Rene. 2,660 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 So I heard Kai is not promoting with my other boys, and even though I knew this was coming...I just felt so overwhelmingly sad, like I started crying...ugh i can't explain...this shit has never happened to me before, even though I started KPOP a long long time back. I am legit confused, I even self-banned because I thought being here would trigger it, but seeing the MV which is really lit and the boys, I unbanned again. I mean I thought I wasn't one of those stans living off of oppars...I guess i was wrong KPOP is packaged really good TBH...stans get so emotionally involved its almost impossible to come out. Anyway...Hope he gets better soon But I am really glad he is getting his much needed rest...I wanted this to happen for quite some time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Channie Tatum 3,017 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 You should be happy though because he could get that back surgery he needs so bad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dianun 2,094 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 Its normal as long as you don't start to want or plan(or think) to kidnap them and hold them hostage for the other members.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mog 5,083 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 I think it's normal to feel "attached" to anything you immerse yourself in so heavily emotionally, which many people do when it comes to their favs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shitty deku 990 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 it's normal but know your limitation Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NINI 16,268 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 I feel the same as you for the same reason and also for the same person. When it's about Jongin... Well, I just can't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alissa 206 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 Its normal as long as you don't start to want or plan(or think) to kidnap them and hold them hostage for the other members.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rene. 2,660 Posted August 18, 2016 Author Share Posted August 18, 2016 You should be happy though because he could get that back surgery he needs so bad I certainly am...I wanted this to happen since long Its normal as long as you don't start to want or plan(or think) to kidnap them and hold them hostage for the other members.... lol OMG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluecottoncandy 5,770 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 It is. As long as you don't think he owes you anything and you don't become obsessive it's okay also welcome back <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
veda 443 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 Don't lie, you just want to avoid being late and having us call you flop stan again. As long as you know your limits yo... I for one, is glad he's taking time off to heal properly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dianun 2,094 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 lol OMG...I love all of them tho Exactly!!!! As you kidnap the member which you believe they would trade for any other member to get back and hold them for ransom you get yours friends to kidnap the rest of the members while they are coming to you for the exchange. And at the exchange you take that member and run with the member you already had to begin with. Thus you get all of them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mogwai 15,203 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 I got upset when Kai got injured and when Chen lost a shit ton of weight last year so you're not alone at least. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Serenee 3,730 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 Once you start to invest time and emotions into something, you'll end up being attached too. It's normal as soon as you are not extreme. I understand your feelings. I am mad when I hear people talking crap about my biases, especially Taeyeon. I am always like 'Ah, why I am like that? I shouldn't let what some people say about my bias bring my mood down!', but it does. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ror_minki 126 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 this is such a bad news.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rene. 2,660 Posted August 18, 2016 Author Share Posted August 18, 2016 It is. As long as you don't think he owes you anything and you don't become obsessive it's okay also welcome back <3 Thanx Don't lie, you just want to avoid being late and having us call you flop stan again. As long as you know your limits yo... I for one, is glad he's taking time off to heal properly. LMAO...don't remind me of that flop thread Exactly!!!! As you kidnap the member which you believe they would trade for any other member to get back and hold them for ransom you get yours friends to kidnap the rest of the members while they are coming to you for the exchange. And at the exchange you take that member and run with the member you already had to begin with. Thus you get all of them. Thats such an elaborate plan tho Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JSDOJDODJU 1,051 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 Its normal as long as you don't start to want or plan(or think) to kidnap them and hold them hostage for the other members.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
11minuteslater 858 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 As long as it harmless. Personally I'm really saddened by Baekhyun's weight loss. A lot of people were flopping about his abs, and I'm still sad when I look at how thin his face, legs and hips have become. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yehettime 161 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 I feel u Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
veda 443 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 LMAO...don't remind me of that flop thread Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baiichi 3,992 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 I'm attached to Chen a lot, too. I can't help it really. I really love him Maybe it's because I devoted a lot of my time to watch him, it's become this way. I understand your feeling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blank 5,822 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 Yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MIZUZU 586 Posted August 19, 2016 Share Posted August 19, 2016 it's normal dear. you're not alone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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