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My bf slapped his female friends thigh right in front of me. I saw him tickling her earlier and it annoyed me, he's very touchy with her and in the past it bothered me because I thought he was only like that with me. So when he slapped her thigh ( she was wearing short shorts ) I tried to hold it in but then I started crying and left. When he asked me what's wrong, i yelled at him to leave. This was in front of his female friend and his male friend, so I'm kind of worried I look crazy for being so upset. I told him after and he said he didn't mean to do it sexually, and that he would slap his guy friends like that too. What do you guys think?

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Nope I would've been upset too. If you're dating me you're not going to get all touchy feely with other people. Not on my watch. Idk if they were birthed in the same room with their mamas holding hands and pushing together. Most people know to have this basic respect for their significant other. Maybe it doesn't really mean anything and he's just oblivious to his actions but definitely have a talk with him about it.

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Hmm... just tell him straight up you're uncomfortable seeing it and it really hurts.

Yeah I have told him before but you know I hesitated to keep bringing it up since she's a good friend of his. I asked him the question if he would be fine with guys doing that to me and he didn't even answer and kept on apologizing. :/

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tell him you feel really uncomfortable with how he is acting about it and what he did if he does not understand then break up 

or you can be really troll-like about it and bring over some hot male friends of yours and slap their asses and be really sexual with them

muhahahaaha you can lick their lips and rub your chest in their faces and tell him it's not sexual we are only friends <3  :happy:

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Nope I would've been upset too. If you're dating me you're not going to get all touchy feely with other people. Not on my watch. Idk if they were birthed in the same room with their mamas holding hands and pushing together. Most people know to have this basic respect for their significant other. Maybe it doesn't really mean anything and he's just oblivious to his actions but definitely have a talk with him about it.

Yeah it makes me really uncomfortable because I thought I was special to him. I don't think he respects me at all , if he did he would consider my feelings and stop when I told him I didn't like it. I feel like he treats all his female friends like this.

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Just be clear about your self to him first, some guys have bad habit with their female friends, If both of you can't compromised and you feel like you can't take it then just brake up, I hate a girl who suddenly want to brake up out of blue with out proper talk/discussion first.

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Tell him you are uncomfortable with that. It bothers me if he did that to his friends without feel any sexually, then if he did that to you, does he feels sexually or not? (I really hope so!) I hope everything goes well between you and your partner

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If ur bf really meant it u can overlook it, dont take it so seriously to heart to upset both. A habit doesn't change easily so u'd better not expect too much. But if he keeps going more than that u should give some warning, if he still insists w himself then think twice about your relationship.

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