Moonsus 2,143 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#DIAMOND 735 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 What does that have to do with anything? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glow 2,321 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 Yeah, I don't see why that would be a problem. Those people usually need love/support more than ever so they deserve to date someone who really cares about them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suga's GF 3,185 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 ???????? why not ?????????? who cares ??????????? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Night Daydreamer 1,091 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 Yes. I would be a hypocrite if I didn't, since I have tried it myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
90's Baby 5,035 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 yes, why not? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moonsus 2,143 Posted July 26, 2016 Author Share Posted July 26, 2016 Yeah, I don't see why that would be a problem. Those people usually need love/support more than ever so they deserve to date someone who really cares about themA lot of people have prejudice towards them... Specially if they have scars or stuff. I am one myself so I know how hard it is Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Llamaber 3,052 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 Yes. Why should that be a problem? A decent human being will not include an attempt of suicide as a criteria of choosing their partner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedPanny 197 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 Yes. I would be a hypocrite if I didn't, since I have tried it myself. tbh^^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tuttygrant 95 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 Of course! I would love this person even more <3333 would take care of this person! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Llamaber 3,052 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 A lot of people have prejudice towards them... Specially if they have scars or stuff. I am one myself so I know how hard it is The world is very judgmental but that doesn't mean that there aren't people who will accept you for who you are, and not for things such as scars (emotional and physical) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akpopfan 4,319 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 Yeah, I don't see why that would be a problem. Those people usually need love/support more than ever so they deserve to date someone who really cares about them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tzustice4Tzuyu 429 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 No. Mental illness never truly goes away especially if it's something as serious as attempted suicide. It's an invisible scar that stays with someone forever (I can attest to this on a personal level). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tehweirdo 141 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 People who say otherwise probably aren't mature enough for a relationship in general things like this shouldn't matter Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlothEmbodiment 756 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 yes, definitely! <333 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beary Blue 421 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 Yeah, I don't see why that would be a problem. Those people usually need love/support more than ever so they deserve to date someone who really cares about them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kookiekandlez 165 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 So the situation is they wanna date me and we're friends and I know this information? Or we're dating and they tell me this information shortly after we start seeing each other? I guess it just depends on a lot of factors, like how I feel about them, when and how they tell me, etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starlight 1,108 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 Yes, if I cared for them and they cared for me in the same way then I would want to be with them, and hopefully they'd be at a better place in life than they were when they attempted to end their life. If they can accept me with my autism and weird quirks then I can accept them and their past. I would rather offer them support than judge them for something like that. It happened. They can't change that. Just like there are things in my past that can't be changed. You have to move forward I think, not forgetting your past but remembering and learning from it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GiganticMint121 764 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 I already have. And it was a pretty bad experience for me, but I'm going to blame that on the individual person and not the mental illness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
양 지 10,015 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 If I cared enough, it just depends on the person. Tbh though to help someone through that kind of thing is pretty tough (speaking as someone who has friends who have suffered through anxiety and depression), its not as easy as to just say that they deserve someone that loves them enough (sometimes you'll hate them and they'll hate you) so I wouldn't exactly actively pursue it or anything. However again if I end up really liking someone then I wouldn't mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*lesigh* 6,759 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 Of course! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormie 688 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 I wouldn’t, it’ crappy of me but I’ve been there [dated someone like that] and it’s so unbelievably tiring and heartbreaking. I mean, if it was distant past and they’ve had counselling and/or psychological help, if there are no suicidal thoughts anymore and hasn’t been for a while [a long while, years!] then I guess it’s been okay but I wouldn’t actively go out of my way to date someone who’s recently had suicidal thoughts. Edit: I want to add to this that I’m not totally stable myself, it’s not that I have an issue with someone’s scars, it’s that it wouldn’t be good for the other person to be with me if I can’t emotionally support them to the degree they need it. The reason I won’t date them isn’t because of them, it’s because I am not good enough to take care of them like I would want to, or like they would need….. in closing, I suck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B612 22,399 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 I already have. And it was a pretty bad experience for me, but I'm going to blame that on the individual person and not the mental illness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamayam 1,081 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 Probably not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisi 130 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 It depends. Yes if they are currently medicated and is going to theraphy. Not too sure if they're not and refuse to get help. I can't...support and help you all by myself. You're going to need to get professional help. I know mental illness doesn't go away, but professional help can make it so it doesn't get in the way of your daily life. (Or end up being an extremly extremly heavy weight for those around you to carry.) I've had to cut myself off of someone that wouldn't want to get help but complained about it a lot and it was just so...draining. I can not handle that at all. I can't keep trying to lift you up and cheer you up as you seem to get worse each day and not getting any professional help. I just can't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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