rainbowsoldier 1,604 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 She had mentioned to me that the Japanese girls , are considered beautiful if they have round faces and look young. She thinks that girls in Asia do not look young(because she had met some Koreans once that happened to look more mature , idk)and are forced to look young with diets and plastic surgery and that Asia has an issue with pedophilia. She told me that they are little girls and not women, they aren t considered women in her eyes. She once saw a chinese girl in the Olympics gymnastics and she commented on that when the guy said she was 22 years old. My mom is not Asian, she is of Russian descent, basically white. She told me that asians all have small eyes and that they all do surgery on them(because she saw a documentary about Korea once) and they are forced to look like that.(she did not say exactly in this way but you get the point) How do i convince her that what she is saying is not all true? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VARSITY 3,838 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 so OP are you educating your mom about why her thoughts are incorrect and offensive, or do you think like her? oh you edited your post. anyway i would tell your mom that watching a few documentaries and casual meetings with a few asian people is not enough to generalize an entire region. you obviously have internet access so search for information that refutes and invalidates your mom's claims. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yeripped 1,075 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 so OP are you educating your mom about why her thoughts are incorrect and offensive, or do you think like her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 My brother(he's black) thinks Nicole and hyosung are pretty hot. I also agree Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapmon's Ahjussi Husband 2,299 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 But .....your mom is kinda on point ; team mom Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vermon 165 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 You can tell your mom to educate herself but since she's already reached the lowest level of stupidity id stay give up on her and hope for the best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lyanna 2,986 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 That is a very thorough analysis of a whole race that she barely ever interacted with Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
exact2016 1,128 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 My mom once told me to my face she knew more about the Korean Trainee system because she saw a 10 minute clip on CNN. Mothers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
respect 1,151 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 i think the general view for east asian females is that the get plastic surgery and whiten their skin to look more like european females Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cincau 8 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 My mom told me that Koreans all looks the same when I showed her some videos. She told me that all male look like a female because of their make up. And their faces not natural at all because majority of them do plastixlc surgery Since then I don't show her videos anymore. Sometimes people are just judmental no matter how you tried to explain. And your mother have some points too tho. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vocabulary 890 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 Your mum is very presumptuous??? I'd be annoyed as heck. TBH, if I were u, I'd just roll my eyes and silently seethe in anger but not say a thing, because I know I have no patience for stupidity and I don't want to risk it lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dilemmax 291 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 Well, you can show her as an average korean or japanese looks like. In my case, my mom calls my faves as "dolls" lmao, even, she though that Junsu was Paris Hilton when she saw him for first time lmao. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sakurahanabira 6,634 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 tell your mom that there are a lot of Asians with natural double eyelids and show her pictures of Kpop idols who were born with double eyelids, unless she's naive enough to think that babies get plastic surgery in Asia. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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