Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 So this story started in August or so, when I went back to my old job I left for camp for the entire summer. They always hire new kiddos during the summer. When I came back, among the little kiddos, there was a guy that was rlly mature and tall. He used to talk about electrical engineering, so I assumed he was studying that at university, and was in University. He was rlly cute and all so I was kinda crushing on him. THAT IS, UNTIL HE TOLD ME HE FUCKING TURNED 16 (in October). That was the end of it for me. I am studying to become a teacher, and he was in grade 10 (there aren't any grade 12, but we have 2 years of college before uni so that makes us 4 years apart). Tonight was our christmas party at work and we spent it together since he's one of the closest buds at work I have and he was rlly touchy. I drove him back home with another girl and dropped him off first and as soon as he stepped out of the car she told me: "That guy is so in love with you omg" and now I'm so confused because it is 1. immoral af and 2. she told me he'd rlly be my type if he was older, which is true... halp. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WhaleWhisper 5,249 Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
milup 1,920 Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 you do nothing because its wrong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted December 16, 2013 Author Share Posted December 16, 2013 you do nothing because its wrong dating a 16yo is legal in my country. Your definition of "wrong" does not apply to everyone. Also, I think so too I am just confused lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
denizen mars 5,911 Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 don't date him unless he's still around and available after he turns 18. I had a thing with a 15 year old when I was 18 and a senior (in high school. obviously), and all my friends kept calling me a pedo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted December 16, 2013 Author Share Posted December 16, 2013 don't date him unless he's still around and available after he turns 18. I had a thing with a 15 year old when I was 18 and a senior (in high school. obviously), and all my friends kept calling me a pedo. all my friends are like: "wait til he's 18" or "the only thing that matters is how you feel" or "if you like him it's okay" and I'm all THIS IS REAL LIFE NOT A SHOUJO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dinolover 3,610 Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO STOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP YOU CANT FUCK HIM Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss.Miss 8,896 Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 Think about it for another 3-4 years, or until you're at the same stage as adults (if it's worth it) or just move on. Otherwise right now you're just friends and there's nothing to do, unless you think it'll be complicated because of all the added feelings, in which case you might want to keep some distance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted December 16, 2013 Author Share Posted December 16, 2013 NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO STOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP YOU CANT FUCK HIM never planned to fuck him DEAR LORD NO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Timelady 1,256 Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 Stay away. It is not worth all the trouble. Plus, he is only 16 and still has to go through a lot. You should probably focus elsewhere at the moment. At least it's just a crush. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mgl 5,919 Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 Keep in touch and try in a few years when he's older, and if he's still your type. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted December 16, 2013 Author Share Posted December 16, 2013 Stay away. It is not worth all the trouble. Plus, he is only 16 and still has to go through a lot. You should probably focus elsewhere at the moment. At least it's just a crush. He is very mature and has gone through a lot alrdy and we have srs adult talks together which is why I thought he was in uni like me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Virgin Mary's Vagina 107 Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 aren't you into someone else rn? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted December 16, 2013 Author Share Posted December 16, 2013 aren't you into someone else rn? YES WHICH IS WHY I AM CONFUSEDDDD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Virgin Mary's Vagina 107 Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 YES WHICH IS WHY I AM CONFUSEDDDD ask yourself which one is hotter then go with it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nekci 1,995 Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 Wait Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dinolover 3,610 Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 never planned to fuck him DEAR LORD NO IM NOT EVEN SURE HE HAD HIS WET DREAM YET DONT DO FROMAGE THE OMELETTE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
detonation 173 Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 You should probably not engage him in anything other than friendly banter. Wait, until he's 18 idk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted December 16, 2013 Author Share Posted December 16, 2013 ask yourself which one is hotter then go with it they both hot srs and mature but le 16yo is more of my type than the other, since all my friends were surprised/shocked when I told them about the uni guy IM NOT EVEN SURE HE HAD HIS WET DREAM YET DONT DO FROMAGE THE OMELETTE boys hit puberty around 13 lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saekutoxxx 708 Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 nahh I tell you these kids are everywhere, dressed in their school uniform, hitting on girls way older >.> in all seriousness, il est un peu jeune, 16, il lui reste encore un an et demi avant la fin du secondaire...genre que tu vas aller au ball avec lui :/ you should probably wait, not avoid him entirely, but yeah not get into a serious relationship with him, même si c'est légal... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted December 16, 2013 Author Share Posted December 16, 2013 nahh I tell you these kids are everywhere, dressed in their school uniform, hitting on girls way older >.> in all seriousness, il est un peu jeune, 16, il lui reste encore un an et demi avant la fin du secondaire...genre que tu vas aller au ball avec lui :/ you should probably wait, not avoid him entirely, but yeah not get into a serious relationship with him, même si c'est légal... I am starting my first stage in january and could've ended up with him as a student so... Zidnejxjxmckdjsnsldms Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saekutoxxx 708 Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 I am starting my first stage in january and could've ended up with him as a student so... Zidnejxjxmckdjsnsldms yeah, risky af honestly. if you don't have him in your class (un gros si), his friends could be there, hockey team or just about any kid he knows :/ you should stay friends for now. idk I say that cause my brother's 17 is it looks weird to me.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted December 16, 2013 Author Share Posted December 16, 2013 yeah, risky af honestly. if you don't have him in your class (un gros si), his friends could be there, hockey team or just about any kid he knows :/ you should stay friends for now. idk I say that cause my brother's 17 is it looks weird to me.. I am not doing my stage in his school thankfully but I have never gotten along with someone so well before Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honey Thighs 7,431 Posted December 16, 2013 Share Posted December 16, 2013 16? Probably a virgin ---> looking to get his dick wet Stay away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted December 16, 2013 Author Share Posted December 16, 2013 16? Probably a virgin ---> looking to get his dick wet Stay away. I dont mind virgins but yeah I would hate to be a student fantasy of some kind Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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