Dilemmax 291 Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 Well, ask that because it's really weird; I'm a lesbian and i know a lesbian has not precisely to be masculine or be like a man, but lately it's worrying me too much that i'm being more femenine these days, i didn't knew if was since technically was kind of romantically involved with a straight girl (it ended tragicly but i'm forgetting because never really felt something for her, it is a tragic story) and in some way wanted to look more femenine (a lot more weird because i know that the girls that i like never won't really gonna see me like a girl or at least like a girly girl) and wanted to be like her? (?) (not in personality, of course). It's weird because the most of girls that i like are straight and look femenine (just liked a lesbian thinking she was kind of femenine), and in fact, i could say technically the idol asian factory influenced in my ways to see a women so it's weird to me like femenine girls and have a random desire to be femenine, i don't get myself. It's hilarious because a girl like that won't ever see me in that way lmao. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hqnnik 1,528 Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 It's okay, you can be whoever you want to be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sailor Mars 1,981 Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 I'm sorry but i read this so many times and i still dont quite get it so imma judge by the first sentence I think i get it so apologize if i'm wrong but lesbians have different personalities and aren't strapped down to one trait. As a human, we are constantly changing even if it doesn't fall in line to what we are labeled. Your labels don't define you. People change with who they are with and it is normal btw example: I'm loud and obnoxious with my more loud friends, i'm more girly around more girly people, more tomboyish when i'm around tomboys, and it's perfectly cool to be this way. It's normal as long as we like who we are in the end! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 Sorry I quite don't understand the question. But as for your concerns being more feminine I think it's ok for you to be that way and it does make sense to me. If you like feminine girls and perceive femininity as something attractive then it's a logical thing for you to also try to be more feminine, after all you are a girl as well and you might be unconsciously wanting to be more attractive which is normal thing to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WonderJoyous 10,634 Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 You can be whatever you want to be, is okay if you want to be more feminine regardless of the type of girls you like, there really is nothing wrong about that, like the person above me said, you perceive feminine girls to be attractive and is only natural to want yourself to be more attractive too. We are both spanish-speaking individuals and also the same age, so if you ever want to talk to me about something you can talk to me :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dilemmax 291 Posted November 3, 2016 Author Share Posted November 3, 2016 Sorry I quite don't understand the question. But as for your concerns being more feminine I think it's ok for you to be that way and it does make sense to me. If you like feminine girls and perceive femininity as something attractive then it's a logical thing for you to also try to be more feminine, after all you are a girl as well and you might be unconsciously wanting to be more attractive which is normal thing to do. well, it goes more how i feel, this is about who i am, it's such a mess. I think you resolve my doubt lol, i've been asking this for years but hardly the last months. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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