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Objectively, do u think you're a good friend?


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I can say I am. I'm considerate towards my friends' well beings, sometimes to the extent that I dismiss my own and be selfless and put more importance on them when they need it most. Like, for example, when we are going out together to hang out, I will try to come as early as possible so I won't make them wait for me. Or, when I see my friends being in a bad mood, I will shut the hell up so as not to offend them even with the slightest joke I make. That's how considerate I am towards my friends.

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I always help my friends when they need it, I try to be a good listener and make them comfortable. I am understanding of their opinions and preferences even if I don't agree with them. So, I think yes.

 

But I realized people don't usually consider me as a close friend. I just don't know how to get close with someone, I guess. I am too individual, I am not the type of friend that would talk over the phone for 2 hours or that you would like to sleep over at.

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I always help my friends when they need it, I try to be a good listener and make them comfortable. I am understanding of their opinions and preferences even if I don't agree with them. So, I think yes.

 

But I realized people don't usually consider me as a close friend. I just don't know how to get close with someone, I guess. I am too individual, I am not the type of friend that would talk over the phone for 2 hours or that you would like to sleep over at.

:rlytearpls:

 

I feel the same sometimes but then I do have close friends but still. I guess close ain't close enough

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Bad? I listen to your problems and act like I agree when you say that you're completely innocent and everyone else is just a piece of shit, and I do try to reach out eventhough you haven't at all. I tell you that if you need someone to talk to, you can come to me anytime, and I don't get mad that you then go to facebook and post a status that you have absolutely no one to go to when you're having a bad time. Then when all your other friends have no time for you and you finally remember me, I pick up your call and act okay too. And I don't get mad when you call me a bad friend for never reaching out to you.

 

 

You know what? fuck this shit. I'm the best "friend" you're ever gonna have. I'm cool, you do you. I'm good with just my dog. Peace out

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Sort of. I'll listen to their problems and try to help them solve it if I can. I'll try to be a bigger person when we argue and try to understand their perspective.

 

But, sometimes I find it hard to be in a close friendship for a long time because I'm an introvert and like being alone than hang out with my friends who usually are extroverts.

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But I realized people don't usually consider me as a close friend. I just don't know how to get close with someone, I guess. I am too individual, I am not the type of friend that would talk over the phone for 2 hours or that you would like to sleep over at.

 

This 100% (":

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i think i am when i listen to my friend, support them, n help them, but if considering their feeling, maybe i'm not.

 

people ask me for advice, i give them. sometimes it's good, but sometimes it's blunt. i hurt my friend with my bluntness sometimes, so i don't really think i'm a good friend.

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I think am an ok friend because most of my friends leave, recently it's been because they moved to different city or another country or school, I haven't gotten contact with them

 

I think I made a lot of mistakes in the past with my friends and I've gotten in fights, but I think I've gotten more selfless,I go out of my way to keep in contact and show appreciation

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