vocabulary 890 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 Do any of u feel like you have low sex drive or that you're asexual? Or do u just suspect that you're asexual?If yes, how do u feel about it? Do you want to change it, or are you fine with it? Does/did it affect your relationship(s)? Yeah, these are legitimate questions. Would greatly appreciate replies :3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#DIAMOND 735 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 Idk what sexuality I am and tbh idrc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sakurahanabira 6,634 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 I'm asexual and I'm fine with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Almondandlime 6,854 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 I've always said that I was "asexual, or something close enough to it." My feelings about it vary. When I was younger, I felt 100% comfortable with it and didn't want to change it at all, but as I've been growing older, I've definitely become less comfortable with it as I've confronted the reality of how important sex is for the vast majority of people. When you're a kid in school, there's really no need for a (romatic-sexual) relationship because your pals are always there for you, but as you get further into the "adult world," people start spending less and less time with friends, and you really need a significant other if you want to have a fulfilling relationship with someone. I feel like I'll probably have more luck with a women in terms of a partner who's more willing to 'compromise' on sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moya 1,405 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 I am asexual. Personally I'm fine with it, but if I could choose I would like to change it for sake of my boyfriend. It didnt affect my relationship in any way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowbox. 126 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 I'm now 20 and wondered why I never had the sexual drive as my classmates and friends around my age... that's how I realized I was asexual and had zero sex drive. I feel fine with it. I'm happy the way I am I can't say that I would or wouldn't change it since I don't know the other side. It does affect my relationships. Must people after some years of dating (others month) wait for things to happen... But I'm also happy being out of relationships Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vocabulary 890 Posted July 26, 2016 Author Share Posted July 26, 2016 I've always said that I was "asexual, or something close enough to it." My feelings about it vary. When I was younger, I felt 100% comfortable with it and didn't want to change it at all, but as I've been growing older, I've definitely become less comfortable with it as I've confronted the reality of how important sex is for the vast majority of people. When you're a kid in school, there's really no need for a (romatic-sexual) relationship because your pals are always there for you, but as you get further into the "adult world," people start spending less and less time with friends, and you really need a significant other if you want to have a fulfilling relationship with someone. I feel like I'll probably have more luck with a women in terms of a partner who's more willing to 'compromise' on sex. I feel the same way as you, even more so because I'm not the type to go out and make friends. I may very well end up dying alone. (And j don't like cats.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funnyguy_69 236 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 I used to think I was asexual but then I realized how much I like giving bj's and I know there's nothing asexual about that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redmists 66 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 I’m asexual – more on the demi/gray spectrum of asexuality. I’m highly visual and looks are a very important factor when I’m considering a romantic relationship with someone. Despite that, I rarely fall in love and have very high ideals about love. Being a demi, I need to form a very, very close emotional bond with the person before I would even want to consider having sex with him. And even then, I might not. Though ironically, I have a very rich imagination, ahem. I’m fine with my asexuality. It doesn’t affect my relationships per se, but I’m someone who is very clear about what I want and the type of person I am looking to settle down with; most people don’t “do it for meâ€. And I’ve yet to meet that special person. Previous partners/dates didn’t “make the cut†for a variety of reasons. Also, overly-sexual potential romantic partners are a HUGE turnoff to me, like I’ll literally drop the person if he gets overbearingly sexual. I’d only be with someone who has a similar disinterest in sex as me. Edit to add that I agree with a poster above. As one gets older, you see less and less of your friends and your social circle starts shrinking as friends start dropping off for a variety of reasons. That's when I feel that I really long for a romantic partner, mostly cause my partners are almost always my best friend - I share everything with them. I hope I don't die alone! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oli London 1,762 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 There was a time I was sure I was asexual, but now I'm not so sure. I don't really care if I am or not. I guess it does affect my ability to get intimate with someone, but if I never get close with anyone, then it's not a problem for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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