Joyz 324 Posted January 9, 2014 Share Posted January 9, 2014 When I first knew about my partner that he watches porn, I was like, ' wtf! why...o_o?.''....(he told me himself..lol) but then he explaint to me, that he gets these ~ideas~ becuz of porn lol, and thats more fun when we do 'it' together... So becuz I have noticed that sex with him was 'good..'..I didnt say anyway about it anymore.. But i dont like it, if i see him jerking to porn tho...I dunno why...lmao..so i also told him that.. soo guys...what are ur thoughts if your partner watches porn?.. and maybe this topic is already made, but I just couldnt find it, and I just wanted to hear ur opinions about that Link to comment
fuckception 695 Posted January 9, 2014 Share Posted January 9, 2014 No. Watching porn is a normal thing to do and most people have watched it at least once. However, if they prioritize porn over their partner, you know something's wrong here. Link to comment
kanariya 288 Posted January 9, 2014 Share Posted January 9, 2014 If you find partners who watch porn offensive...maybe dating a human being is not for you.... Link to comment
Joyz 324 Posted January 9, 2014 Author Share Posted January 9, 2014 If you find partners who watch porn offensive...maybe dating a human being is not for you.... lmao...well it is something for me actually..yes.. but I meant well..during our relationship..not after or before... No. Watching porn is a normal thing to do and most people have watched it at least once. However, if they prioritize porn over their partner, you know something's wrong here. yeah I thought so also at first, but then he told me what I said in the OP. he doesnt do it alot though... Link to comment
mgl 5,919 Posted January 9, 2014 Share Posted January 9, 2014 While I don't agree that "getting ideas" from porn is a good thing, watching porn is fine. Unless a guy is getting sex every day, multiple times a day, he will probably have times when he's excited and needs some extra release. Link to comment
Yerowan 1,006 Posted January 9, 2014 Share Posted January 9, 2014 When I first knew about my partner that he watches porn, I was like, ' wtf! why...o_o?.''....(he told me himself..lol) but then he explaint to me, that he gets these ~ideas~ becuz of porn lol, and thats more fun when we do 'it' together... So becuz I have noticed that sex with him was 'good..'..I didnt say anyway about it anymore.. But i dont like it, if i see him jerking to porn tho...I dunno why...lmao..so i also told him that.. soo guys...what are ur thoughts if your partner watches porn?.. and maybe this topic is already made, but I just couldnt find it, and I just wanted to hear ur opinions about that No issues with porn, so long as it's not interfering with reality. As in, he's not trying to bang me like a porn star (ouch) or prioritizing a video over real life. Unless your libidos are perfectly matched, there are going to be times that one of you doesn't feel like sex and the other does. It's not fair to ask (or expect) that the hornier partner suffers when they have the perfectly safe option of masturbation. That goes just as well for you as for him. Link to comment
Cuquri 649 Posted January 9, 2014 Share Posted January 9, 2014 No. Watching porn is a normal thing to do and most people have watched it at least once. However, if they prioritize porn over their partner, you know something's wrong here.this. Its fine to get ideas but if porn is starting to get in the way then something is wrong ======== I dont care if my guy watches porn. If he feels he wants to relese and im not around or not in the mood, he can help himself. hell if I had to go away for a time Id download his favorite kind of porn for him. Id prefer the guy masturbates instead of cheating. Besides he can get ideas to spice up our sex life or at least help know what he wants in bed and try. if I walk in on him watching porn, id probably ask him if these are the stuff he wants to try and... help him finish Link to comment
Joyz 324 Posted January 9, 2014 Author Share Posted January 9, 2014 this. Its fine to get ideas but if porn is starting to get in the way then something is wrong ======== I dont care if my guy watches porn. If he feels he wants to relese and im not around or not in the mood, he can help himself. hell if I had to go away for a time Id download his favorite kind of porn for him. Id prefer the guy masturbates instead of cheating. Besides he can get ideas to spice up our sex life or at least help know what he wants in bed and try. if I walk in on him watching porn, id probably ask him if these are the stuff he wants to try and... help him finish true, I also thought of that. beter then cheating indeed. I think I was surprised at the fact that I thought I wasnt 'enough' for him, but he made it very clear. So thats cool I gues. ;) Link to comment
Nev Schulman 7,939 Posted January 9, 2014 Share Posted January 9, 2014 I think I was surprised at the fact that I thought I wasnt 'enough' for him, but he made it very clear. So thats cool I gues. ;) Same. Although I knew this but I felt the same way. Link to comment
RóisÃn Dubh 3,966 Posted January 9, 2014 Share Posted January 9, 2014 No, I would watch together. Link to comment
SchoolNote 6,178 Posted January 9, 2014 Share Posted January 9, 2014 No we can fap together. Link to comment
Freeman_c14 7 Posted January 9, 2014 Share Posted January 9, 2014 No, in fact i don't try to judge anything a girl does in order to give me, her or both of us more pleasure. I see a lot of girls not enjoying sex because they have all these preconceptions about being sluts if they do this or that with a partner. Porn being one of those, so i encourage my partners to watch porn in order to be more comfortable with the fact that men and women are designed to mate and that it can be a fun thing. Link to comment
Ulmicola 1,981 Posted January 9, 2014 Share Posted January 9, 2014 Meh. I'm okay with people watching porn, as long as they don't think that porn sex and real sex are the same thing. Link to comment
NickyNumbers 3,161 Posted January 9, 2014 Share Posted January 9, 2014 I agree with the general consensus. As long as it's not interfering with our relationship, why not? Also, watching together can be fun. Link to comment
Kpoposaurus 252 Posted January 10, 2014 Share Posted January 10, 2014 It's not offensive. It's pretty normal. Link to comment
g u m 3,131 Posted January 10, 2014 Share Posted January 10, 2014 Nope, It's perfectly normal. and i think the reason why he/she's watching porn is she's/he's trying to learn some techniques in smex. Link to comment
xoSARANGHAE 214 Posted January 10, 2014 Share Posted January 10, 2014 nope, we watch it together. Link to comment
Midnight Dreamer 638 Posted January 10, 2014 Share Posted January 10, 2014 Nope as long as it does not interfere with reality @Cuquri now I know wheredid you get your idea if which is bigger between a dishwasher vs washing machine Link to comment
Cuquri 649 Posted January 10, 2014 Share Posted January 10, 2014 Nope as long as it does not interfere with reality @Cuquri now I know wheredid you get your idea if which is bigger between a dishwasher vs washing machine what? What you talking about? Link to comment
...... 3,962 Posted January 11, 2014 Share Posted January 11, 2014 it only becomes "a thing" if they are all secretive and sneaky about it. and/or if they hold me to some unrealistic bar as result of it. If my partner wants to watch porn so be it... say it... we'll do it together....or you can do it alone w/e.... but don't be a creep about it.... and don't make it priority....and don't prefer it over me. Link to comment
ñyan 1,712 Posted January 12, 2014 Share Posted January 12, 2014 I don't really care, it's fine to me Link to comment
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted January 14, 2014 Share Posted January 14, 2014 I really don't care although I might be concerned if it is like really hard or weird stuff. Link to comment
Eleniell 193 Posted January 14, 2014 Share Posted January 14, 2014 I used to feel a little self-conscious about it.. thinking that he did it because sex with me wasn't good enough or that I wasn't as hot as the girls in the video's, but now I know better. I really don't care about it anymore, I just remind myself that it is not a reflection of my skills and then I'm good! Link to comment
SEWER RAT 10,617 Posted January 14, 2014 Share Posted January 14, 2014 No, if I found a folder filled with child porn though.... Link to comment
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