vocabulary 890 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 My mum constantly does that. She makes me feel ashamed for feeling hunger, needing to eat, needing to depend on her for all my necessities ever since I was a child. She constantly said I needed to lose weight, ate too much blah even when my BMI was around 13-14. There are other instances as well, but I rather not rmb xD I know parents can't be perfect but it's rly hurtful and has long lasting side effects. Curious about other OH users as well! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lost At Sea 493 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 Yo what's with all the shitty parent threads today did I miss something ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*lesigh* 6,759 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 Your parents... do not sound normal. You should get some help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
90's Baby 5,035 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 My mom would smack my butt in public lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darling 1,107 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 yes back 2 school night my dad was cursing @ everything, I was so pissed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
STORM 7,555 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 Openly talk bad about me and my siblings to neighbors and relatives Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rapmon's Ahjussi Husband 2,299 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 Yes I have my grandmother character, so of course my mom didn't like it and called me on my shit for being rude, but blood is not water, she gave up in time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sakurahanabira 6,634 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 all the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kissxkiss_baby 5,756 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 Not humiliated but more like second hand embarassment. I don't mind, my mother is a true OG LMAO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tetris 613 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 my mom used to keep calling me fat and telling me to lose weight ahahaha I've learned to ignore it bc I think I'm fine the way I am bc I'm well within the healthy weight range but just yesterday she started it again, stared at me for 5 minutes straight and told me to lose weight fml mom just because you're skinny doesn't mean I have to be stick thin too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dew 1,652 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 Mom made me feel bad about eating so much. To be fair, I eat all the snacks and leave none for anyone else. However, it probably wasn't the best thing to say to someone with very irregular eating patterns. I made myself vomit for a few days after that. And yelling at me in public. Why, just whyy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
okey dokey 1,082 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 A lot of times actually Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katz 296 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 My parents accused me of ruining my siblings innocence, because apparently leaving a dir en grey dvd in the player was too horrible...even though I made sure my sisters knew it was off limits. My dad also used his techy skills to access my account on the home computer, at the time i was big into fanfics, he pulled one up and read a bit of it out loud. In stage three mom had me bring down all anime and music dvds i owned at the time so that she could preview them. I freaked out, she accused me of being immature. I composed myself and she countered that i was too desensitized. They also made sure to share this in spark note version with some of my relatives. For the record: We're better now, but I can't ever forget how humiliated i felt at that time. Even if it was just between family, I remember it to this day. Maybe not a big deal to some, but, cant say it didn't leave an impression at the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
5th_wall 1,042 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 BMI of 13? You'd be hospital ready at that point and your parents should be in jail. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sherry 183 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 No, my grandma, however, is a different story Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sailor Mars 1,981 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 Can't humiliate me unless there is something to be humiliated about and I have nothing :') Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xin 1,487 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 All the time. It's what chinese parents are exceedingly good at. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrayCray 2,636 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 Many times... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oodles 13,187 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 I know parents can't be perfect but it's rly hurtful and has long lasting side effects. I agree. My dad called me fat idk why he did that but we were eatin dinner and he laughed and said I was fat. I cried after dinner.... Till this day whenever he gets mad at me I tell him that you called your own daughter fat and he shuts up. But seriously tho it effected me so much like I always watch what I eat now... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aliza 985 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 Honestly I don't think so. My parents are pretty laid back and I got good grades/never really got in any trouble so they just let me be. Your parents shouldn't treat you like that though. If you're worried about your child's weight, go do outdoor things with them or eat healthier with them. Don't belittle them about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vocabulary 890 Posted August 21, 2016 Author Share Posted August 21, 2016 Edit: made a mistake on quoting bc I'm on mobile. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theidolcyborg 383 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 Not my parents but my aunt tired to do it once about me being a crossdresser the day I publicly had confident to do it in public and it was her first time seening me crossdrerss but it back fired so badly that other stranger around at the mall started bashing her EDIT REASON: SPELLING ERROR Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vocabulary 890 Posted August 21, 2016 Author Share Posted August 21, 2016 BMI of 13? You'd be hospital ready at that point and your parents should be in jail. Several months later I was in the hospital. Honestly, the ppl around me tot I starved because I wanted to be skinny myself. At the beginning my BMI was 18 so I guess I was never fat, I just wanted my mum to accept me... But yeah now my BMI is 19. I don't rly care about her acceptance. But she still puts me down a lot. I can't stand hunger now. I can't help but cry and hate myself whenever I'm hungry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
5th_wall 1,042 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 Several months later I was in the hospital. Honestly, the ppl around me tot I starved because I wanted to be skinny myself. At the beginning my BMI was 18 so I guess I was never fat, I just wanted my mum to accept me... But yeah now my BMI is 19. I don't rly care about her acceptance. But she still puts me down a lot. I can't stand hunger now. I can't help but cry and hate myself whenever I'm hungry. You should definitely speak to a police officer/ a social worker / a priest or similar. In many countries, that should have happened anyway when you were hospitalized with such a low weight, to ensure it's not a case of criminal neglect. Idk why it didn't happen in your case but very few countries allow for parents to starve their children and since you have medical records to prove the situation you should definitely be able to get some intervention. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hallyucination 1,887 Posted August 21, 2016 Share Posted August 21, 2016 Several months later I was in the hospital. Honestly, the ppl around me tot I starved because I wanted to be skinny myself. At the beginning my BMI was 18 so I guess I was never fat, I just wanted my mum to accept me... But yeah now my BMI is 19. I don't rly care about her acceptance. But she still puts me down a lot. I can't stand hunger now. I can't help but cry and hate myself whenever I'm hungry. Your mother sounds like the one with the problem, she maybe feels bad about herself and she is unhappy and venting on you when you did nothing wrong. It's unfair and it's not right. You shouldn't hate yourself when you are hungry it's a normal biological response, your body needs fuel for many things. People need to eat 3 times a day, and even if you eat 3 times a day and still feel hungry it's still okay it just means you didn't eat enough or what you ate didn't have enough nutrients (empty calories foods like junk foods) I think you need help, police, social worker, therapist, a family member you can trust. idk, but this situation is just not okay, what your mom is doing to you is definitely not normal for a parent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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