Your biggest turn offs

[Kingsley]

Hi everyone, i'm curious to hear, that what is your biggest turn offs. So please share your biggest turn offs in a women/men. And maybe some of us fellow OH users might low key learn something.

 

You don't really have to give an explanations, like i did. So without futher ado I will start with my personal list (in my case my list is directed towards a women).

 
My personal physical & appearance turn offs,
 
Too much makeup.

By this i mean if the person starts to look like a clown, then it's definitely too much. Don't get me wrong a little bit of makeup is absolutely fine, but don't go overboard with it.

 

 

Oral hygieny. 

Simply bad breath, food stuck in your teeth, or if the person has like really yellow teeth.

 

 

Body odor.

I don't really think too much about this, because most of the people rarely smells bad, but if people suddenly start to hold their breath near you then you should consider of taking a shower.

 

 

Unkempt hair & nails.

By this i mean chewed and dirty nails, also dirty hair in general are complete no-no.

 

 

Bad language& manners.

I mean swear if you really feel like, it's completely natural to express your anger. But don't abuse it, it's just so unattractive and unappealing. Same goes for bad manners (spitting in public, being too loud, not using words thank you, please, you're welcome etc.)

 

 

Smoking, drugs & alcoholism.

Pretty self-explanatory.

 

 

*Tattoos. 

Definitely fits for some people, don't mind small ones, but personally i prefer without.

 

 

*Piercings.

Earlobe piercings are completely fine, but for example i find likes of nose & lip piercings most of the time unattractive.

 

 

Personality trait turn offs,

 

No sense of a humor. 

Would be great to have someone who you can laugh with.

 

 

Disrespectful/rude.

I don't think anyone wants to date someone who is disrespectful and rude towards other people.

 

 

Ignorance.

Ignorance as itself isn't that big of a turn off, but I think an attitude of ignorance is a bigger turn off. I truly cannot understand why anyone would be content to stop learning. If  the person have the oppoturnity to learn, but choose not to, then that's a huge turn off.

 

 

Negativity.

I'm talking about negative attitude in general, if you always think the worst case scenarious, it's contagious.

 

 

Being fake/drama queen.

When the person talks about her "friends" behind their backs or is rude to customer service workers. Please tell me more about how compassionate you are and how much you hate drama.

 

 

Arrogance.

Confidence is attractive but arrogance is repulsive.

 

 

Lack of ambition.

In general, not saying that the person have to be overly ambition, but no ambition at all is quite a turn off.

 

 

P.S. If there's some of the traits that you have, please don't take it personal. It's just my personal opinion and i think that most of those things that i mentioned above are fairly common turn offs. I hope that i didn't create  this douchey "good luck with finding person that hasn't some of those traits" image of myself.

 

I didn't find similar thread to this with a quick search. But if there's already a similar thread i apologize in advance.

 

Peace and love.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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too much makeup, being dumb, acting fake and unnatural, fangirling over males, being overdramatic, having too much confidence about something you shouldnt have, being unnaturally happy and positive, being too straightforward, being annoying in general

[Ronnie Mars]

Physical-wise, the biggest turn off for me are mouth odor and lack of hygiene in general.

Personality-wise, I dislike misogynists, rude and mannerless people, bigots, and ignorants.

[Dianun]

Oh I thought this would be what people think turns them off on me :( 

 

Negativity, Arrogance, Ignorance, and being Disrespectful/Rude.

Lastly Oral Hygiene, and Body odor.

[eriy.m]

too much makeup, being dumb, acting fake and unnatural, fangirling over males, being overdramatic, having too much confidence about something you shouldnt have, being unnaturally happy and positive, being too straightforward, being annoying in general

[Micah Bell]

When guys have 2013 Justin Bieber hair and they do the cliché move of combing their hand through it.

 

Loud, obnoxious, narcissistic, and inconsiderate.

 

Other than that, I'm not too picky.

[Hangry]

im okay with anything as long as they dont talk too much 

[Aneira3019]

No sense of humour is the main one for me but I also have a weird one that is I don't like people who are too polite, idk why.

[Krystal.]

Appearance-wise, poor hygiene in general and bad manners.

Personality-wise, ignorance and arrogance.

[Jay Park]

Haha everything except tattoos...

 

Like too much of any option on the list is just...too much/a no no. 

[supercalifragilistic]

Being fake/two faced. The I'm always right/everyone should be agreeing with me/can't accept difference (egocentric?). 

[Sephiroth]

for everyone id say bad hygiene, smoking, tattoos and piercings (not all are bad but in general i dont like them), and being too religious (they can believe in whatever they want but some people are just too much lol)

 

for guys specifically id say being short is a turn off lol

[BigKid]

You basically listed everything I could have thought of lol

 

Just adding 1 more thing. For guys in particular, being metrosexual.

[Sumoo]

1. insecurity/ego issues

2. controlling behaviour (douchy kind not the kinky one)

3. can only see things from their side

4. no respect

5. hypocrites

[Xiadais]

Appearance:

• Too much makeup. 
  For me, "too much" is easily achieved. I like it kept to a bare minimum. The vast majority of the time, I prefer slightly... weathered... faces to ones which cover flaws, although it's not horrible to cover some flaws. For some reason I really like eye liner, when done cutely, though. (Mascara, fake lashes, and eye shadow are turn-offs almost all of the time.) And makeup is fine for special occasions. Using it should be to specially accentuate, not to hide. I think makeup shows to me a lack of real self-confidence, and it also bothers me because of all the time+money waste which could be better used on basically anything. I think as a rule of thumb, if I can tell at a glance that you're clearly wearing makeup, it's too much.

   

• Standard lack of hygiene stuff.
• Body modifications.
  The clearest examples are tattoos and piercings, although I suppose there must be some others out there. I don't like any tattoos. If it has actual, lasting sentimental significance (commemoration of mom, etc) it's acceptable, but still a turn-off. Piercings are also a turn-off, in any form including standard earlobe piercings.

   

• Lack of self dignity / lack of modesty.
  It's sexually a turn-on, of course, because that's just what happens, but immodesty is a powerful emotional turn-off.

   

• And the only truly petty one on the list, being very well-endowed.
   Flat is justice.

   

Personality/Behavior:

• BM behavior. 
  Like use of profanity. Especially if it's meant as a joke. No matter who you are, I become immediately less interested in you and like you less.

   

• General disrespect.
• Use of profanity. 
  It's always a turn-off for me, in any situation. No matter who you are, I become immediately less interested in you and like you less if you use profanity.

   

• Use of any drugs, including alcohol. 
  Where I live, it's very rare to meet someone who doesn't drink alcoholic beverages, but nonetheless I am turned off by the act of people drinking alcohol. The same rule goes with any recreational drug.

   

• Lack of intelligence / ability to be logical about things.
• Lack of a desire to continually improve and gain knowledge.
• Arrogance.
• Extraversion / extreme positivity.
  As sad as it is, extroverts turn me off. They just do. I'm introverted, and dominant-personality people scare me.

   

• Disdain for religion.
  I'm very religious. My religion is the most important part of who I am. If you hate religion, I will immediately have zero interest in you.

   

 

Things that are turn-offs for some people but not me:

• Negativity.
  Namely, cheerful negativity. "At least we haven't run out of food yet!" "It could have been worse. It could have been my whole arm instead of just my fingertip." "Don't worry, we didn't get to the bad part of the job yet!"

   

• Love of drama.
  It's disordered of me for this to not be a turn-off, but unfortunately it isn't.

   

• Being blunt / straightforward.
• "I'm always right." - If they are.

[venus in converse ~]

Too hairy ~

[A random user]

Yup, OP, most of the commenters and I weren't made to match.

 

Anyway, overall, when someone try so hard to be deep or thoughtfull but in ends up as awkward or try-hard or when someone try to be empathic with me when in reality is not.

 

After that, I haven't think about this issue at all. I should think about it.

[Aesphiatic //BLACKPINK//]

Being an a-hole and abusing gifts of God, especially animals. 

[rayellaz]

arrogance

lack of personal hygiene 

disrespectful/have no regards for other people