peach 2,604 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 So apparently I'm in love with this girl but then she has a boyfriend. How am I supposed to tell her that I'm actually in love with her? p/s: I'm a guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IBetrayedHanbinForSewoon 4,294 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 I thought you was a girl all along.... Wait for it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
impromptutraveler 3,783 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 i wouldn't put her in a situation where she has to choose between you and her boyfriend honestly most times it just ends up not what you expected Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HARAM 6,330 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 you shouldn't tell her until she's single it'd be wrong btw your sig/dp aesthetics Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meems 229 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 mm.. if she is really happy with her bf and love him and the guy is good and nice then don't say anything. If you think she doesn't love him or that he is not so good ( or they're not serious) then you can tell her up straight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aeolian 31 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 Don't do it... Without you, the poetry within me is dead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peach 2,604 Posted November 7, 2016 Author Share Posted November 7, 2016 ah i see guys ;-; thank you though. it's kinda hurting to see she's with somebody else /sighs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoveAuroraButterfly 625 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 ah i see guys ;-; thank you though. it's kinda hurting to see she's with somebody else /sighs i feel you. but it's better than being selfish & ruin someone else relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peach 2,604 Posted November 7, 2016 Author Share Posted November 7, 2016 i feel you. but it's better than being selfish & ruin someone else relationship. yeah you're right :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoveAuroraButterfly 625 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 yeah you're right :( Get better soon. Chin up!! Cheer Up!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trixbox 2,982 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 So apparently I'm in love with this girl but then she has a boyfriend. How am I supposed to tell her that I'm actually in love with her? p/s: I'm a guy Respect the relationship man, as the great 90's poet Nelly said: " play your position like a short stop, pick up e'rything she hittin." Wait it out, play out your position if you want to but never ruin relationships. Be a bro. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 For me it would depend on my current relation with this girl to begin with, it also depends how good is her current relationship with her boyfriend but if I liked this girl a lot I probably wouldn't give a shit about this part xD. So if you know her for a long time and feel you don't have any chance with her in the near future and you don't have any expectations of her having the same feelings, sure you can tell her and get it out of your chest but that would be pretty much the end of it. I would only be that bold like a last resort and desperate thing and it would be better to wait until she shows some interest in you. If you also want to declare your love you have to beware of the boyfriend, you have to assume he won't like you messing with his girlfriend so if you're concerned about your health integrity it's probably a better idea not to do it. So I don't know, you really need to asset this situation by yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minassi 90 Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 you can secretly like her but don't let it get in the way of the relationship with her boyfriend. see how it goes first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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