arineunha 352 Posted September 27, 2016 Share Posted September 27, 2016 recently through a break up.. but within a month..a guy started talking to me in night school, he said wants to show me the campus during this winter. he messages me everyday and he plans on visiting me at my workplace. he tries to tell me a lot of jokes and stuff.. he told me to invite him on a date whenever I feel like it. only problem is that i'm not over my ex (who was abusive from my other post, though I still have feelings for him). i'm not as attracted to the new guy as I was with my ex, but this guy seems really like innocent and his intentions don't seem to be selfish like my ex what should I do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
piccolo's girlfriend 7,439 Posted September 27, 2016 Share Posted September 27, 2016 just proceed as friends and if you feel like you can get to like him romantically, ask him out. move as slow as you want, he seems sweet and understanding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AloHara 1,022 Posted September 27, 2016 Share Posted September 27, 2016 Personally I'd say to wait a while, and he seems like he'd understand if you've recently been through a break-up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparkles 549 Posted September 27, 2016 Share Posted September 27, 2016 If I were in your shoes I would just remain friends with the guy until I'm ready to move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aneira3019 1,017 Posted September 27, 2016 Share Posted September 27, 2016 If you're not ready to move on then you shouldn't dive into a new relationship. This guy might be really nice and sweet but you did just break up with someone who made you feel horrible, it's best to take some time to build yourself back up. Honestly I can say a bunch of things but what really matters is what you want to do, that's all that matters. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted September 27, 2016 Share Posted September 27, 2016 Because of your previous rough relationship it might be better to wait until you feel better and get over your ex, he seems a nice guy to hang out though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
리�윤 2,648 Posted September 27, 2016 Share Posted September 27, 2016 don't really know him but i think would be better to know him better, n probably best for you to wait till you can move on. 'cause it's hard having someone new if you're not really move on from your ex (like everyone said in on of my thread). it'll hurt both yours n that person's heart. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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