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I'm ugly and that' my life and it's okay. I've mostly accepted it and focus on other things than my looks. However, there are still some days where my looks really get to me like after seeing a group photo and everyone else looks hella good and I cringe when I see me. It doesn't help that a lot of the girls I stand next to in group photos are some of the prettiest girls I know.  Anyway, I was just wondering if there's anyone else who feels this way and how do you deal with it when it gets to you? Also, what was the moment that made you realize you're just not that physically attractive (and that's okay)? 

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not ugly, can't relate

 

jk

 

but srsly tho, be confident with urself! love urself! <3 , well u have many friends , that means u rly have a great personality and that's why people stick with u , it's fun to be with u

 

but do ppl rly care about look that much? i don't tbh, but ... well then, don't ppl always say "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"? then u have to believe in urself, who will believe in u if u don't even believe in urself? look at urself and say "i'm pretty"

 

because yes, u are pretty  :lol:  

 

the most important thing is about how u carry urself, know ur worth and act on it


good luck!

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#AverageBitchLife 

 

nnnn but fr stop calling urself ugly firstable love urself first n foremost the way u feel abt urself is all that matters, you're stuck w urself for ur whole life, so be nice to yourself, love urself, love the body ur in, u dont want to live ur life hating yourself

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i deal by befriending ugly people too.

 

 

 

(jk anyway op i'm sorry you feel like that society can be real harsh on us but maybe you can try focusing on things you like? like a hobby or you can try volunteering. you know positive energy, vibes yada yada you know when you're content they kinda reflect on how we look and how we carry ourselves. also be confident you might want to try that too i heard they work wonders. i know it's hard but fake it till you make it i guess)

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outside, i dont pretend to be bothered by it, but i also do not try to draw attention to myself (not wearing eye catching clothes, just wearing black or grey)

but when in private, i am severely insecure. i have been bullied in the past by classmates and cousins for my looks. they would just casually say that im so ugly or they would say i should stop trying because im not handsome. i dotn show being hurt by it, i just nod i guess. 

 

my ex- friends (toxic people) crop me out in photos if they post andshare in fb.  (theyre popular people) 

 

im obsessed with skin products (i admit because i spend more time at the products section at a mall than buying things. i spend 70% of my money on it) im obsessed with exercise, because looking at the mirror bothers me (it works somehow, i have a good body despite the hunger but when someone calls me a shrimp- i break down inside)

 

i mentioned it in the past i ask for braces (overbite), but parents dismissed it. they dont understand, theyre good looking people. my brother too is good looking. 

 

sometimes i ask myself,. why bother? but then im compelled to just fix what i can- even if they dont work. 

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From my experience I just ignore that fact. Then well, it grew out and it soon went away. I tend to always look back at my old pics then newer pics of me to see the difference. There was some and I get compliments on that :3

Anyways, please don't feel down about your looks. Looks are looks, you should be happy you have a unique face. In my opinion, you should pay more attention to what you're good at then your looks then people would recognise you.

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There's no set definition of ugly, it's always subjective and even if you feel ugly another person will disagree. 

 

Forget about the outside of yourself and focus on what is within, do things that benefit yourself and others around you. True beauty comes from what is inside of us, the things we do and how we treat other people. The way people perceive you when you first meet is based on appearance but if you have a beautiful personality it will make you an attractive person. I know it sounds really cliché but it is what it is.  

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just deal with it. You should just stop comparing yourself to gorgeous people. Just say there are people uglier than you. I tried it and it worked fine

baing ugly is not of a big deal tbh. It's not like everyone will avoid you because of your face. It took me half of my life to realise that

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there is time when i feel ugly too and time when i feel pretty

 

I think it's mostly based on confidence? I mean i'm sure i'm not a super model but i dont feel inferior or superior, i just accept myself with all the good and the bad.

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outside, i dont pretend to be bothered by it, but i also do not try to draw attention to myself (not wearing eye catching clothes, just wearing black or grey)

but when in private, i am severely insecure. i have been bullied in the past by classmates and cousins for my looks. they would just casually say that im so ugly or they would say i should stop trying because im not handsome. i dotn show being hurt by it, i just nod i guess.

 

my ex- friends (toxic people) crop me out in photos if they post andshare in fb. (theyre popular people)

 

im obsessed with skin products (i admit because i spend more time at the products section at a mall than buying things. i spend 70% of my money on it) im obsessed with exercise, because looking at the mirror bothers me (it works somehow, i have a good body despite the hunger but when someone calls me a shrimp- i break down inside)

 

i mentioned it in the past i ask for braces (overbite), but parents dismissed it. they dont understand, theyre good looking people. my brother too is good looking.

 

sometimes i ask myself,. why bother? but then im compelled to just fix what i can- even if they dont work.

!!!!!! I understand! I have some flaws which can be cured if my parents bothered to take me o a doctor, but they are dismissive simply because it hasn't caused any MAJOR problems. But honestly, it is indeed affecting me. It's okay, man. I'm here. I have lots of toxic friends as well, slowly trying to get rid of them. Don't let them judge your worth. You're more than your appearance anyway. I can relate. If you ever need anyone to talk to, I'm here! :) As for brace, you gotta wait till you're older and have earned enough money. Same for me, I'll wait till I complete my education and saved up enough.

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!!!!!! I understand! I have some flaws which can be cured if my parents bothered to take me o a doctor, but they are dismissive simply because it hasn't caused any MAJOR problems. But honestly, it is indeed affecting me. It's okay, man. I'm here. I have lots of toxic friends as well, slowly trying to get rid of them. Don't let them judge your worth. You're more than your appearance anyway. I can relate. If you ever need anyone to talk to, I'm here! :) As for brace, you gotta wait till you're older and have earned enough money. Same for me, I'll wait till I complete my education and saved up enough.

thanks. im glad you got rid of them toxic people. i also got rid of them, too late though damage done (im alone now). im kinda feeling shitty now, i just cant seem to get rid of my small pimples. i tried everything ever since, spending a lot of money i saved. i hate looking at the mirror because i see this face then the pimples. its just frustrating. 

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Immediately thought of this: 

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But honestly though, everyone has something great about them. And even if you don't think you look very nice, someone out there probably thinks you do. I don't think I'm nearly as pretty as a lot of other girls, but I can't really change that, so I just try to be happy with who I am.  :)

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