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setmefree

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setmefree Long-term Trainee

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Just yesterday I figured out this guy was a player and played on me. I never experienced being played like this before. (I have like 4 years ago, but it was nothing and stupid.) It really hurts especially when I have social anxiety and that this was my first time expressing my feelings towards a guy when I always avoided all my crushes. When I look back I found out the intentions behind his actions and words. Arg.  :>_>:

 

I have a class with him so I don't know what I should do... It's humiliating because I'm pretty sure people in that class knows I "have" feelings for him and I guess some people outside class and obviously his stupid friends knows. Should I just ignore him and be civil when we do class activities? I have a problem with blushing at guys even though if I don't like them. I don't want him to think I still have feelings for him.  :>_>: 

 

I'm aware players exist, but I don't understand why they would do these things...

 

Any tips on figuring out  whatever if someone's a player or not?

 

 

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How exactly?

How I found out? He led me on, but when I told him that I had to tell him something after school, he acted like knew nothing about me liking him and indirectly rejected me. Something like that. It gives a headache to explain.  :fyeah: I'm amusing he thought that I was going to ask him out, which I wasn't going to. :>_>: At least I found out that it was just all games then later. =_= The day after that he started to ignore me.  :>_>:  :>_>:  :>_>:

 

I used to think I knew and then recently I figured out that I didn't. The most innocent, trustworthy looking guy could be one :/

Knew what? Yes, he seemed and acted really innocent.  :>_>: I have trust issues so. Haha.   :._.:

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Word of advice to most women. Guy can be a player in all shapes and color. Even meek looking dudes. 

 

So did this guy just want to bang or was he just fucking with you and didn't really mean the stuff he said?

 

Fucking with me and didn't really mean the stuff he said. I see, he seemed and acted so innocent. When he's really not at all.  :>_>: 

 

Should I just ignore him and be civil when we do class activities? 

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A guy I worked with used to be a player, he went out with women he met at the bar every other night, trying to bring them home. I don't know how he handled it, could just tangle women up, kept calling them, kept in like 2-3 week relationships to just fuck until he got bored.

 

And yet he was really timid but women got into him I guess? I'm a guy and I would never do this, have something better to do with your life?  :omgwtf:

slap dat guy thooo

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A guy I worked with used to be a player, he went out with women he met at the bar every other night, trying to bring them home. I don't know how he handled it, could just tangle women up, kept calling them, kept in like 2-3 week relationships to just fuck until he got bored.

 

And yet he was really timid but women got into him I guess? I'm a guy and I would never do this, have something better to do with your life?  :omgwtf:

slap dat guy thooo

 

He acted kind of shy at times. There were many times where he would wave at girls (I'm amusing some of them he's playing with) and would check around to see if he's bumping in to any of the girls he's playing with. Jezz, there were other things he did to that I didn't see right through. It makes me wonder how many he's playing with and why he bothers to do all the pathetic work to hide everything. 

 

Should I just ignore him and be civil when we do class activities? 

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I'd just ignore him and unless have to talk with him for I guess class activities, just be civil.

 

Players are all really good talkers though, they know how to sweet talk ladies easily. I know a friend who never goes out with a guy who sweet talks a lot over friendly conversations, she just always says that her "playa alarm" is going off  :donthinkso:  She always says like they're young, why would they mean it when they sweet talk.

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Should I just ignore him and be civil when we do class activities? 

 

 

Yeah just ignore him and be civil.

 

When interacting with people just trust your gut instincts, even if you are socially awkward. Your brain passively picks up on subtle expressions and body language by the other person and sometimes you cant explain why you feel that way about him/her. So just trust that your feelings are right

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Well...you could get up in his shit and tell him off.

 

But if you're a passive person I say just act civil.

 

I'm passive. I feel like he might try to play with me again, so I don't know if I should just continue to act civil. But I probably will tell him off eventually if he does do that again. 

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Is it very likely that they're players or something?

 

No, but it is annoying when you have problems with him and you have to deal with some other problems [and it is awkward]

 

Btw how old are you? I dated a guy who was really out-going and liked to have fun in parties with girls, and when I realized he was a "player" I just broke up with him. It was difficult but it was worth   

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