IAMPEACH 483 Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 I can't even sleep. I became friends with this one guy. He seemed really cool at first , but things started to get weird really fast. Every time he called me he would stay on the line for hours. I would say that I wanted to hang up, but then he would get upset and tell me that he would wait until I finished what ever I was doing. One phone call lasted 7 hours yo. About 3 months ago I put an end to that, but he would still chat with me occasionally. about a month ago we signed up for the same test and he told me the center he planned on going to. When I chose a different center he threw a huge fit. He was literally yelling at me over the phone and started talking about who and who i should not hang out with. Of course I wasn't going to take that bs so I hung up. Things have been quiet for a month because I blocked him on everything, but today I heard about what he was saying about me. Apparently i'm fake, a hoe and a bitch. What really scares me is that apparently he never stops talking about me and how he wishes I didn't exist. what should I do fr. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glow 2,321 Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 That's so creepy, he sounds really possessive and controlling. Blocking him was definitely the right thing to do Avoid him as best you can, and block him on all social media/stop him from contacting you in any way. Maybe tell some people close to you about how unsafe you feel so they can look out for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thigh-high feminist 15,771 Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 Wow, he's controlling and scary, alert your parents. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OldCottonAccount 3,332 Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 Was there like anything there between you two like anything at all? If not then he likes you and is being very possessive, I'm guessing he doesn't have a lot of friends and is trying to cling to you right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darling 1,107 Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 I would probably tell my parents Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snowflakes 279 Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 Tell you parents. He's seems the type who don't afraid to hurt you if you don't agree with him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IAMPEACH 483 Posted August 15, 2016 Author Share Posted August 15, 2016 Was there like anything there between you two like anything at all? If not then he likes you and is being very possessive, I'm guessing he doesn't have a lot of friends and is trying to cling to you right? I thought that he might have had a crush on me, but one time he made a point of telling me that i'm not his type lmao. I personally never had like romantic feelings or whatever. He has friends, but then he doesn't. Like I don't think they like him that much. They are the ones who are relaying this information to me with screen shots Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JSDOJDODJU 1,051 Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 That's so creepy, he sounds really possessive and controlling. Blocking him was definitely the right thing to do Avoid him as best you can, and block him on all social media/stop him from contacting you in any way. Maybe tell some people close to you about how unsafe you feel so they can look out for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leerhiyel 1,546 Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 What?! That's so creepy! Like others said, you should tell your parents. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluecottoncandy 5,770 Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 tell your parents and alert the police, if things get out of hand maybe even get a restraining order Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Llamaber 3,052 Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 That's so creepy, he sounds really possessive and controlling. Blocking him was definitely the right thing to do Avoid him as best you can, and block him on all social media/stop him from contacting you in any way. Maybe tell some people close to you about how unsafe you feel so they can look out for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thatoneuser 3,235 Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 A simillar thing happened to me in high school. I blocked the guy was obsessed with me and after that all he did was talk about me nonstop. So I confronted him infront of the whole school to get him to stop. Now I'm not saying you should do that because I don't know if your guy is violent or what not but I would try to confront him about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miaissocoollike 1,248 Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 Basing from what I just read, he's really possessive and has anger issues. Stay away from him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bom 2,161 Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 That's so creepy I know you've blocked him but make sure there's no way at all he can contact you, let your parents and friends know what's going on so they can protect you. I had to deal with a total creep when I was 16, I know how awful it is. ♥ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vocabulary 890 Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 Collect evidence of whatever if he did to you. If he doesn't stop with the bitching (he's smearing your rep), threaten to report him to the police. It may seem like a petty case, but I doubt u need to report. He should back off by then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeoIsLovely 40 Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 Just ignore him like you have been doing and he will likely move onto his next "friend" when he gets tired of shit talking you. It seems like his friends know what kind of person he is and probably wary of him themselves. I think you should tell your parents if you still feel threatened by him and they can help talk to your school and his parents. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♥ jae's bae ♥ 740 Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 Like someone said before, get your evidence that you can show. Tell your parents and if it gets worse let someone else (in a higher position know). I've been in a similar situation where a guy actually started following me home, calling me at 4 in the morning and the police had to get involved. Everything will be okay if you do something now rather than later Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hermit_Kingdom 1,525 Posted August 16, 2016 Share Posted August 16, 2016 Tell your parents/authorities and keep yourself safe. This guy is probably dangerous. And whatever anyone tells you, you owe him absolutely nothing. So sorry this is happening. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hailanal 165 Posted August 16, 2016 Share Posted August 16, 2016 if they are the ones sending you the screenshots, it'll be easy for you to inform them that what he's saying is incorrect. you could tell them exactly what you have told us, or a watered down version and END HIMMMMMMM Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suzy Quatro 1,441 Posted August 17, 2016 Share Posted August 17, 2016 If things keep up like this I would warn him about telling your parents and police, but if you're already quite freaked out you should just do it right away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miharudesu 1,916 Posted August 19, 2016 Share Posted August 19, 2016 Yeah. I agree with what everyone said. Be safe! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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