Would you stay in this relationship? Just need a little advice.

[EasySteezy]

So I'm in a fwb right now. He's my type, interesting, a good drinking buddy, and the sex is spectaculaaaaa (hoping someone gets that reference). Things have been going great. But last time I knew something was up. We usually get down to business right away and I leave right afterwards because I don't want to get dinner with him (I'm kind of a picky eater and it's easily one of my biggest secrets.) This time he had us not do anything right away, he just wanted to cuddle first. I was all, "okay that's chill" thinking it'd only last like 10 minutes, but it lasted 2 HOURS.

During the cuddle fest he was all, "what would you say if I told you I caught feelings?" I told him it'd all depend on how I felt about him at the time, I told him I wouldn't run away if he said he did because with my ex it took me like 5 months before I started to like like him.

We mess around and then he says to me, "I don't want to freak you out, but I have feelings for you." I acted chill with it, but I kind of want to run. Then he was talking about wanting to go on vacation with me. Then we were watching recipes online and he was all, "Oh we should make that" and it's just all a little bit much.

I could see myself getting feelings for him, just not right now. It's only been like 3 months. should I wait it out or just leave now.

I keep thinking, "I NEED TO RUN!" but I feel like I might regret it because he's a catch

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I think maybe u could give it a try? ^^ u can always back out later if you wont seem to get any feelings for him

[soph99]

you should tell him you're not ready for that type of relationship right now I mean if you felt like running away it means you're not ready

[bottomluhan]

so he's getting to clingy

 

reinforce that its a fwb for a reason, no strings attached, and tell him that you aren't interested and that you hope he finds someone soon

[Gaudy]

If you feel uncomfortable then it's not for you. It's as simple as that. Do what you think is right and don't be afraid to say what's up. Although it sounds like you want some time though so just tell him you aren't ready for all that.

[Lynnie]

i would normally drop him but if you feel like you're gonna regret it, give him some time. But flat out tell him you're not ready for that yet .

[Aesphiatic //BLACKPINK//]

Hang on a little bit. Get to know him better. And if you still don't feel comfortable, tell him.

[eternal glow]

Just be honest and tell the truth- that you aren't ready for it right now. Though once you're absolutely certain where you stand, you should act upon it. So if you realise you don't want to be in a relationship, you have to cut it off.

[B612]

He seems nice, maybe the great sex is enough for u to take his needy and clingy self ? idk I usually stick with someone who has good chemistry, if you get bored of him you can just break up. 

[johnny's wifey]

i would say give him a try, but u know if u are not comfortable then u can tell him how u feel and let him understand 

[Gekkou]

Is he the Asian dude that saw you in OH?

[My Everything]

the sex is spectaculaaaaa (hoping someone gets that reference).

 

YAAAAS STAN THIS BOP

 

 

[Acyl]

If you think you want a stable relationship then give him a try, I think he is nice and serious..from fwb to "I have feelings for you" kinda guy..but if you are not ready just tell him

[EasySteezy]

Is he the Asian dude that saw you in OH?

No, this is a cute black guy

[Gekkou]

No, this is a cute black guy

Oh..

What happened to Asian dude.

[EasySteezy]

Oh..

What happened to Asian dude.

We actually broke up shortly after he caught me on OH. I don't think it was related though. It just kind of was a mutual thing. he said he felt guilty for making me drive all the way to see him (he was an hour and a half away) and I thought he was boring. Just one of those things that just fizzled and man did it fizzle quickly. It'd be funny it was because of OH though

[Gekkou]

We actually broke up shortly after he caught me on OH. I don't think it was related though. It just kind of was a mutual thing. he said he felt guilty for making me drive all the way to see him (he was an hour and a half away) and I thought he was boring. Just one of those things that just fizzled and man did it fizzle quickly. It'd be funny it was because of OH though

Lol. Aw man. Too bad.

 

You must be prettier than you think since the guys you date are always really attractive

[EasySteezy]

Lol. Aw man. Too bad.

 

You must be prettier than you think since the guys you date are always really attractive

eh the OH guy wasn't that attractive. he had a good body, but his face was not so cute

[Gekkou]

eh the OH guy wasn't that attractive. he had a good body, but his face was not so cute

Oh I gotcha

[minassi]

If you like him that way, why not? if you don't, don't string him on, and see if you can still be fwb if you want to. It's up to you though. If him saying that to you changes the way you think about him, then you probably should think about it before you say anything else