invisiblecc 323 Posted September 22, 2016 Share Posted September 22, 2016 Well, I did it. I sent her a letter that basically said that I apologized if I had made her uncomfortable by sending my friend to ask her, but that I I had thought, since I am actually a woman, that it would be better if she asked in my place, if in any case she had a boyfriend, nothing would become awkward and the incident would erase from both's memories. I wanted to get to know her, as friends first, but if she felt uncomfortable, she could answer so, and I would completely respect her decision and not concern her again. When my friend came back, she told me that yes, she had agreed to meet me. I was so happy! After school, while we waited for my friend's mom to pick us up, she elaborated on what had happened. She told me that in the middle of reading the letter she had started laughing embarrassingly, coyly. Then she had told my friend that she also wanted to know me, who I was. While I am happy and surprised by her answer (I expected her to reject me), I don't know how to proceed. I know she gave me a green light to get to know her, but I have paranoid thoughts. What if she accepted just to be nice? What if she is disappointed when she sees me, because she expected someone more attractive, feminine, idk? How am I going to do this? This is the first time I have acted on a crush, and it has already exceeded my expectations. I expected her to reject me and for me to go back to normal, but now I'm thrown off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeeTee 1,719 Posted September 22, 2016 Share Posted September 22, 2016 I think the best thing would be to not think too much and just be yourself, try to get to know her and see how she her personality is. If it works out then good, if not then you'll at least have tried and have no regrets. Good Luck!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted September 22, 2016 Share Posted September 22, 2016 Good luck hun. Have more confidence in yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katoe 5,170 Posted September 22, 2016 Share Posted September 22, 2016 Omo I didn't think you'd do everything all in a day lol! I'm happy things seem to have worked out for you. She's probably a bit nervous meeting you as well (but you've made her curious). But just be yourself and remember that it's only awkward if you make it awkward (: You've gotten this far, good luck!♥ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
invisiblecc 323 Posted September 23, 2016 Author Share Posted September 23, 2016 Omo I didn't think you'd do everything all in a day lol! I'm happy things seem to have worked out for you. She's probably a bit nervous meeting you as well (but you've made her curious). But just be yourself and remember that it's only awkward if you make it awkward (: You've gotten this far, good luck!♥ Thank you <3 So far, it has been good! I just talked to her! Didn't have much time to talk because we both had to go to our respective classes but I asked for her number, and sent her a message! I'm scared that she won't answer but this is just me having no confidence... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nicophos 1,660 Posted September 27, 2016 Share Posted September 27, 2016 go with it. you wont get any progress if you hesitate because of what ifs. if shes willing, congrats. if shes not, it might feel painful and stuff but you tried. youll also get experience of a painful one- so you can be ready for the next one. fighting! Thank you <3 So far, it has been good! I just talked to her! Didn't have much time to talk because we both had to go to our respective classes but I asked for her number, and sent her a message! I'm scared that she won't answer but this is just me having no confidence... your sig. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
invisiblecc 323 Posted September 27, 2016 Author Share Posted September 27, 2016 go with it. you wont get any progress if you hesitate because of what ifs. if shes willing, congrats. if shes not, it might feel painful and stuff but you tried. youll also get experience of a painful one- so you can be ready for the next one. fighting! your sig. Thanks! Our talks for now have been painfully awkward, but she sure is shy, so for now I'll keep trying! Are you a cat lover? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nicophos 1,660 Posted September 27, 2016 Share Posted September 27, 2016 Thanks! Our talks for now have been painfully awkward, but she sure is shy, so for now I'll keep trying! Are you a cat lover? give it time, you and other would get comfortable soon. yep i like cats (i also like dogs). my last cat died two years ago. i miss having cats, to balance my dogs' stubbornness (cats seem to obey me for some reason more than dogs). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dilemmax 291 Posted September 27, 2016 Share Posted September 27, 2016 Awww, this is too cute Just go with her, just be yourself and act like you no more It's cute, i'm dying give it time, you and other would get comfortable soon.yep i like cats (i also like dogs). my last cat died two years ago. i miss having cats, to balance my dogs' stubbornness (cats seem to obey me for some reason more than dogs). Thanks! Our talks for now have been painfully awkward, but she sure is shy, so for now I'll keep trying!Are you a cat lover? I'm a cat lover too >_< Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
invisiblecc 323 Posted September 28, 2016 Author Share Posted September 28, 2016 give it time, you and other would get comfortable soon. yep i like cats (i also like dogs). my last cat died two years ago. i miss having cats, to balance my dogs' stubbornness (cats seem to obey me for some reason more than dogs). Awww, this is too cute Just go with her, just be yourself and act like you no more It's cute, i'm dying I'm a cat lover too >_< Woo! More cat lovers! \./ I have wanted a cat for a while, but my mom isn't fond of pets at all, so I'll probably have to wait until I have my own apartment. What's your favorite type of cat? PD: I don't know if she still is interested in talking to me, barely responds to my messages and does so with very vague answers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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