dbellvm 766 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 i can't find such topic, so forgive my blindness if one already exists and please link me. do you think two people of opposite gender can be best friends? do you have experience? share! how long have you been friends? how's your friendship? are you really close? i'm really curious about other people's opinion since i have a best guy friend myself. bonus: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jhope is your hope 1,707 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 yes.one of my closest friends is a male. his name is Alex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soph99 1,080 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 My best friend since childhood is a guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NINI 16,268 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 Of course. I had, well I like to think I still have even if he is not with me anymore, the best friend ever. The name is Giovanni and I love him so much ♡ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muffjins 101 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 of course, although mine isn't like a best friend forever ever ever (.. i'm being third wheeled with another girl..), he's still one of my best friends. not sure if the fact that he's gay changes anything but just thought i'd put that out there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arineunha 352 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 i was never able to make a guy friend, hence i have no guy friends. no guy wants to be my friend...most of them i knew were talking to me weird and they were acting weird even though they were my female friend's friend..they wanted to date or they were just thirsty idk how other girls can become friends with guys Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coreofsoul 1,554 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 yes they can. I had a male best friend. like that quote says people thought we were dating or bro/sis Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yumyum 737 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 Yes my bff is a guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emb 1,987 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 most of my irl friends are females Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Micah Bell 567 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 I've had male friends, but all of my best friends have been girls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solarbeam 2,298 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 I don't have what I would consider best friends, but a lot of my closest friends were guys Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
demasta 23,252 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dbellvm 766 Posted October 20, 2016 Author Share Posted October 20, 2016 idk how other girls can become friends with guys haha that's actually interesting to me, you know... i'd say the same about girls, like how do girls even become friends with other girls... for me it's always easier to joke around and open up to guys. for example, if you give me 10 minutes to chat with some dude and girl for the first time, i'll chat more with the dude... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
memeyoongi 4,769 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 Yes. But not gonna lie you're probably going to have feelings for each other at some point Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyperpanda_0130 148 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 I have really good friends who are males, but my closest friends are female The thing I find about guys is that they're not afraid, if you know what I mean. I'm probably the craziest out of all my friends who are girls, and they can be crazy too, but the guys just seem like they have no filter, you know? It makes them fun and interesting to talk to and joke around with I have really good friends who are males, but my closest friends are female Edit: whoops at me for putting a smiley after every "paragraph" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arineunha 352 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 haha that's actually interesting to me, you know... i'd say the same about girls, like how do girls even become friends with other girls... for me it's always easier to joke around and open up to guys. for example, if you give me 10 minutes to chat with some dude and girl for the first time, i'll chat more with the dude... I'm the total opposite of you lmao..like with girls you can joke around but they're also dependable/reliant and seem more concerned about you. though it take more time to get close to a female friend, tbh i feel like I could talk to them and be friends with them. with guys, it just gets awkward because they expect something Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
exot9 48 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 All my childhood friends are guys except 1 or 2 lol but i don't consider them my best friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dbellvm 766 Posted October 20, 2016 Author Share Posted October 20, 2016 I'm the total opposite of you lmao..like with girls you can joke around but they're also dependable/reliant and seem more concerned about you. though it take more time to get close to a female friend, tbh i feel like I could talk to them and be friends with them. with guys, it just gets awkward because they expect something the best is if a guy already has a gf, so he doesn't "expect" something lol. yeah sure, sometimes i feel like i should have a female friend as good as the male friend, cause there're always things you can't discuss with a guy (just like you can't talk about something with a girl). also i'm not super pretty so dudes almost never speak with me just to get laid haha :DD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arineunha 352 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 the best is if a guy already has a gf, so he doesn't "expect" something lol. yeah sure, sometimes i feel like i should have a female friend as good as the male friend, cause there're always things you can't discuss with a guy (just like you can't talk about something with a girl). also i'm not super pretty so dudes almost never speak with me just to get laid haha :DD that's very true..there's many things that's meant to only be shared with females. you don't have to be super pretty, thirsty guys will still attempt to get in your pants. there were guys who still kind of flirted with me even though they had girlfriends..so maybe they expected something else maybe there are good and even amazing guy friends out there like your bff, but I never met a guy like that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tiroriii~ 3,297 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 My best friend is a man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mon chan 4,645 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 Yes, he acknowledges me to be NO.1 in friendlist. He told me everything even about his crush, and his ex, and his confessions. We're just friends thou, its been 7 years since high school. But we dont contact as often anymore cuz he is living abroad now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CamCam 1,874 Posted October 20, 2016 Share Posted October 20, 2016 Yep, my current best friend I've known since freshman year of HS. In fact, many of my friends/best friends have been girls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dazzlingpaw 819 Posted October 21, 2016 Share Posted October 21, 2016 Yeah, I've grown up with two guys that were my childhood friends, and one of them is still my best friend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TinyKimLeader 746 Posted October 21, 2016 Share Posted October 21, 2016 Yeah to the point traveled together and share the same room and the same bed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimins Sonyeo 280 Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 The whole world, including him. Yesh good friends.....but I dont think its right to be best friends with a boy. I think its a bit selfish and prolly your bff is ....wondering when will he will be off friend zone or why why am I on friend zone. Friends yesh, best friends ...I dont think its goodidea Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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