Ripiaoppa 15,307 Posted October 25, 2016 Share Posted October 25, 2016 By someone very important to you? I've never minded really in the past because I would always make it funny, but lately I got really frustrated my best friend doersn't want to be friends with me anymore... the reason tbh is not because I 'need' her or something like that its just beacuse she kind of did it without my permission or understanding, like one second we are chatting best friends next minute she goneee. Literally Lol so it really affects my pride I dont know if others can relate to that, but when I put effort into someone, then for them to turn around and reject is very weird, weird for me and i can't make sense of it... surely she had some other reason for doing it, but I should move on but I can't... How to get over someone?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jennie Kim Forever 1,467 Posted October 25, 2016 Share Posted October 25, 2016 That's your best friend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♩ ♪ ♫ ♬ 730 Posted October 25, 2016 Share Posted October 25, 2016 at first i feel down but it does make me stronger in the sense that my skin becomes thicker and i just think "so what?" and stop caring. in a way i feel more free to just do what i want. and if it's particularly bad, the next time it happens i'm just kind of immune, thinking i've seen worse before. & i just do things to make myself better and maybe show them up a bit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ripiaoppa 15,307 Posted October 25, 2016 Author Share Posted October 25, 2016 at first i feel down but it does make me stronger in the sense that my skin becomes thicker and i just think "so what?" and stop caring. in a way i feel more free to just do what i want. and if it's particularly bad, the next time it happens i'm just kind of immune, thinking i've seen worse before. & i just do things to make myself better and maybe show them up a bit. What kind of things? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ripiaoppa 15,307 Posted October 25, 2016 Author Share Posted October 25, 2016 That's your best friend? Ikr .. such a joke -.- i really did use a lot of efforts on us tho it's why i feel torn up she decided to ditch -.- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drsdv 624 Posted October 25, 2016 Share Posted October 25, 2016 Ikr .. such a joke -.- i really did use a lot of efforts on us tho it's why i feel torn up she decided to ditch -.- It seems like she is not interested in being friends with you anymore. Sometimes when you are friends with people for a long time, you grow apart without noticing, your interests (and sometimes personalities) change. I hope you find a good friend soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ripiaoppa 15,307 Posted October 25, 2016 Author Share Posted October 25, 2016 It seems like she is not interested in being friends with you anymore. Sometimes when you are friends with people for a long time, you grow apart without noticing, your interests (and sometimes personalities) change. I hope you find a good friend soon. Thank you that was for some reason comforting.. thank you very much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drsdv 624 Posted October 25, 2016 Share Posted October 25, 2016 Thank you that was for some reason comforting.. thank you very much. I'm glad I could help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♩ ♪ ♫ ♬ 730 Posted October 26, 2016 Share Posted October 26, 2016 What kind of things? whatever to show them (or myself) that i don't need them and i'm doing better than they expected or even better than them lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minassi 90 Posted October 26, 2016 Share Posted October 26, 2016 Just move on, you're just wasting your time with someone that makes you feel that way. Know your worth, don't let someone downgrade you like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ripiaoppa 15,307 Posted October 29, 2016 Author Share Posted October 29, 2016 Just move on, you're just wasting your time with someone that makes you feel that way. Know your worth, don't let someone downgrade you like that. i really like your DP and its easier said then done but I will try and know my worth more too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dilemmax 291 Posted October 29, 2016 Share Posted October 29, 2016 I try to don't think about it too much, even if the regret nightmare comeback everytime. Anyway, when someone dislikes me i try to avoid that person because i don't want problems and feel really bad about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Symphonia 312 Posted October 30, 2016 Share Posted October 30, 2016 I never experienced this yet - but I think I'd stay away for good that trying to push myself to someone who doesn't want me. My worth is more than that. I'd try to understand why - but I would save myself from pain and shame. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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