Choose Yourself Instead of Others

[CareBear08]

Sometimes in life we try and hold on to people that don't need to be held on to. We try and wish for the best but it's not always meant to work out. You look back at your relationship with this person and you wonder where you went wrong. You wonder how is it that they can turn their back on you when you turned your back on others for them. 

 

Do not hold on to anyone who is not worth your time. I'm not going to be politically correct and say I don't understand why you're holding on to someone who does not elevates you. I'm not going to be politically correct when I say I think you're crazy for holding on when you clearly know the other wants to give you. You deserve better. You deserve someone that sees you as an equal and will treat you as such. Do not bend over backwards for someone who will not bend over for you. 

 

Do not waste any more tears over this person, do not spend any more nights thinking about this person. You must let them go and realize who's most important. Is it you or is it them? If you chose them as your answer then there is a problem. Don't settle for someone that's going to dull your light when you can go and find someone that will help you to illuminate the night.  

 

Put yourself to a place where you are taken care physically, mentally, ans spiritually. Then and only then can you find someone who is suited for you.

[양 지]

uhh thanks?

[andreamyp]

[Omni]

Thanks for posting this.

 

[CareBear08]

Thanks for posting this.

 

no problem.

[SYEYSU6]

Sometimes in life we try and hold on to people that don't need to be held on to. We try and wish for the best but it's not always meant to work out. You look back at your relationship with this person and you wonder where you went wrong. You wonder how is it that they can turn their back on you when you turned your back on others for them. 

 

Do not hold on to anyone who is not worth your time. I'm not going to be politically correct and say I don't understand why you're holding on to someone who does not elevates you. I'm not going to be politically correct when I say I think you're crazy for holding on when you clearly know the other wants to give you. You deserve better. You deserve someone that sees you as an equal and will treat you as such. Do not bend over backwards for someone who will not bend over for you. 

 

Do not waste any more tears over this person, do not spend any more nights thinking about this person. You must let them go and realize who's most important. Is it you or is it them? If you chose them as your answer then there is a problem. Don't settle for someone that's going to dull your light when you can go and find someone that will help you to illuminate the night.  

 

Put yourself to a place where you are taken care physically, mentally, ans spiritually. Then and only then can you find someone who is suited for you.

thanks a lot for this. im in my hard time now, so reading something like this could makes me feel a lot better.

[CareBear08]

thanks a lot for this. im in my hard time now, so reading something like this could makes me feel a lot better.

glad i could help.