sugarrune 955 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 I can see if hes in college working on improving...ok i get it. But why date a guy who has no money and no intention of making any? Ya love is great. But dont you want your kids to go to the best schools and have the best, Dont you want to have a nice home, travel etc? By getting knocked up by a broke guy youre essentially making the concious Decision to be poor.....idgi If youre going to be poor and miserable you might as well stay single and childless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brown Bear 4,825 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 · Hidden by MomoMoon115, December 25, 2013 - No reason given Hidden by MomoMoon115, December 25, 2013 - No reason given There's more to life than money. Link to comment
Little Eight 6,542 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 Because poor does not necessarily mean you are miserable and can't do things. Everyone can make things work within their own means. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mistakesweremade 293 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 What you mean being unemployed, their ain't many girls that date unemployed guys at least not for long. Or do you mean people who are making ends meet but have little disposable income? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
panda 220 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 If youre going to be poor and miserable you might as well stay single and childless. wow. Also there's a difference between being poor and lazy. Most people don't 'decide' to be poor. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sora 868 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 because i like him for who he is and not his money we will get rich together :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fartsniffer 1,023 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 all the girls around me are dating guys with moolah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sjofn 457 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 cuz im really ugly and fat and not cool and only poor guyz will date mE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doolicious 1,354 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 I'm not sure if you're being serious or not... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugarrune 955 Posted December 25, 2013 Author Share Posted December 25, 2013 cuz im really ugly and fat and not cool and only poor guyz will date mE lose weight, get some makeup ^~^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dramagoddess 2,013 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 OP, what if your own child was dating a poor person? Would you really forbid them from dating each other like those mothers do in asian dramas? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sjofn 457 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 lose weight, get some makeup ^~^ i tired and it duesnt really work imstil ugly and had to put down all da mirrors in mine house Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rio224 300 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 Same reason guys date stupid air head girls...they are either hot or their personality is awesome that makes up for their financial shortcomings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugarrune 955 Posted December 25, 2013 Author Share Posted December 25, 2013 OP, what if your own child was dating a poor person? Would you really forbid them from dating each other like those mothers do in asian dramas?i would not be accepting of it unless the guy was trying to improve himself.If hes just some slacker whos content with working at mcdonalds all his life...no just no, im not having having that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinypuffling 943 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 My momma married my dad when he was dirt poor and couldn't even afford movie tickets. They struggled for years and supported each other all the way through. Eventually he bought her dresses, diamond rings, pearl necklaces, a house and stellar education for all her kids 20 years later. Marry the man, not the money. It's the person that counts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cloud Of Perception 12,466 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 Because love doesnt choose between economical classes. This type of thinking is exactly why societies around the world have lost true meaning of life and only chase after the dollar sign. If they have love they can work through being poor and strive together to make money which would be much more fulfilling than marrying someone for their money without loving them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugarrune 955 Posted December 25, 2013 Author Share Posted December 25, 2013 My momma married my dad when he was dirt poor and couldn't even afford movie tickets. He bought her dresses, diamond rings, pearl necklaces, a house and stellar education for all her kids 20 years later. Marry the man, not the money. when he was dirt poor i bet he was in school or working hard.He had potential. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Butters 461 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 i would not be accepting of it unless the guy was trying to improve himself. If hes just some slacker whos content with working at mcdonalds all his life...no just no, im not having having that. And just ho would you stop them? once they are 18 its out of your hands. inless of course, you want to alienate your children. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugarrune 955 Posted December 25, 2013 Author Share Posted December 25, 2013 Because love doesnt choose between economical classes. This type of thinking is exactly why societies around the world have lost true meaning of life and only chase after the dollar sign. If they have love they can work through being poor and strive together to make money which would be much more fulfilling than marrying someone for their money without loving them.there are more than 1 billion people on this earth.Its possible to find someone whos educated amd wealthy whom you love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cloud Of Perception 12,466 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 there are more than 1 billion people on this earth. Its possible to find someone whos educated amd wealthy whom you love. Of course its possible, but I was referring to people who marry their partners out of money alone and not love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugarrune 955 Posted December 25, 2013 Author Share Posted December 25, 2013 Of course its possible, but I was referring to people who marry their partners out of money alone and not love.its not a bad idea.Arranged marriages for money last longer than marriages fo. Love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cloud Of Perception 12,466 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 its not a bad idea. Arranged marriages for money last longer than marriages fo. Love. But are they as joyful and passionate as the ones with love? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joon 8,222 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 I make my own money. I'd like him to work, but could care less what he brings in. As long as he is contributing and not being a freeloader... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugarrune 955 Posted December 25, 2013 Author Share Posted December 25, 2013 But are they as joyful and passionate as the ones with love?well obviously the passion and love doesnt last long.Because divorce rates are high and most married people seem miserable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinypuffling 943 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 when he was dirt poor i bet he was in school or working hard. He had potential. That's true.. I suppose dating a really poor guy who doesn't want to improve at all means that the girl doesn't mind living on the poor side. Maybe he gives her other things like companionship and laughter to fulfill the relationship. Not all people in the world prioritizes money, although its a great bonus if you have it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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