KaniPi 2,626 Posted September 17, 2016 Share Posted September 17, 2016 I've been friends with this girl for a couple of months now, sometimes we go out to lunch together, as we started work at the same time. However, there has been instances, where I really feel like she is not being genuine. For example, I was walking to work, and I saw her with her friends, I smiled at them and talked to my friend normally. Then, later on during the day my colleague wanted to go lunch with me, she hadn't been gone out to eat for a while, so I said yes, and I messaged my friend that I couldn't go for this reason, and we could go tomorrow if she was free. Then she replied back to me saying "Oh ok no worries, you were a bit off today anyway!" I got really confused, and asked her what she meant by that, then she ignored all my other messages, then she said "Ohh my friend was just saying that, its okay". Hmm, ok so you just basically confirmed to me, you talk crap about me. Nice. Also, I forgot my phone at home, but I wasn't 100% sure, and she was the only one who had my number. I asked her whether she could call it for me, it would only take a sec, and she replied that she had work to do, and needed to go lunch (it was well before our break when I asked her), she said she'd do it afterwards alone, it just seems like she was avoiding me. Now, I'm just seriously considering whether I should just keep my distance from her now? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luckyglasses 1,237 Posted September 17, 2016 Share Posted September 17, 2016 I've been friends with this girl for a couple of months now, sometimes we go out to lunch together, as we started work at the same time. However, there has been instances, where I really feel like she is not being genuine. For example, I was walking to work, and I saw her with her friends, I smiled at them and talked to my friend normally. Then, later on during the day my colleague wanted to go lunch with me, she hadn't been gone out to eat for a while, so I said yes, and I messaged my friend that I couldn't go for this reason, and we could go tomorrow if she was free. Then she replied back to me saying "Oh ok no worries, you were a bit off today anyway!" I got really confused, and asked her what she meant by that, then she ignored all my other messages, then she said "Ohh my friend was just saying that, its okay". Hmm, ok so you just basically confirmed to me, you talk crap about me. Nice. Also, I forgot my phone at home, but I wasn't 100% sure, and she was the only one who had my number. I asked her whether she could call it for me, it would only take a sec, and she replied that she had work to do, and needed to go lunch, she said she'd do it afterwards. Now, I'm just seriously considering whether I should just keep my distance from her now? find another one if finding other friend find isnt a hard thing to do for you. if you cant, then i think you should just talk face to face with her. ask her whats wrong with her? and sometimes apologies, even when youre not at the fault, can melt heart so the person can be approached easier :D good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eriy.m 2,900 Posted September 17, 2016 Share Posted September 17, 2016 Seems soo shady and fake, maybe she's intrested in you and was jealous so she was acting that on u? Or she could just be rude, stay away from confusing people trust me. Don't initiate with her and if she does, reply with strict minimum. Don't get confused because that'll just be boring so enjoy life and don't look for answers because there are prolly none Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janiedee 4,766 Posted September 17, 2016 Share Posted September 17, 2016 She sounds like she's too much trouble and likes playing games. Ain't nobody got time for that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted September 17, 2016 Author Share Posted September 17, 2016 Seems soo shady and fake, maybe she's intrested in you and was jealous so she was acting that on u? Or she could just be rude, stay away from confusing people trust me. Don't initiate with her and if she does, reply with strict minimum. Don't get confused because that'll just be boring so enjoy life and don't look for answers because there are prolly none I don't think she was interested in me, in that way. She's straight, but I just didn't like how she said I was being off just because I couldn't go lunch with her this one time. But yeah, you're right. Probably using me to gossip with her friends... this is why I prefer to be alone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbangjyjbapshineelove 356 Posted September 17, 2016 Share Posted September 17, 2016 I don't think you invested too much into her so you could forget about her - if you want to. Keep life peaceful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted September 18, 2016 Author Share Posted September 18, 2016 I don't think you invested too much into her so you could forget about her - if you want to. Keep life peaceful. Yeah probably a good idea, thank you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sumoo 8 Posted September 18, 2016 Share Posted September 18, 2016 some girls are just rude like that, ignore her because you don't want to be around someone who dampers your mood Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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