luxuriouss86 185 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 When some of my friends move to another school, city, church, or another state, they would ignore my phone calls, text messages, emails and social messages. It just pisses me off. Why would someone do that? If I move to another church, school, city or state, i would still call them and ask how they're doing. I can't just ditch them and ignore them. does this happens to you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teru 22,363 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 yeah, it's just part of life, unfortunately. happens to everyone just means the people you do stay in regular touch with are more invested in their friendship with you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeggoStar 5,695 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 Then they aren't your real friends or just acquaintances. When people move they are forced to have a fresh start, sometimes their old friends just aren't worth keeping for them. You valued the friendship more than they did, its best that you know that now though than having someone just being your friend because you are frequently in the same location. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EVA02 4,755 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 I'm pretty sure they don't mean it. When they move to a new place they will be busy finding where they stand. They basically start all over again. It's probably hard for them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TinyKimLeader 746 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 OMG I'm the one like your friend. No particular reason, it is just I am not the type of person that keep attached with casual friend or colleague. I will not contact until they initiate first, that even I might not reply it. Even with my very close best friend I rarely reply her if I think it's not that important or only chit-chat. She already understand it tho and call me "someone who is hard to reach". I know this is a really bad personality of me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♥ jae's bae ♥ 740 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 sometimes it's literally down to being busy...I'm so bad at replying to people and other times, honestly, I'm just lazy. but if they constantly don't bother making the effort and choose to ignore you every time then I wouldn't consider them as friends (if they avoid you irl too) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Septiplier 501 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 I actually only talk to two people I went to highschool with. I go to a community college so I see people I used to talk to now avoid me for some reason? It used to bother me but I don't care anymore Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
í™©ì œë‹˜ 팬 4,702 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 I used to think that's very rude. But really, there is no need to stay in contact with people just to "play nice" when you don't consider them friends and have no intention to keep in touch. That would be a waste of everyone's time and those people deserve to know that you don't give a shit. So yeah, sometimes ditching phone calls and ignoring people does the work if you're not brave enough to be honest and tell them that you just don't want to be friends anymore.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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