posting this here? But, help him, he helps you (right?) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DocumentaLy 6,033 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 Nah. I don't think they've even had sex yet. They're like the complete opposite of me... very religious and only believe in sex after marriage and all that conservative stuff. EDIT: They're both 20 Things happen... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nyokou 700 Posted May 26, 2013 Author Share Posted May 26, 2013 ... Whya re you posting this here? But, help him, he helps you (right?) idk. I'm just shocked lol. it's just soooo random. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mglsts 960 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 Hmm that sounds way too young to marry.... I think you should try to talk to your brother and meet this fiance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
margarinebuttercheese 231 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 He called you because he trusted you. If not, he'll just get married without telling anyone. You should go. Support him there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nyokou 700 Posted May 26, 2013 Author Share Posted May 26, 2013 Hmm that sounds way too young to marry.... I think you should try to talk to your brother and meet this fiance. I haven't even met her before. Not once. Last time I saw my brother he was dating someone else. He called you because he trusted you. If not, he'll just get married without telling anyone. You should go. Support him there. Yeah I guess I should. I think he'd do the same for me too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skibop!! 8,585 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 Nah. I don't think they've even had sex yet. They're like the complete opposite of me... very religious and only believe in sex after marriage and all that conservative stuff. EDIT: They're both 20 yrs old. I'm 21. How long have they been dating? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dinolover 3,610 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 Nah. I don't think they've even had sex yet. They're like the complete opposite of me... very religious and only believe in sex after marriage and all that conservative stuff. EDIT: They're both 20 yrs old. I'm 21. uh why would you be angry? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laudeul 288 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 wow they're so young... does he financially support himself already? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mglsts 960 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 I haven't even met her before. Not once. Last time I saw my brother he was dating someone else. Try to meet her and judge the situation for yourself. Maybe it's not that bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SEWER RAT 10,617 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 Eww they're my age. Even if they do get married, I hope they don't have kids in a year or two, fuck getting greedy and being irresponsible with children. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nyokou 700 Posted May 26, 2013 Author Share Posted May 26, 2013 How long have they been dating? A year... or less. I'm not really sure. uh why would you be angry? They barely know each other and they're really young... I just don't want him to get himself into something serious and regret it later. Esp with the way his gf acts sometimes by what I've heard from my other brother... but I don't really know her personally either so idk.. wow they're so young... does he financially support himself already? Yeah, he's a Taekwondo instructor and he's also taking college classes. Try to meet her and judge the situation for yourself. Maybe it's not that bad. Maybe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoplz 2,333 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 A year... or less. I'm not really sure. They barely know each other and they're really young... I just don't want him to get himself into something serious and regret it later. Esp with the way his gf acts sometimes by what I've heard from my other brother... but I don't really know her personally either so idk.. Yeah, he's a Taekwondo instructor and he's also taking college classes. Maybe. wow a year? i understand why u so shocked, he is crazy...why do they have to get married smh...thats way too young and way too fast smh, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MoshiMoshi 10,792 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 Try to be as supportive as you can and assess the situation. If you meet her and it really seems like it won't work out, just talk to him and see where his mind is and go from there. Don't get mad or accuse or anything because if he thinks you're trying to tell him what to do it will just make things worse. You never know, maybe it's just meant to be. My best friend got married at 20 (which I thought was way too young) and they're coming up on their two year anniversary. The bottom line is, it's his life and he's a legal adult so he can do what he wants. If he says he really wants to marry her, try to be supportive and be there for him. It's hard, but if it will make him happy, that's the most important thing right? It sounds like he really wants you there, so go and grin and bear it if you have to. Besides, if it does last and you're not there, would you regret it? Just some food for thought. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fari. 1,504 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 oh wow thats really young! and i thought i was too young when i made that decision. but yeah, it'd be good if you got to meet up with his gf and just talk to him as well. ngl idk if i would be supportive if my bro did that but i think if hes financially able to support her and they really think they are ready, it should be ok. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Psy 2,401 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 This is such a tricky situation. It depends so much on the characters, and the relationship. It's understandable how an older sister would feel worried, and somewhat angry that this is all happening too fast, but it is best to make more effort to get closer than to step back. Easier said than done. You can't influence their decision of marriage, and it doesn't help that you don't really know the Wife-to-be. I think your emotions are all stemmed from having too many unanswered questions. You clearly care, or you would not have made this thread. Take it easy, and try to be more positive. Congratulations to him, and you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Your Juan and only 5,432 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 Can I date your brother so I can an official cougar Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheGentleman 541 Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 Nah. I don't think they've even had sex yet. They're like the complete opposite of me... very religious and only believe in sex after marriage and all that conservative stuff. EDIT: They're both 20 yrs old. I'm 21. well, there's the reason why then. Being super horny+not being allowed to have sexy time = rushed marriage Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nyokou 700 Posted May 26, 2013 Author Share Posted May 26, 2013 well, there's the reason why then. Being super horny+not being allowed to have sexy time = rushed marriage lmao And thanks everyone. I guess I'll have to make some sort of attempt to get to know his fiancée then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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