Sumoo 8 Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 he sent me a text yesterday saying 'i have been thanking..' and that's it. he still talks about me to his friends (even though everything is from his point of view and he made me sound bad) his guy friend was telling him that i'm quiet and we make a cute couple, but you can't force quiet girls to do anything and also relationships aren't about control. however, he was looking around for another girl and he's been desperately asking his female friends to find him one, why does it feel like he's settling for me because he can't find anyone instantly. I want him to respect me and i'm not a option. I might have been a little needy at the end of our break up, but I don't want him choosing me until someone else comes along he was trying to look for a girl right before we broke up. he hurt me and always put me in a situation where i'd feel worthless and anxious, he blamed me and measured effort and he said I wasn't putting in enough and I didn't do everything he told me to. I started avoiding him because he started blaming me. I didn't reply him, I don't know what to say. even though I missed him and sometimes I think about trying to get him back, i'm not cheap. if I talk to him again, he might just start blaming me again and again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hermit_Kingdom 1,525 Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 From what you say here it sounds like not answering him might be the best possible thing to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lyanna 2,986 Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 You asked a question but you answered it yourself... Also, it's unfair to say your ex talks about you from his point of view bc this thread is also your point of view about him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delincious 5,654 Posted September 15, 2016 Share Posted September 15, 2016 Drop the bitch you don't need someone who makes you feel worthless and doesn't truly value you, and who makes you miserable. As opposed to making you happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eucharis 711 Posted September 17, 2016 Share Posted September 17, 2016 You did the right thing by not replying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oli London 1,762 Posted September 17, 2016 Share Posted September 17, 2016 He wants something from you. Good thing you didn't reply back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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