waffles8000 541 Posted September 7, 2016 Share Posted September 7, 2016 long story short, over the summer this guy from school started to like me. it was really weird because i had liked him for a really long time. we talked for a couple of weeks, and i had liked him because he had a nice personality, but soon i found out that he was really rude... so then i was like lol bye and ignored him for the rest of the summer online and then yesterday school started......... and he keeps messaging me to meet up with him and i've passed by him 3 times today and i purposely ignored his existence. but this kid is so oblivious and does not get the message that i am no longer interested in him, so he keeps messaging me. i just got a message from him asking me if i was avoiding him. like duh????? but here's the problem- he's vice president of this business club that i wanna join later in the school year and also the student coordinator or smth of a club that i am already in... so i can't avoid him forever or tell him to f off or anything like that bc i have to maintain a healthy relationship w him so i can be successful in life lmao what can i do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rissa 449 Posted September 7, 2016 Share Posted September 7, 2016 the best thing to do is to tolerate eachother and try to be on good terms instead of avoiding him completely because you want to be a part of those clubs, and you shouldnt quit just because of one person you dont have to be enemies or best friends, just dont talk to him unless its something necessary Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nicophos 1,660 Posted September 7, 2016 Share Posted September 7, 2016 hes a guy. tell him. but in your situation, you have to be polite to him and such. but seriously do tell him you dont like him that way. cause you sending signals isnt always gonna work, not everyone thinks like you. good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NCT48 4,208 Posted September 7, 2016 Share Posted September 7, 2016 What you should have done is tell him that you were not interested when you found out rather than ignore him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen's Mine 993 Posted September 7, 2016 Share Posted September 7, 2016 long story short, over the summer this guy from school started to like me. it was really weird because i had liked him for a really long time. we talked for a couple of weeks, and i had liked him because he had a nice personality, but soon i found out that he was really rude... so then i was like lol bye and ignored him for the rest of the summer online and then yesterday school started......... and he keeps messaging me to meet up with him and i've passed by him 3 times today and i purposely ignored his existence. but this kid is so oblivious and does not get the message that i am no longer interested in him, so he keeps messaging me. i just got a message from him asking me if i was avoiding him. like duh????? but here's the problem- he's vice president of this business club that i wanna join later in the school year and also the student coordinator or smth of a club that i am already in... so i can't avoid him forever or tell him to f off or anything like that bc i have to maintain a healthy relationship w him so i can be successful in life lmao what can i do? Tell him that u already in relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gaudy 3,588 Posted September 8, 2016 Share Posted September 8, 2016 Since he's asking, tell him yes. I wouldn't respond or bother after that. Join your club though but when you join just tolerate his existence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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