taro 383 Posted July 25, 2016 Share Posted July 25, 2016 My bf slapped his female friends thigh right in front of me. I saw him tickling her earlier and it annoyed me, he's very touchy with her and in the past it bothered me because I thought he was only like that with me. So when he slapped her thigh ( she was wearing short shorts ) I tried to hold it in but then I started crying and left. When he asked me what's wrong, i yelled at him to leave. This was in front of his female friend and his male friend, so I'm kind of worried I look crazy for being so upset. I told him after and he said he didn't mean to do it sexually, and that he would slap his guy friends like that too. What do you guys think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baiichi 3,992 Posted July 25, 2016 Share Posted July 25, 2016 So if your guy friend slapped your thigh like that, would he be okay? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnonVIP 2,461 Posted July 25, 2016 Share Posted July 25, 2016 So if your guy friend slapped your thigh like that, would he be okay? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nev Schulman 7,939 Posted July 25, 2016 Share Posted July 25, 2016 So if your guy friend slapped your thigh like that, would he be okay? ask him that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taro 383 Posted July 25, 2016 Author Share Posted July 25, 2016 So if your guy friend slapped your thigh like that, would he be okay? you know what's sad is that he probably would not care, if I asked him right now he would say, that it would be fine since we are friends. You know, to justify himself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nev Schulman 7,939 Posted July 25, 2016 Share Posted July 25, 2016 you know what's sad is that he probably would not care, if I asked him right now he would say, that it would be fine since we are friends. You know, to justify himself. Hmm... just tell him straight up you're uncomfortable seeing it and it really hurts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BadBadNotGood 11,616 Posted July 25, 2016 Share Posted July 25, 2016 Nope I would've been upset too. If you're dating me you're not going to get all touchy feely with other people. Not on my watch. Idk if they were birthed in the same room with their mamas holding hands and pushing together. Most people know to have this basic respect for their significant other. Maybe it doesn't really mean anything and he's just oblivious to his actions but definitely have a talk with him about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hangry 1,124 Posted July 25, 2016 Share Posted July 25, 2016 break up with him tbh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taro 383 Posted July 25, 2016 Author Share Posted July 25, 2016 Hmm... just tell him straight up you're uncomfortable seeing it and it really hurts. Yeah I have told him before but you know I hesitated to keep bringing it up since she's a good friend of his. I asked him the question if he would be fine with guys doing that to me and he didn't even answer and kept on apologizing. :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sexy Wang 1,541 Posted July 25, 2016 Share Posted July 25, 2016 tell him you feel really uncomfortable with how he is acting about it and what he did if he does not understand then break up or you can be really troll-like about it and bring over some hot male friends of yours and slap their asses and be really sexual with them muhahahaaha you can lick their lips and rub your chest in their faces and tell him it's not sexual we are only friends <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taro 383 Posted July 25, 2016 Author Share Posted July 25, 2016 Nope I would've been upset too. If you're dating me you're not going to get all touchy feely with other people. Not on my watch. Idk if they were birthed in the same room with their mamas holding hands and pushing together. Most people know to have this basic respect for their significant other. Maybe it doesn't really mean anything and he's just oblivious to his actions but definitely have a talk with him about it. Yeah it makes me really uncomfortable because I thought I was special to him. I don't think he respects me at all , if he did he would consider my feelings and stop when I told him I didn't like it. I feel like he treats all his female friends like this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Irene Is Love 1,451 Posted July 25, 2016 Share Posted July 25, 2016 Just be clear about your self to him first, some guys have bad habit with their female friends, If both of you can't compromised and you feel like you can't take it then just brake up, I hate a girl who suddenly want to brake up out of blue with out proper talk/discussion first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KillinTea 933 Posted July 25, 2016 Share Posted July 25, 2016 Maybe it was a little to much to yell at him but you have the right to be upset Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Takamina 2,713 Posted July 25, 2016 Share Posted July 25, 2016 Tell him you are uncomfortable with that. It bothers me if he did that to his friends without feel any sexually, then if he did that to you, does he feels sexually or not? (I really hope so!) I hope everything goes well between you and your partner Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mon chan 4,645 Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 If ur bf really meant it u can overlook it, dont take it so seriously to heart to upset both. A habit doesn't change easily so u'd better not expect too much. But if he keeps going more than that u should give some warning, if he still insists w himself then think twice about your relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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